A lot of people come to Thailand to find themselves, to find out who they are and what they want in their life. Then there are others who already know what they want and they come to Thailand to get it. Before you begin online dating and even before you can think of signing up to the dating sites you need to look deep inside yourself and ask exactly what it is you are looking for and only spend your time with that kind of girl. Don’t settle for less or look for more just only look for exactly what you want. Since I explained the odds are already in your favor you’re likely to have a lot of options so don’t settle for something your just OK with, get exactly what it is that you want.
When I moved to Thailand I realized one thing, I no longer want a two way relationship I wanted 2 girlfriends a Main one and Minor one as well as various Giks and playthings and have them changing from Main girlfriend (rarely changes) to playthings (changes often). That’s how I want my relationships to look from the day I set foot in Thailand. Even if my outlook on relationships isn’t the same as yours the point I’m getting at is you need to define exactly what it is you are looking for. Let’s say you like Thai girls who are a Tall 170cm with dark skin and educated and be around 25 years old, then don’t talk to anyone else and I mean it. Someone not in your specifications is trying to hit you up then tell them you’ll only ever be friends.
The reason why I suggest this is because even though the odds are already in your favor finding the right type of girl the one that fits your true specifications is still not going to be easy especially when geography plays a major part in dating online but that’s really a chapter on its own what you need to remind yourself and discipline yourself to is going only for exactly what you want.
Defining your perfect Thai girl should take some time and something to really think about and not take lightly, in fact it defines your success in the end. We are all pushed for time and you don’t want to waste one second with the wrong girl you want to find the one (or many) girls that you like and only spend your time with those girls. If you deviate from the plan you’re going to end up in heart ache, scammed, or jumping from a tall building in Pattaya!
I have a friend that loves chicks with Tattoos but I saw him get into his first relationship in Thailand with a chick that has none! As you can guess even though she was a great girl it was doomed to failure and not very long lasting because the guy didn’t stick to what he really wants. Get a pen out now and write in big letters exactly what you want your perfect Thai girl to look and be like and before you talk to any girl on the Internet ask yourself “Does she fit my description?”
For a complete explanation on Thai Dating sites and dating Thai Girls visit the Secrets to Online Dating in Thailand Guide.
