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Thai Girls don’t know about the 3 date rule

Have you ever dated a girl back in the west who made you take her out 3 times before she would sleep with you? I know I did, seemed like most the girls in the west subscribed to the 3 date rule. Actually it was kind of stupid to tell us the rule of the game. So you'd just go ahead and play the game to the 3rd of 4th date and depending on how you felt after that would it just be another one night stand or not.

Here in Thailand I've never once heard a Thai girl say she goes by the 3 date rule. For the most part Thai girls have mostly said to me that they just need time to get to know me. Mostly if a Thai girl likes you and there is opportunity for sex then chances are she's just going to do it whether or not it's the first date. They don't subscribe to this stupid 3 date rule that western chicks make you go through.

Western girls are a little smarter, they know that the chances of you doing them and never seeing them again is much more higher if they do you on the first date. They also realise that they get three free dates before they have to give anything up. This is actually a pretty smart rule to have. Thank god Thai girls havn't caught onto this yet.

So if Thai girls don't have a 3 date rule what do they have?

  • If they like you and you get them to somewhere private they are more than likely to give it up
  • If the girl is younger and less experienced they will say they want to wait and that doesn't mean 3 dates it might mean 3 months!
  • If she's playing you she will never give it up and make you keep paying for dates until you've lost interest


At first the 3 date rule sounds really annoying. But you know what at least it's fair. See once a western girls says she has a 3 date rule it means A) Yes she wants to sleep with you and B) You're going to get some but you just have to wait 3 dates. Thai girls are less straight forward and you'll never know if she is actually going to give it up or not.

Me if I don't get it on the first date it's never going to happen, there is an exception of course. Say you've gone out on a date and your not in a position to get the girl alone then you might just come up with a different strategy for the next date. You need to have a bit of game too.

Thai girls don't know about the 3 date rule nor is there any 3 date rule in Thailand. But that doesn't mean there isn't a 3 date rule for us. See if you're dating a Thai girl and didn't get any by the 3rd date then I suggest you move on. As long as a Thai girl isn't a virgin in a Thai girls mind if she likes you she will f&*k you no matter if it's the 1st date or the 10th. If you've gone more than 3 dates and still didn't get any then you're either not really trying to get any or she's just playing you. Move on.

Personally I prefer the 3 hour rule but that takes a lot of game for normal Thai girls. How about you? You ever heard of a Thai girl say she she goes by the 3 date rule or any other dating rules? What do you actually think about the 3 date rule?


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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. In 2017 he stopped writing new content (although does update the site) and is now focused on writing for his new website SlyNomad.com.

6 Responses to Thai Girls don’t know about the 3 date rule

  1. Marcel October 27, 2011 at 2:21 pm #

    Hi Chris, I`ve also never heard or experienced the 3 dates rule with any Thai girl. I know some man speaking about their 3 day rule which is not to be with a Thai girl longer than 3 days for sake of getting to attached and that she might start seeing you as her BF. This rule mostly is appleid in Pattaya but could go anywhere in Thailand.
    Keep up your postings , nice to read !!

    • Chris October 27, 2011 at 3:37 pm #

      Lol that’s so funny. Yeah Thai girls don’t have a 3 date rule but we sure can, 3 dates and your out. Legend!

  2. ChiangMaiGuy October 29, 2011 at 7:58 am #

    I have the ‘home’ rule – if I get her to come to where I live it’s 90% that I’m ‘home’ in another way too… 😉

  3. John King November 18, 2011 at 9:48 am #

    How to get a 1st date, Chris? Pls. help, urgently! Of course, Thai birds never have a way for me to contact them, i.e. no mobile number, eternally busy

    • MrAwkForYou December 14, 2011 at 7:38 am #

      King, you need to buy her a phone of course. Most Thai birds
      have one, but you seem to be hard on your luck out here,
      meeting so many who can not yet afford one.

  4. Eric November 22, 2011 at 3:19 pm #

    We bring our BS on ourselfs…

    good one..

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