Who Pays For Sex With Thai Hookers
Paying for sex can be a lifestyle for many, a fad for others, some people get into in then get out quickly, while others are repulsed by the whole thing. In my mind you're always paying for sex, whether you pay a bar fine or take a girl out for noodles you are going to pay something, at the very minimum you're going to have to pay for your time while she babbles on until you can mutter the words "lets go fuck in a short-time".
I've been through phases where I don't pay for sex for years then I'll be going hard for months. I might have a steady girlfriend or not it doesn't seem to really make much difference the situation you find yourself in. Obviously when you have no money you can't be out banging whores, in that case your sole game is either on the street or on a dating site which by the way still costs something. Networking can be great for your sex life but soon enough you've fucked everyone you know and you start running out of new options.
Chiang Mai is a small place, if you live here and start banging whores soon enough you start seeing these girls everywhere. Pattaya is much the same, actually if you're in any tourist area its easy to become known by the girls as the guy "the customer". As soon as this happens your life can get exciting but it can also get complicated. Jealous whore fights and random late night knocks on the door can be loud and messy but can also be a lot of fun.
The way westerners buy sex here compared to the way Thai's do is completely different. Most Thai girls are hooking themselves these days through the internet, karaoke bars, or by other enterprising hookers who become madams in their own little networks. While the western online escorts see a lot of success, for every 1 girl on their site there are 1000's on sideline sites. These girls pimp themselves and most of them want your real online Facebook profile that can match up to your email address, but many are dumb as well and do no pre-screening at all. Unless your from an Isaan whoring suburb or you don't have a coyote body then this is what many young Thai girls are doing these days to buy that new iPhone.
Men who pay for sex call themselves "punters" while the women call the men "customers". "Bar girls" is a common label for girls who sell sex to foreign men. Thai men typically don't pay for sex with "Bar Girls" normally Thai men play the role of boyfriend while she's out making money, he's spending it on the "Karaoke" and "Coyote girls".
Paying for sex with a Thai Hooker is not always straight forward, while many girls don't have "pimp's" they do have minders. So instead of a 6 foot African/American who will beat your door down if you don't pay, Thai hookers have Tuk Tuk drivers, Mamasons, family, and friends. Just like regular pimps, all these people have their hand out too.
Anytime you pay for a hooker in Thailand unless you're dealing with just her one on one you're paying at least twice as much.
I couldn't find any studies on the types of men that pay for sex with girls in Thailand but based on my extensive experience there isn't really "the typical guy". Sex tourists and expats who pay for Thai hookers come from all possible backgrounds and work in all sorts of professions.
The Soft Guy
The Soft Guy is typically a captain-save-a-ho kinda guy. He cares about her feelings and ends up feeling sorry for her. This guy is typically broke in a few years.
This smooth character likes to drop the "I love u's" on these girls, he's typically trying to get "extra benefits" out of any transaction
The Old Git
This guy's routine is to swallow Viagra at the time of paying the bar fine this way he doesn't forget.
Since the Fish has never paid for sex before he still opens doors, pays a tip to look good, buys her flowers and new clothes. Almost always stays with the same girl.
The Addict has a full list of games he now plays, his favorite is "How many ho's on beach road can I fuck in one afternoon".
The Bar Stool
This guy typically arrives in Thailand and drinks every day at the same beer bar. He tries to develop relationships with the girls and slowly loses his savings. The bar stool who runs out of money ends up drinking Chang on a ledge close to 7/11.
Cashed up the tourist is often determined to get laid at least once a day. Whatever his budget affords him he'll make the most of his time here.
How do you know when a Thai Hooker has cum? Who gives a fuck!
With the ease of online dating people often wonder why anyone would pay for sex when you can get a Tonne of girls to do it for free? The people saying this typically own or frequent beer bars and go-go bars. The people paying for sex these days can afford to do it and those people also want entertainment, imported beers, and bottles of whatever.
The go-go and beer bar industry will never disappear but it will make the industry a smaller percentage of the overall sex industry in Thailand. The online dating sites are killing the cheap beer bars and go-go bar industry, but the sex industry isn't dying it's been replaced by bigger and better entertainment venues that cater to a more affluent crowds. For people prepared to pay 6000 baht a girl for the night, those people don't mind spending a bit more for better entertainment.
- Here are some rules I live by when paying for sex.
- Have an agreement on the amount of times you can have sex.
- Have an agreement on what she will actually do. (some girls won't give head and threesomes, imagine!)
- Agree on a price..first!
- NEVER take an unknown back to where you live, use a short time hotel they are cheap!
- ALWAYS Rubber up!
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