Knowing when to pull the plug on a Thai girlfriend is something every guy who comes to Thailand should know or maybe you’ve been living in Thailand for years now and your stuck in a relationship you think isn’t going anywhere, maybe it’s time to go your separate ways.
1. Your Thai girlfriend worked as a prostitute or worked within the vicinity of prostitutes
If your Thai girlfriend used to work in a bar or GoGo club then you must dump her immediately period. I don’t care if she was the cashier at the club or “just a server” she is surrounded by Thai’s who in the western world would be concidered “bad news”. Would you date a girl like this back home?
2. Your Thai girlfriend cheated on you
Once a cheater always a cheater and in Thailand that could mean you end up with an exotic disease. I’m not talking about a drunk makeout session i’m talking about going to lengths to meet other guys, if she says she’s “just friends” kick her to the curb.
3. Your Thai girlfriend is super jealous
In my experience most Thai girls I’ve ever dated have been jealous but that’s a natural thing for all girls Thai or Farang. The difference or perhaps the line that get’s crossed is when she starts calling the other girls, following you around and general stalker behaviour. If it’s already at this point you’re going to have a tough time even getting rid of her so that’s why you should do it immediately before it gets to the chopping your dick off stage.
4. Your Thai girlfriend is abusive
Does your Thai girlfriend hit you? Does she scream at you? Does she cuss at you a lot? As soon as this starts happening you should get rid of the girl immediately, it might even mean you have to move apartments as well, she’s a psycho bitch and things will only get worse. Time to tell her to pack her bags.
5. Your Thai girlfriend gets annoyed at everything you do
This could work both ways as well like if you get annoyed at everything she does as well. This is a sign that things just arn’t working out. It’s a physiological response to the fact that either you or her just don’t like each other anymore. Take the warning sign and give her the divorce papers immediately.
5. She’s ugly
I can never understand with all the beautiful women in Thailand and the available selection of good looking Thai girls that decent looking guys come to Thailand and end up dating some really hideous girls. Hey I know some less than average girls, and sure i might have done them also but to make one my girlfriend, sorry bro that ain’t going to happen. If she’s ugly get rid of her now.
6. Your Thai girlfriend has unresolved addictions
Does she smoke, do drugs, or gamble? Especially gambling then get rid of her now. People rarely come out of addictions especially those with an addictive personality more than likely you’re going to end up paying for these addictions as well. Maybe you like her because your into these things as well, is she really going to make you a better person if she’s just like you? This kind of girl can be fun so make her a gik not a wife.
7. Your Thai girlfriends family are leeches
Actually this reason for dumping your Thai girlfriend should even be ranked higher than 7 but it’s just a list and not in any order. The family asking for money is the one reason why you should break up with her immediately. Things are never going to improve and even if you gave her family a million dollars there will be a time they’ll come back and ask for more. Does your Thai girlfriend have a mother that calls her only when she needs money? And you don’t need to speak Thai to know this because after she get’s the call that day she will ask to send money. A family who is not fiscally sound or fiscally responsible will transcend to their kids. Stay with this girl and you’ll be broke in a few years. Break it off now!
8. Your Thai girlfriend is lazy
If you’re girlfriend keeps a messy house, can’t cook, and lacks any ambition then what are you doing with her? If it’s just for the sex hell you can have 10 giks to do that for you without the emotional hassle. You’re better off single.
9. Your Thai girlfriend lies about everything
If your Thai girlfriend tells you little lies that you know about then don’t let her on because she’s likely to slip up on a big lie as well. Thai girls who lie will lie forever you can’t change them nor can you trust them. The only good thing to do with a liar is to get rid of ‘em.
10. She doesn’t love you the same way you love her
If a relationship is unevenly balanced where someone loves the other person more than the other person loves them then save yourself a lot of heartache and call it quits immediately, it’s never going to work out.
Finally if you have to dump your Thai girlfriend it’s OK it’s not the end of the world, there are so many good Thai girls out there simply sign up to any of the Thai dating sites and you’ll see first hand how many girls wanna date you.
tfw you realize none of these things apply
LOL, as I read this (no joke), I have a girl here in my room. Just had our fun, then went to eat and are back at my place. Her boyfriend just called (I knew about this) and she is upset at him for going out to walking street with his buddy. She thinks he did short time. ummmmm, but what about her. Oh thats different because he said he didn’t go short time, but she told him she stay in her room and didn’t mention me at all. LOL. Anyway, funny stuff. She asked me what phone she should ask him to buy her. I said, which is easiest to sell. She laughed. I told her to use the phone while he is still here and then sell it and then when he comes back tell him it was stolen and you were embarrassed to tell him, and he will buy you another. Maybe I should stop giving her advice. Anyway, I hope he likes her new flavor.
Hope you both like each other’s flavor. In fact, why don’t you just skip the girl and do each other.
I gotta say I’m not fond of falangs that do this stuff to other falangs. Back when I first moved to Thailand I used to think I was clever / cool doing this – but it’s just straight up sucking up to them. Next time they do that tell them they’re out of order.
Some good comments Chris.
I have a question about the dick chopping.
When a girl starts to talk about that but she is just joking.
Should I be worried and run as fast as I can?
Because I go back to Europe for 3 months and she was talking about chopping it off so she could play with it.
If you’re going back to your own country for 3 months you should break it off now and make her your gik because seriously 3 months is a long time, pleny of more girls to be played while your preparing for your thai girl celibacy when you return home
I just tease them back once (the first time they talk about chopping), and say, oh, yes and I can cut (and make a distinct motion with each tit). Usually she is slightly concerned and I smile and tell her to never mention again because I think she look better with tits. 100% of the time they have never joked about it again. If I ever come accross one that jokes again, and doesn’t get it or is green-eyed, just get a new one. Don’t let the joke go unanswered. I think LOS is at the top of the list for dick cutting by jealous womens.
Thats the same name as her boyfriend. lolz joking. You do make a good point
If I didn’t know thai (listening is the most important) at the level I do, I would have probably not found out but evenso there are always clues. She’ll hang out more when he goes back home. She has some fleecing to do first. Better him than me.
the ugly factor is an interesting one, most expat suits that have spent time in bangkok almost always have an average to ugly wife, hmmmmm theres a reason for this. Jealousy is another, I did,nt think a thai women existed that did,nt exhibit the green eyed monster in unhealthy portions. Well thats good to hear theres exceptions…would you say they are rare?
11. If you hear the phrase “Up to you” one more time you may explode.
It was god to read this and confirm my plans. I had already made this decision a few weeks ago… She ticks 1, 2, 5, 7, 8 & 9…
I’ve just gotta play nice until i can come back and get all of my shit out of the room before I send her packing…
Thanks for the comment you just gave me an awesome idea for a post!
might want to find a new room too…..and a new part of town
Super agree my friend, My situatiation is a little more complex than that.. We have a house a small company in Thai , I have a company in the UK and we have cars and motorbikes ETC…..To give all this up will require a lot of hard thinking on my behalf, as i said in one of my posts, i am seriouslt concidering Chi9na next….Be well sir and make sure you make the right move..
Kenny SiRatcha Chonburi..
“7. Your Thai girlfriends family are leeches”
…” A family who is not fiscally sound or fiscally responsible will transcend to their kids. Stay with this girl and you’ll be broke in a few years. Break it off now!”
7′s a good reason to dump but not for this reason. The leech one is so bad because of the brain-washing that leads the girl to cough up, regardless of the behaviour of the family, however many times they do it and what effect it has on everyone. If they’re always mindlessly going to cough up to a stupid/irresponsible/addicted/greedy/evil parent or sibling, what kind of future is there?
don’t ‘do’ GF’s is the answer WTF for?
too many free girls around – and they can get hurt – it’s a ‘no do’ here dudes
I have hurt many Thai girls….I like to think i did it on purpose to avenge my Western Brothers BUT i probably was just shag happy telling them they beutiful and all that rubbish…
I still get Emails from Girls of 2 or 3 years ago…Must be the Beast in me, Girls say “I want good man”…But they want bad man really…Im the baddest of the lot…Why they stalk me once they find this out…
So it happens, some Thai girls do acctually fall in love. If we strong we take advantage of this and an old saying in UK poss other areas in the west “Treat them mean keeps Em kean” So true…
One time a few weks ago i walked past a bar in pattaya and a girl called me over, “I will pay you to f–k me she said…I had my GF sister waiting for me around the corner so i just said Som nam Na and walked away…
Why did no one mention that thai girls don’t know English? It’s a real pain to have a conversation with someone who speak English the way most thai girls do.
I didn’t mention it because I can’t stand it when chicks speak English, they get a superiority complex much like many newbie English teachers in Thailand. F that shit. So i guess yes, if she speaks English exceptionally well, dump her immediately.
Exactly the opposite. I mean that if she does speak English well, it’s a reason not to dump her.
I disagree, I don’t like girls that speak English well, it’s a turn off.
I hate to admit it but one of your 1/10 is me all over..
3. Your Thai girlfriend is super jealous
In my experience most Thai girls I’ve ever dated have been jealous but that’s a natural thing for all girls Thai or Farang. The difference or perhaps the line that get’s crossed is when she starts calling the other girls, following you around and general stalker behaviour. If it’s already at this point you’re going to have a tough time even getting rid of her so that’s why you should do it immediately before it gets to the chopping your dick off stage.
At one stage i had to phone up some girlm i helped out with a few thousand baht, Quite or a bit innocent, she and my soon to be Ex started the Thai talking sister this and sister that…After a couple of weeks of hearing this shit i decided to phone the other girl in front of my Jealous Bitch (Who really thought she had found a best friend who hated me)
The fist words to come out of this Bangkok girls mouth was Hello darling, i saw the look of horror in my Fiances face so i continued Just to proof this Bangkok girl was no Pee Ka of My dilusional gf….I want to get back to the me of 2 years ago..Driving around Isan and picking up Girls many with used visas to european countries Hence Other farang Boy friends..Some bad Girls among us chris or i am just so irresistable the girls cant help it..Only problem is they expect me to fall in love with them…
I was just playing a game..The fact they had farang Boy friends did make me feel Guilty as there Guy must of been in his own country working hard in order to marry a girl who will fuck another guy with fairly good look and a little more money then their intended..
There my friend now you know some of the secrets about my life..Please do not post any of this to facebook , besides i trust you as a officer and a gentleman..Not sure what to do next, Seriously thinking about China my friend..
Chris, I have one more question to you because you are an American (aren’t you?). Is that true that american girls are much more (!) feminist compared to thai or any asian girls?
Actually I’m australian, but I lived many years in the USA. Feminist, i don’t think that’s the right word, they are much more independent, actually it’s a trait I wish many Thai’s would have but don’t.
I agree Chris. Being an American myself, it’s unbelievable sometimes to me to see how the people here have almost no ability to do things by themselves. They must ALWAYS rely on their friends to do anything and everything.They will not go out by themselves to do things or even make their own decisions. Guess they’re just not as strong as those who are independent.
Hey guy i didn’t read all of comment. but i would like to said “What the reason you looking for thaiwomens?” if you want some serious relationship you will be honest, Thaiwomen have that too .but if you looking from “Karee” then you will not got it. but they are sale the body if have sale and buy process then concern about money. but every where around the world have “Karee” too. even your country, then should’t look down Thai people. So for Chirs i think you got a lot of comment from thai people mostly it should be bad for you. But i want to know Are you living in Thailand? So If you living there why you not accept about the thing there.
So, If those guy want to love and honest you have to have that too. If you are think thaiwomen not good then shouldn’t looking for them.
Most people that I know and hey i run in all sorts of circles are not interested in a relationship just sanook therefore most guys don’t really care how good or bad a girl is in her personallity and attitude its more to do with her ass and tits.