Thai girls are notorious for being extremely clingy, they don’t seem to understand when it’s time to break up, that’s why getting rid of your Thai girlfriend is so difficult. Thai girls are not only clingy, when they meet a foreigner they also become dependent on you, not only for material things, but it’s the way of life for most of them. The thought of you leaving them is to much to bear for most and the threat of them killing themselves if you dump her seems to be a constant theme.
Thai girls are so phsyco that they actually would kill themselves because you left her. Others may actually kill you! Either way you need to be smart about how you do it because you don’t want anything drastic to happen. More often than not though it doesn’t lead to violence like that she may hit you and such and force you to hit her that’s what she wants, so you can.
The best way to get rid of a Thai girl is to leave the state or Thailand altogether for a few months before you return and never return to the same place.
How to get rid of a Thai Bar Girl
Thai bar girls and go-go girls are the easiest to get rid of, they aren’t as dependent on you because they know they can go find another you more than likely the same night that’s just the life of a Thai bar girl. Usually it’s just a matter of money, give them enough money and tell them to F off and they usually get the picture, some are a bit more stubborn, and if she’s giving you trouble when she isn’t around go check into a different hotel and avoid any places she might be for a week, by that time she would have found someone else. Personally I don’t agree with giving them money, simply moving when they aren’t around is way easier and cheaper and forces her to find someone else faster because she’ll need the money.
If you dump your Thai girlfriend her life gets turned upside down but for you your life continues along the same just without her
How to dump your Good Thai Girlfriend
If you’ve established a long term relationship with a Thai girl and she loves you then your going to have a hard time getting rid of her. Another problem with dumping a Good Thai girl is especially if you’ve been with her for a while is that she’s too entangled with your life, you can’t simply give her money and tell her to get away she’s more than likely just going to tell you that she doesn’t want the money “and I’m not going anywhere” kind of attitude, doesn’t matter even if you don’t say you love her, she probably still won’t go anywhere.
So if you can’t buy your way out of dumping your Thai Girlfriend then how can you get rid of her? Well first thing is you need to stop giving her anything, and I mean anything no money no clothes no nadda. Not that you should be doing this anyway you need to just stop anything. You need to grow a backbone and like if she was gone you wouldn’t car about her, so why should you care about her now, just don’t talk to her and do everything by yourself, if she talks to you your first words should always be “I don’t want to be with you, and I wish you weren’t in my life”. Grow some balls now and stop caring about her, eventually she will get the picture.
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A good Thai girl doesn’t leave easily but she’s not about to leave abruptly either, she needs to work out what she wants to do when your not in your life, she will need more time than most, especially figuring out where to live and what to do. It may even take a month but if you keep up the I don’t want to be with you routine and go out late at night all the time without her she will eventually get the picture that you don’t want to be with her and really you just want to get rid of her.
So… how can you leave your Thai girlfriend when you have a kid together and she makes it clear if you ever leave her you wont see your kid again?
If she’s really clingy and you want to exit, I don’t think you can reason with her out of that or that cutting funds would do anything; if she’s set on keeping you she’ll tough out any financial hardships you impose for however long (and wiggle her way around that). Chances are, if you’ve ended up in a relationship like this, you probably don’t have a lot of backbone to start with, so you’re really not equipped to deal with her. Growing balls while pussy-whipped is a nice idea but doesn’t really work in practice.
From personal experience, the only way to exit a long-term relationship with a clingy Thai girl is to move out quietly when she’s away (visiting her family for instance) and cut all communication. If you’re a nice guy you can leave her some money to get her started on her own life since she probably doesn’t have any since she’s probably been living on your wallet for past X years… and it helps soothe things for her in my opinion … in Thailand, we don’t pay for girls to come with us, we pay them to leave …
Goes without saying that you should leave town/state after pulling this and stay away for 6-12 months at least, depending on the length / depth of the relationship.
If she knows any of your mates, they’ll probably get some of the fallout so remember to make it up to your friends later and make sure they don’t give up your phone # or location … actually had a girl follow me 1000km through Thailand to try to find me … a good dosage of paranoia is warranted. Some even leave the country for a bit, a month in Cambodia to cool one’s heels is reported to do miracles.
Once you’re out of the relationship and have had sufficient time to recover from any fallout you’re experiencing, then make sure to grow some balls before entering any new relationships.
good advice