Confessions: 7 reasons why Thai girls cheat
I've learned there are many reasons why Thai girls cheat on you, from being bored, to you being bored in bed, to baffling reasons like she just wanted to try it. Read on for the truth behind reasons why Thai girls cheat.
List of reasons why Thai girls cheat
Reason #1: There is no fire or passion
"Su" had been dating this guy Brendan from Canada for about 2 years now, everything on the outside looked great both working, living in a nice house, good friends. But the reality was their relationship was OK except they just didn't have a spark anymore, Brendan lately had been getting massages for relief and at the expense of his wife who wasn't getting any. So when some guy from Australia approached her at the gym, she felt excitement like she hadn't felt for years, next thing leads to the next, and before you know it Su is pairing up with this Aussie 3 times a week. She didn't feel bad about Brendan because he was getting his own. Don't forget about your main girl if you are messing around, you need to make sure she is satisfied or you run the risk of her finding it elsewhere.
Reason #2: Delaying the inevitable breakup
Sometimes a Thai girl might not be that into you, she may be everything to you but if it's not reciprocal then it's just not going to work out. Thai girls though won't come out and tell you this, unless they are financially stable they are more likely to go find another sugar daddy while still with you, once the other daddy relationship is fully established you'll come home one day to find her gone. How do you know she is dating someone else will vary depending on how you guys live your lives, though if you do find out, best thing to do is help her find the other guy or you'll be stuck with her.
Reason #3: You don't live in Thailand
A mate of mine lives in California for 11 months of the year and for 1 month of the year here's in Thailand, he's had a girlfriend here for the past 7 years. Being away for 11 months of the year is a strain on the relationship, while he had been faithful, his girlfriend had not, in fact she had several other boyfriends that also only came to Thailand once a year for a month. This had gone on for 5 years without him knowing about it, and how could he know about it he wasn't even in Thailand! My mate was sending his Thai girl money every month so he could support her, even though this took great strain on his finances. Bottom line is if you meet a Thai girl in a bar and expect her to be faithful when you aren't around then the only person who is going to eat dirt is you!
Reason #4: No sense of commitment
Thai girls mostly want to date foreigners because of the stability, and if there is no stability then she is going to look elsewhere. Why do you think so many Thai guys are able to have more than one girlfriend at a time and it seems the girls turn a blind eye to it? It's because the Thai girl knows she has stability with the guy, the guy is always going to be there for her where no one else is. If she knows your not going to get rid of her then she'll be ok about you having a second girlfriend. But, if it's very new in the relationship and she doesn't think your going to take care of her for the rest of her life then you have a 90% chance that she is going to cheat on you, she is more likely to do this in the beginning of your relationship so make sure you keep reiterating to her that you intend to stick around.
Reason #5: You treat her too badly
Reason #6: She is really really bored
So basically she has so much time on her hands that she's just bored, last year i saw her one day at a coffee shop in town. She was sitting with an American I thought was a friend of James, when i asked James about it he had no idea, turns out that she was not only seeing this guy but other guys as well, her excuse, she was just really bored and James was never around. If you intend on keeping a Thai girl and not motivating her to join extra curricular activities that don't involve meeting other Farangs then she is going to cheat on her. Why make it so easy for her anyway, think about how hard you had to work when you were 21 was it so bad on you that you don't want her to do it?
Reason #7: To give him a taste of his own medicine
Are you slutting around the beer bars picking up girls all the time, do you think she doesn't know where your going when you say your just going to the bar with a few mates, no, she knows exactly what your getting up to it, and even if you aren't she's thinking about it. You live in Thailand and to all Thais your just a typical non-faithful westerner who goes around with dark skinned bar girls. If she thinks this is what your doing then be assured she's also thinking about it too. Thai girls believe they are equal in this respect and due to Thai culture if your sleeping around then so can she. Keep your activities quiet, join a gym instead of going to the pub and keep your "gig" (F Buddy) a secret and she is less likely to cheat on you.