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Thai Girls Fall in Love in 15 minutes

Dating a Thai girl is not like dating a western woman and one thing newbies will learn quickly is that many times Thai girls will Love you within minutes. How many Thai girls have you met that fall in love with you in minutes? How do you deal with the “I love You” on the first date? How about those girls that are all loving on you but they haven’t even seen you on web cam. This is the crazy 15 minute love in Thailand.

Thai Girls Fall in Love in 15 minutes

No, I’m not saying all Thai girls are like this, but there is an abnormally high percentage of Thai girls that are spitting out the Love You without even being able to say your name properly. I’m not even saying that this is impossible I mean I recently told you I’m getting married so I guess I’m still a believer, but I must have met 100 other girls that were ready to have babies with me without even knowing what country I’m from.

How many girls have you met in Thailand where the relationship went from stranger to danger in 15 minutes?

A girl who sleeps around is not a slut, she’s just a girl that likes sex. A girl who falls in love every 15 minutes is the real slut. I’m talking about those Thai girls that meets a new guy and within minutes she’s in love and repeatedly does this over and over again with as many men. A Thai girl like that is going to be clingy and annoyingly desperate. Stay away.

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Guys even armed with this advice will still probably find themselves in a situation where this crazed bitch comes knocking at your door at 5am waking up your girlfriend. But I kinda like it, it’s almost fun. Admittedly I’ve experienced this before in the west both America and Australia but it was never as “full on” as it is here in Thailand. Something about some Thai girls they’re a little nuts when it comes to love.

First time I ever had a Thai girl that was like this I must admit I was stumped. How do you respond to “Do you love me to?” without laughing exclaiming NO! I wonder what you guys would say. Sometimes I’ll just go along with it, she’s been in love for 50 hours of her life if you add up all the 15 minutes so why not, she knows how to deal with a broken heart. Suck it up.


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About Chris

Chris founded Living Thai and author of the books Learn the The Thai Alphabet and How to make money in Thailand also the Blueprint for Living in Thailand. Chris started this blog with the aim of educating westerners on how to have the best time in Thailand, to make new friends and to vent his frustrations Chris is also fluent in both written and spoken Thai.

31 Responses to Thai Girls Fall in Love in 15 minutes

  1. John John July 14, 2013 at 12:15 am #

    Well, the keen business mind of thai girls aside is it not probable that the CULTURAL meaning of “I love you” and “romantic love” in general does NOT correspond to that view of these phenomenons that we share in the west? Family will always come first in Thailand, and you will never be part of that and will always come in second place even though you are married have children and so on. This is what western men must understand to not be ripped off financially and emotionally, this also applies to western girls to some extent as there really is less and less gain for a man to get married in the first place.

    • Chris July 14, 2013 at 12:22 am #

      I don’t see how it’s different at all. When you say family comes first I’d imagine that’s pretty much the same back home as well. How well do you think people really get along with their inlaws back in your country either. I’ve had people say this before but it makes no sense, second to what? What’s the difference in being first? I know for my my parents and sister will allways be my parents and my sister if i’m in love or not.

  2. John John July 14, 2013 at 12:30 am #

    Her family gets 100% her trust, love and heart, you get the left overs – as long as you support her. So is it really “for better or worse” as we say in th west?

    • Chris July 14, 2013 at 10:09 am #

      Blood is thicker than water

  3. Faraday July 14, 2013 at 6:44 am #

    Maybe they have an unrealistic perception of love, looking for the “dream guy”.

    I mean to be honest Chris…you are a hunk!! haha!

    No, I joke perhaps they believe the stuff fed to them by the media too much, & think that fairy tales are real…is it also the amount of ‘intellectual ceiling’? I don’t mean that to sound derogatory though.

  4. ThaiDatingTips July 17, 2013 at 10:30 am #

    Thai girls do fall in love ungodly quick. I had one girl call me over 40 times in two days.

    I met her online, met her for some drinks, took her back to my place, and then the next morning she went to work.

    She ended up calling me non-stop for two days after I didn’t answer the first phone call. I guess in her mind since I didn’t answer the first time, she should call me back 9 times in a row just to be sure I was ok?

    If she would have called me one or two times I would have called her back, but the ridiculous volume of back to back to back to back incoming calls tipped me off that she was obviously crazy and best to be avoided.

    I actually saw her a few months later at Terminal 21 where she worked selling women’s underwear. I ducked and dipped away from there a quickly as I could.

    • Chris July 17, 2013 at 2:45 pm #

      Any girl that calls me more than 2 times a day I start getting worried. This sort of thing is happening less and less these days as people start using line and facebook more on their phone, It’s better to get a million messages than it is a million phone calls. I had a girl call me like this for 12 months! I never even met her. Thai girls are nuts.

      • ThaiDatingTips July 18, 2013 at 12:30 pm #

        I dated this Thai girl for a short while that I picked up at RCA. One night she got pissed at me for something, and texted me to tell me she was going back to her ex boyfriend. No problem for me, on to the next one.

        Anyways, she calls me at 7AM the next morning, and I don’t answer, because, well, it’s 7 in the morning. 30 minutes later there is a knock at my door. I get up to open it and who is it? This Thai girl and her barking ass Pomeranian.

        Apparently when I didn’t answer she decided to hop into her car and drive to my condo to make sure I wasn’t with another girl.

        I had told her my condo key code one time and she never forgot that damn thing. Definitely never giving a Thai girl the keycode to my building again. They never forget that shit. Ever. Had I given it to the girl who called me 40 times my guards may have had an interesting day at work.

  5. Dave July 17, 2013 at 3:18 pm #

    MONEY MONEY MONEY, THATS ALL THAI,S LOVE.

    • Faraday July 17, 2013 at 3:34 pm #

      Look up “Generalisation” in the dictionary, Dave.

      • ThaiDatingTips July 19, 2013 at 3:59 am #

        Or “low class prostitute”.

        If more guys would move up the dating ladder from the girls at street bars and Insanity, they would realize that there is a whole new world open to them of girls who actually have their own money. Hell, many of them even have their own cars and condos.

        Of course, this would actaully some self improvement in the form of fitness, appearance, and manners, something far too many expats lack the motivation to do.

        • chongtak July 23, 2013 at 3:45 am #

          Totally agree with you.

  6. Krypton July 24, 2013 at 3:37 am #

    Yeah. There’s one girl who calls me almost every ten minutes! Thank God I’m back to Laos from my holiday in Thailand, so there’s no signal. Ha ha. Hope she won’t follow me here.

  7. Brian July 25, 2013 at 4:33 am #

    As obnoxious as Thai women can be, they are a lot more fun than getting the shaft from a snooty western woman. Let’s not forget why we came here.

  8. NJen August 4, 2013 at 3:34 pm #

    O_O!!!!

    I am a Thai girl and I wonder where on earth you can find such kind of those girls—
    I think it is very weird to fall in love with a complete stranger or foreigner easily….(.__. )
    That is not true–not True Story / True love.
    I suppose those girls you met aren’t good girls so don’t keep them in your mind! ;-)

    And I don’t think that is called “Love”, not many love ones who despise them like this. They (that girls) know what you think, guys, and ….. I suppose they love you for “the sake of money”…

    • Chris August 5, 2013 at 7:08 am #

      thanks for your input. Since you’re a girl you havn’t dated many Thai girls yourself, but then tell me your friends havn’t fallen in love with some farang within minutes. Happens all the time from every level of society.

  9. ST August 17, 2013 at 8:05 pm #

    This must be true.

    I took a Narawat karaoke girl back and she immediately tells me she likes me after the deed and asked for my number. I told her I don’t have a Thai number since I was only there for a few days. So she asked for my home country number and I was flattered and also started wondering ‘what’s up’. She was real nice and gentle but I don’t think I am that charming.

    Now I know……I encountered a in-love-in-15 Thai girl! if I had been weak I may have to change my number when this nice and gentle girl starts growing horns.

  10. jpandora October 31, 2013 at 3:11 am #

    You never met a woman who was a virtuous Thai women of course, because you are a foreigner who do not honor Thai women.

    • Chris November 13, 2013 at 3:36 pm #

      And how would you know?

  11. James November 17, 2013 at 7:47 pm #

    You little bastard!

    Why are you taking away Thailand’s dignity?

    Maybe you should consider renaming your sight something like “Living Thai Pervert Style”

    I hope one day you cross mine and my wife’s path so I can upward elbow your head of your shoulders and she can laugh at your stupid head flying towards the sun.

    • Chris November 17, 2013 at 8:19 pm #

      You and all the other numbnuts like yourself crack me up. Seriously is that your solution to everyone who has a difference of opinion is to Elbow them? So random. I’m taking away Thailand’s dignity, single handedly? Wow, didn’t realize how much an effect I could have. Do appreciate you thinking that highly of me anyhow.

      • James November 17, 2013 at 9:39 pm #

        Your making the Thai girl controversy thing worse and worse, it’s a country, there all over the world and each country has more or less the same issues.

        I have had access to the internet all my life, this is the first time I have really commented on anything.

        I just think my wife would be very upset, sorry.

        • Chris November 19, 2013 at 1:35 am #

          people are easily annoyed. Thanks for the comment.

  12. Thai gil December 15, 2013 at 4:42 pm #

    I am thai girl , you drive me bananas!! Thai women are not all the same. Don’t stereotype, Just because you go to Pattaya. Im not good at english I know .. Don’t blame me Im so sorry T T …

    • Chris December 16, 2013 at 4:04 pm #

      I’ve lived in Chiang Mai for five years….?

  13. sangchan December 28, 2013 at 9:01 am #

    I am Thai lady .

    Problem is , it’s depend on where did you go so its normal to find bad things in bad place , and I think you have brain to think it’s real or not when some one say something and I think in your country have some bad things too . Is that right ? So if you don’t like my country just go away!!!

  14. Dmitry January 2, 2014 at 6:22 pm #

    Hi

    No matter how obnoxious your Thai gf can be she sure flatters your self-esteem. Overhyped attention thai girls pay to sometimes pretty worn-out middle-aged farangs makes a big and surprisingly pleasant difference to everlasting women’s rejection in your home country. This reanimates your innate macho who had otherwise given up all hopes for resurrection 20 years ago :)

  15. Ron January 4, 2014 at 5:42 pm #

    I think where you find the women definitely makes a difference. Bar girls and girls in Pataya for sure. I have had some freaky girls back home as well. I have lived in 10 different countries in my life and have met freaky women everywhere. Just my opinion.

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