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5 ways to tell your girlfriend was formerly a Thai Bar Girl

You've just started dating this really hot Thai girl, she seems perfect, she speaks great english, she's really into you, really sexy, everything that you ever wanted in a Thai girlfriend, but you have some doubts and maybe you don't want to date some bar girl that's why you chose her, maybe you met her somewhere that wasn't at a bar as well, but do you really know who she is, how do you know she didn't work at a beer bar, go go bar, or even a Thai soapy massage parlour. Well here are some tell tale signs.

How to tell if your Thai girlfriend was formerly a Bar Girl

How to tell if your Thai girlfriend was formerly a Bar Girl

#1 Plays really good pool

Take your new lass for a game of pool, 99% of Thai girls can't hit a cue with their life depended on it. Try her out on a game and if she holds the cue backwords, she's a keeper, if she knocks every ball in without you even getting a shot in, red flag, she was formerly a Bar girl.

#2 She has tattoos

Not only bar girls get tatoos but most bar girls do, your looking for a particular tatoo as well, similar to gang signs, often guys have branded the girls with certain tattoos so that others know who the real owner is. Do some study and probe some questions to her about her tattooes where she got them, who she got them with and why.

#3 Her english sounds like she learnt it at a bar

Bar style english or what I like to call barlish, is a form of English that you can tell bar girls use, introductions are so fluent you'd think she was born overseas, but when you ask her an off the topic question she will look at you weired. Also a bar girl can only speak English and rarely can she read/write english, try asking her to read some of the same things she says to you, it's a tell tale sign she could have been a bar girl in a former life.

#4 Drinks you under the table

Allthough this isn't just typical of Thai Bar girls, a lot of women in Thailand now drink like a fish, but most have only ever drunk thai whisky, red label and beer, as your new lass if she want's a cosmo or sex on the beach, if she knows what your talking about chances are she used to work in a bar.

#5 Ask her straight out

Although most Thais have trouble with telling the truth or something embarrassing about themselves, simply ask. Most Thai Bar Girls would be pretty open about it and if your at the stage in your relationship that you need to know about this sort of thing she will be honest and open with you, and if she isn't then your probably not there yet, she will be scared that you'll want to walk away from the relationship so tread carefully and if she wasn't she'll probably be more upset at you for even suggesting she was a Thai Bar Girl.

Finally you might want to think about something before you go and ask questions you may regret, do you really want to know that she worked as a Thai Bar Girl, if you know she used to work at a bar then you can only imagine what she got up to, is that going to destroy your relationship, never ask questions your not prepared for the answers. If she did work at a bar before it may stop you from having a real long term relationshiop with her.


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About Chris

Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. In 2017 he stopped writing new content (although does update the site) and is now focused on writing for his new website SlyNomad.com.

6 Responses to 5 ways to tell your girlfriend was formerly a Thai Bar Girl

  1. hrtf August 7, 2014 at 12:16 am #

    what a load of bullshit

  2. Justinjedi July 26, 2016 at 5:47 am #

    Bar girls are better to marry because most dont have family’s that care about them and they kinda deserve a better life. I( would never judge someone for their past.

    • HHH August 20, 2016 at 9:34 am #

      LMAO. Captain Save a Hoe right here, boys! @Justinjedi

    • Ancoraimparo November 17, 2016 at 11:36 pm #

      Bro, trust me I been through dating Thai Bargirls and I don’t judge either. I am here to warn the dangers of falling into one. Loved a Thai Bargirl once only to be treated like a doormat. Probably, of her up bringing she behaves like a diva eventhough she is not from well off family. Visited her hometown in Chiang Rai. It’s all about fishing a well off wealthy guy who will fall for their looks. Me, one of those dumbasses. Thanks

  3. Viking October 30, 2016 at 8:44 pm #

    Juistinjedy, THEN YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH THEIR PAST. SHAME ON YOU BEING SO FOOLISH.

    • Ancoraimparo November 17, 2016 at 11:40 pm #

      Couldn’t agree more… huge respect bro

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