There are a lot of time wasters in the Thailand online dating scene much more so than in western countries where online dating has matured. As a part of speeding up the dating process you need to learn to spot the time wasters quickly and move them to the trash pile. Here are some explanations of what time wasters are like in Thailand.
An Internet dating time waster is someone who uses up your time and prevents you from finding whatever it is you’re trying to get out of Internet dating
The girl who wants to learn English
There is nothing wrong with wanting to learn English and probably 95% of Thai girls who seek out a Farang boyfriend would like to speak more English but you have to find out why. Some girls want to practice their English well so they can past tests at school, some want to practice English more so they can talk to their boyfriend who can’t speak a word of English and some honestly just want to learn more English so they can run larger scams on unsuspecting foreigners. In most cases you’ll find that the girl who comes out straight away and says she’s just here to practice her English is a waste of time. She isn’t interested in meeting anyone and probably wants you to call her not because she is interested in you but because she wants to practice her conversation skills. I met a girl once who I asked to be friends with using the messages from the previous chapter and her terms were we can be friends only if I teach her English. When you’re searching for love or for a lay the girl who wants to learn English is a waste of time.
The girl who just wants to chat
This is probably the most annoying time waster out there she messages you sounds really interested but won’t give out her phone number and wants to chat on the likes of MSN and Skype. Sometimes the girls just want to chat first to see if you’re normal and not sex crazed as a lot of guys tend to come out and start talking about sex. But even if you’re all nice and she says she’s into you and you’ve called her a few times she just refuses to meet. A lot of younger girls are like this but some older ones too. They are just there to chat and waddle away the day, sort of like playing a computer game except the game is you and there is no prize.
