You hear a lot about how Thai girls suck you dry, squeeze you for money left right and center. How if you want to have a Thai girlfriend your going to need to have a lot of money. Some guys go as far as going broke dating a Thai girl, you’d be left thinking the same thing, that having a Thai girlfriend and dating Thai girls is very expensive, well I think that’s so far from the actual truth that in fact it’s the guys that think like that are the ones that get fleeced.
Yesterday I was at immigration getting a re-entry permit for Thailand. Very simple procedure by the way only cost 1000 baht for a single. So I’m there and this older gentleman started making conversation typical Australian. Anyway, so he asks me what I’m doing here, I made a complicated response easy by telling him I’m here to study Thai. So why Thai he asks and my standard reply “For the chicks man!”. lol. “Well” he says with his know it all attitude. “Let me tell you a thing or two” he goes on to tell me how he’s lived here for 30 years and that I’ll need a tonne of money if I’m going to have a Thai girlfriend or date Thai girls.
After he told me all this I immediately knew that after 30 years in Thailand he still didn’t get the game, then he walked up to the immigration officer and started speaking loudly and was rather obnoxious so I dismissed the guy and went on with my day. But I did start thinking you know, how could someone live here for 30 years and still don’t get the game? His Thai wasn’t very good and that was part of the problem but I think many guys coming to Thailand see the bar girls and think that all Thai girls want someone to give them money, sure, who doesn’t want them to give them money, but the fact that they think that’s the game they are so wrong!
Let me explain here, the majority of Thai girls don’t date westerners, they date Thai men. In fact some actually only like Thai guys. And for the majority of Thai guys they have little to no money. You can learn a lot from how Thai guys do things here, their not paying out of their ass for dating 1, 2 sometimes 3 girls at a time, in fact many of them have the girls pay! And you know why they don’t pay ridiculous amounts of money? Because THEY UNDERSTAND THE GAME!
I’m definitely no Tom Cruise I have just enough money for myself yet I have multiple girlfriends, have threesomes with random Uni girls every week and the odd one night stand here and there and I don’t pay anything! I don’t even pay for girls drinks if I go out, and you know why? Because I play the game! The game is simple and if you understand it you can get laid all the time have as many girlfriends as you have time for and never have to bed a skanky bar girl again.
First of all the game I play is for the younger girls 16-22 I don’t know much about girls older than this because that’s not my thing so I can’t give suggestions on that but the girls in this age bracket I know a lot about. There are two types of girls in this range there are the Money Girls and there are the Curious girls. The money girls are easy to spot, you talk to them on the phone or in person and you’ll hear lines like “I want a notebook”, “I want an apartment” then there are the curious girls they say things like “I don’t dare do that” and “I’m scared to do that”. I prefer the curious girls because they arn’t interested in money but you can play the game with the money girls too but it takes more manipulation and sadly you might have to lead them on a bit.
Typically the money girls are willing to do what you want as long as you pay them to do it, it’s not usually money they are after as they take that as an insult as if they are hookers, typically they just want to be taken care of be given “gifts” which in turn costs you money. These girls can be easily led on but what you need to have is a girlfriend. That’s right, the money girls are easier if you have a girlfriend, this is because they want what your girlfriend has or is perceived to have. Even if you don’t have a girlfriend and the girl starts talking about wanting a laptop, easy, tell them that you just recently bought your girlfriend the latest Mac laptop. Initially she might be oh no you have a girlfriend. But that’s just what she’s saying, in her mind she’s thinking wow I want to be his girlfriend so I can get a laptop. Now that she knows you have a girlfriend just mention how things arn’t that great at home and that’s why your meeting her. This gives her an opportunity and motivation to make you happy. This works regularly for me. Take her to the local curtain hotel and get with her for free with only the cost of the hotel about 180 baht! Now the girlfriend trick works and it works better than you think because now you have a girlfriend this money girl won’t turn into a stalker girl because Thai girls are afraid of other Thai girls and she won’t come anywhere near your place if she knows you have a girlfriend there, perfect!
Now the next Thai girl to play the game with is the Curious Girl. Curious Thai girls typically don’t speak much English so this is where you need to come loaded with plenty of Thai language skills, the more Thai you know the better. If you don’t have any Thai but have a girlfriend that speaks Thai of course use her and go for lesbians and bisexual girls, my girlfriend finds these kinds of girls everywhere and typically all it takes is going out for 1 or two drinks in order for the GF to convince her to come back to our place for a roll around the hay.
Even if you don’t have a g/f that is willing to do this and your Thai skills arn’t great you should be able to pull this off because in the end the girl wants to do it, she just needs to be coaxed into it. Alternatively you may have a Thai friend (must be a girl) that can help you negotiate and convince her, I’ve used a Thai cousin (from my step mom) and it worked worked well.
So the curious Thai girls are the ones you more often meet. If a Thai girl is meeting you for a date or anything like that and she’s not a money girl 100% she has either thought about doing it with a farang before and probably wants to try. It’s your job to convince her that your the one to try it with.
Don’t waste any time wining and dining a curious Thai girl, more than likely she’s never had anyone do that for her before so why should you do it now? Your just wasting your money, Thai guys don’t do that either, they take the girls to eat cheap noodles a quick beer at the bar and then straight down to business. Me personally I skip it all and before I meet the girl I let her know what I want. When I meet her I’ll say that I want to go here and I want to do this. She’ll say the same thing “I’m scared” “I wouldn’t dare” just stand around repeating yourself until she gives in and says OK. I can’t tell you how many times i’ve done this but it’s a lot, and it’s the same thing every time. Curious Thai girls want to try and that’s the only reason why there meeting you in the first place. If she didn’t want to do it with you she wouldn’t be meeting you in the first place, as long as you don’t say your going to wine and dine her and she still meets with you it’s in the bag. Don’t get suckered in!
Final thoughts on Thai girls who only want money
As explained previously the truth is Thai girls arn’t all about money. Sure there like anyone in the world they want to have enough to live, some want some to give to their parents, but like everyone else in the world they always want more. If you believe that Thai girls are expensive and only want money, then that’s all your going to meet, you’ve convinced yourself that’s the way it is. Sure Thai girls see farang and have dollar signs in their eyes but they do that with anyone really even Thai guys who drive a new model car. But I’ve never ever heard a Thai guy say that Thai girls are expensive. Most Thai girls are happier eating a bowl of noodles than they are an expensive french restaurant. Stop thinking that you need to treat Thai girls the same way you treat western women. The reason why you want a Thai girl is because she isn’t a western woman!
There are Thai girls out there who are only out to fleece you of your money. Don’t be fooled, they are good at it. You just need to play the game better. Stay away from the bar girls because they are used and abused and care nothing more than money. But a high school girl or first year uni student are curious and low on cash but wouldn’t dream of selling themselves. These are the girls that are easiest to manipulate and if you want to get laid, regularly then this is your group. I know plenty of uni girls that if you got them an apartment for 2000 – 3000 baht a month you could go visit them every day and get some action if you like a regular girl i recommend this sort of sponsor a thai girl arrangement because it works out cheaper. But if you like the weekly shag with a different girl then just pay for the curtain hotel. Either way your not paying for the girl your just paying for the location a place to do it with her and nothing more.
Bottom line is if you want Thai girls without paying money for them then you need three things, First you need a Thai girlfriend, so you don’t get stalkers and who can help you hook up with other girls, your Thai girl won’t do this, then find one that will. Secondly you need to be able to speak Thai or at least have a Thai speaking wing man/woman. Thirdly you need to stop thinking that you need to give every Thai girl you meet money because you don’t, they just want to try a farang so only give them that, nothing more.
Good luck guys hope you learned something and if you have a comment please add below.