When I started looking at the Thailand online dating sites I thought I’d go through the rounds and see what every age bracket had to offer. My age limits was for an 18 year old to a 35 year old and that’s what ages I thought would come up in the searches. Well I was wrong! There were lots of underage girls on the Thai dating sites, even though they said they were 18 in their profile when I started to ask them questions clearly they were under 18 and some as young as 14!
To my surprise 70% of all the underage girls that I had in contact on ThaiLoveLinks.Com and ThaiLoveLines.com where located in and around Pattaya. Most don’t say Pattaya because well Thai families normally live in the towns around Pattaya like Sattahip and Bang Lamung so if you see those towns on your list and they say they are 18 or 19 chances are they are still in High School.
So this raises some really good questions. Why is it that underage teen Thai girls would be interested in a farang to begin with and why would most of them be around Pattaya? There are more teens living in Bangkok Chiang Mai Khon Kaen even Korat than in Pattaya so why would the concentration of farang loving teens be located there?
The Thai teens I chatted to located in Chiang Mai were really just there to chat with farang improve their english, the teens in Bangkok were looking to make friends with farang probably so they could get a photo with one and stick it on their facebook and then have nothing to do with you. The Thai teen girls in Khon Kaen were looking for a boyfriend and seemed to be attracted to to westerners and wanted a genuine relationship made of love. And then there were the Teen girls of Pattaya!
Nearly all of the underage girls I had spoken to and messaged me on the Thailand dating sites were from Pattaya and wanted to meet with me and have a relationship quickly. In the space of about 2 weeks I had been contacted by 17 underage girls from in and around Pattaya who I also asked the same question. What makes you interested in Farang? They all said because they know some Thai lady who had a farang husband (in one case 3 men) and now drives a car, lives in a big house, has lots of money but doesn’t have to do anything except for stress about how she’s going to keep it all when the farang finds out she’s just trying to steal every penny he has.
It’s amazing what you can learn from a woman once you are open and honest with her, it gains you trust in a Thai’s eye if you be open and vulnerable with them. But then I guess I didn’t tell them I would then come back to my blog and share it with all you guys
So here are girls that come from families that have little or not much else and want the lifestyle they see some of their more fortunate friends have a want a bit of it too. At that age they aren’t trying to scam you as much as a 22y/o would they are still too niave, these girls would love to have someone that loves them too. (This slowly degrades after they reach University). What us guys know is that it would be impossible to ever live up to one of these girls expectations unless we are millionairs of course.
Let’s say I did go date with one of these girls how do you think it’s going to end up? They want you to be the complete prince charming with diamond encrusted chariot. Instead what these girls are going to get are guys picking them up, bullshitting to them, totally using them and then throwing them away. Why? Because the guys can get away with doing it so why not.
Now while a teen in Pattaya might not talk dirty she wouldn’t be no virgin. None of the ones I talked to were and hadn’t been for quite a lot of time. While they hadn’t had many partners they seemed like they be comfortable with sex.
These girls obviously have a lack of good guardianship and parents that spend a lot of time with them. Hey i’m not blaming anyone I’m just pointing out the obvious. So what will happen to these girls once they meet up with several travelling overaged westerners who use and abuse them, will their dreams still be alive or will they end up scamming like the ladies they admire and wish to be?