Thailand has a reputation for being the sex capital of Asia right or wrong it’s enjoyed this reputation for a long time which has helped grow its reputation as a place for cheap sex since the Vietnam war. While it’s easy to get paid sex in Thailand it’s just as easy to get it for free as well and the way most guys do this is through online dating.
Most girls online are looking for a partner and it’s rare to find a girl that just wants to have sex and that’s it, typically girls in Thailand who are looking for a one night stand go to the nightclubs unless they are overweight which is when they might look for a fling through the Internet. That said the only way you can get a good looking Thai girl for a one night stand is either to go to the nightclubs or to have a girl interested in you online meet up with her and then convince her to have sex with you.
Convincing a girl to have sex with after meeting her online is something you can easily do without even mentioning the word sex. I’ve met girls online whom I’ve asked to go have a bowl of noodles and instead of taking them to eat just take them straight to the hotel and without mentioning sex just pointed to the bed. While most guys wouldn’t be able to do that whether it be fear or lack of self confidence it’s much easier to convince a Thai girl to have sex with you than it is a western girl this is because of Thai culture and the submissive nature of Thai girls.
When looking for sex online there are two things you need to do.
First thing is you need to have the “I don’t care if I have sex or not attitude”. Having this kind of attitude might sound counterproductive to actually getting laid but it helps ease the girl into it since she will likely feel that you don’t care either way. Secondly you need to find girls that are interested in having sex and quickly.
Sure you can pay sideline girls to come around and have sex with you but there is no real challenge in that and guys well guys are hunters we need to hunt and our hunting ground in the 21st century is online. There is no use going after the pretty super model type as she is probably just playing every guy she can meet. But if you go after the quiet type she is more likely to be in your bedroom after a bowl of noodles.
You can tell if a girl is ok with sex before you even meet up with her! Here are some tell tale signs that a girl will meet with you and have sex after a bowl of noodles.
- She has never had sex with a Farang before
- She is a 6 not a 10
- She responds to questions about sex
You can find out if a Thai girl has ever had sex with a Farang before quite easily just ask her if she has been with a Farang before. เคยคบฟรั่งไหมครับ Key Kob Farang Mai “Have you been with a Farang before”. Although this question means if she has had a Farang boyfriend before it’s more than that, because it’s possible she’s slept with a Farang before but they weren’t boyfriend and girlfriend, when you ask the question this way it is more interpreted as have you ever been with a Farang in a romantic way. 99.9% of the time if the answer is yes she has had sex with a Farang before. You can be sure of this because Thai girls all know the way to a Farang’s heart is through his penis.
The best Thai girls to lay are those that have never been with a Farang before. There is still that curiosity factor that they want to try out, a girl who has never had sex with a Farang before and is on the dating sites has thought about it more than enough to know she wants to try it, if she hasn’t tried and likes you and you’re offering she’ll be scared but willing all the same.
Let’s face is the really good looking girls are harder to reach because they have more expectations and focus more on looks than other girls. This is the same in every country and not just Thailand. And while you can get 10’s to come sleep with you it does take more effort more money and more time and having a bit of game and knowing Thai goes a long way. But if you’re not good looking have little game and barely know Thai but you still want to have sex with as many Thai girls as you can you should be focusing on the girls who look like 6’s. Practice your game and your techniques for getting them into bed on these girls they are a dime a dozen and you can literally go through 100’s of them in a very short while. Once you have your game and know what you’re doing then move onto the better looking girls.
If you’re just looking for a one night stand from a Thai girl on the Internet then you can achieve a 98% success rate and not because of some magic power or anything but by only meeting with girls you know will come home and sleep with you that night, if you don’t think she will then don’t bother meeting her. I’ll share my secret to how I know a girl will sleep with me.
Ask the girls the following questions to see if she’s up for a one night stand:
Do you have a boyfriend?
Perfect leading question in any conversation even if she’s stated she’s single online it starts the questioning down a path towards sex and doesn’t look like you’re being too upfront.
Do you have a Gik?
If she doesn’t have a boyfriend then ask her if she has a Gik, a Gik is more like a lover or a friend with benefits, even if she has one she’s not going to say. What you’re looking for here is her reaction to the question, if she is coy or mentions jokingly that she has heaps there’s probably more truth into it than what she is joking around about. Like I said you want to see her reaction before continuing with the questioning, if she’s
Have you ever been with a girl?
This is a good question because it makes her laugh and reaffirm her reason for talking to you, she likes guys and she likes Farang. It opens a doorway into talking more about sex without coming across like a dick.
Have you ever had sex with a Farang?
Ask her straight out, have you ever had sex with a Farang before. At this point in the conversation and questioning it should be fine to talk about other sex topics with the girls since you’ve opened the questioning it’s more likely she’ll have some of her own questions to ask after this. What you want to be careful of is over doing the subject however these five questions help establish a bridge into talking her into meeting you for sex.
“Ease your way into conversations about sex and she’ll open up”
Even though I’ve said in previous chapters not to talk about sex at all that’s true, but there is a point when sex can be a great subject to bring up, in fact if she starts talking about sex and sexual experiences then turn the whole conversation on sex, one can talk about sex for hours and it can really find out where she is and what she wants out of meeting you. Remember that some girls do just want to have sex but they won’t come out and be so direct and tell you, they go around the subject.
When you start talking about sex she will have a number of questions weird questions that only girls who have never been with a Farang will ask like. How big is it? Thai girls have this idea that all farang are 9 inches long and super fat cocks that will hurt when you sleep with them. This comes from all the Farang porn they have seen and believe me they have all seen clips from the net. Thai girls are worried that it’s going to hurt, most have had bad experiences their first time with fumbling Thai guys that don’t know what they were doing and it hurt, they don’t want to relive the same experience so you’re going to have to deal with this question when it comes up. I’ve found it works to say that it’s just a movie and not real life; even if you are hung like a horse or not, once you’re both in bed it’s too late for her to turn around anyway.
Like I said about Thailand’s reputation as the sex capital of the world at the beginning of this chapter there is also another perception of Thai girls that people talk about well especially Thai’s that Thais are very reserved about sex and affection. That was probably true 20-30+ years ago but in this decade sex is a very open conversation amongst friends, things like infidelity gay and lesbian sex is very much open in Thai society these days. It’s still a little Taboo to be open in public however talking about it amongst your friends and with people you meet on the internet is more accepted. The reason however you shouldn’t open or lead any questions about sex is because it will make you look bad. However once she is comfortable with you and your intentions then it’s acceptable to start leading with questions about sex.
