Not every Thai girl is super easy to meet with even though many are there are some girls out there who are simply too scared to meet anyone. They’ve either had a bad experience before or simply just had a long string of guys come and go and none of them were actually genuine or their type so they get a little jaded.
Just because a girl doesn’t want to meet you right away doesn’t mean she won’t meet you. If she totally isn’t your type and you were only thinking of a one night stand then its best just to move onto the next girl. However if she’s worth it and you really want to meet this girl then there are a few things you can do to make her more into you and trust you more for a meet.
If you’ve read enough of this website you’ll know that I talk a lot about Thai girls and how to get them into bed how to manipulate them into do anything you want. I have thousands of Thai girls as friends on Facebook most of whom are able to read English and you better believe they read my blog with intense curiosity. Thai girls are very competitive and if they see you have lots of other girls they instinctly want to compete.
The secret to getting the girl to meet you is trust. And just like my Facebook page with the endless girls I meet and even though I’m seen as a total playboy I’m still creating trust with them because if other girls want to and do meet me then why aren’t they?
To gain a Thai girls trust is simple.
- Be consistent
- Be polite
- Take your time
If she is hesitant about meeting then ask for her phone number if she doesn’t want to give you her phone number then talk to her once a day. Be consistent with the time as most Thai girls have a schedule and come online at certain times. Do this until she is willing to give her your phone number. Once you have her number call her once only for a quick chat.
On the Internet and on the phone you want to come across as polite as possible if you speak Thai then it’s easier just say Krup at the end of the sentence. If you only speak and type English then being polite is to stay away from any conversation that involves sex.
Some girls are harder than others but just because you spoke with her on the phone and you’re being polite to her through chat and email doesn’t mean she’s ready to pick up and go meet you. You need time for her to trust you more. Unlike in the west where girls are more interested in getting to know you better before meeting you Thai girls are more likely to use time as a way to see if you’re going to stick around or not.
Some of the best girls are ones that you have to wait for
If you are following these steps a meeting can happen at any time either by you or by her but you should wait till she is ready for it. Once I went so extreme as to delete my entire profile from the dating site so that the girl would trust me more. And it worked! By the third meeting she had declared she was my girlfriend.
For a girl that is hard to meet you must not talk about sex and I honestly can’t stress this enough. Most Thai girls are happy to talk about sex but those who are afraid to meet it is a subject that will not help your chances of a meeting.
When you think she is ready for you to meet her and you ask for a meeting you should already know what she is comfortable with. The most comfortable meeting for a girl is to meet at the shopping mall where there are plenty of people. She might never have met a guy online before so it needs to be very open. Asking her out to the movies isn’t a good idea either because it’s dark and sitting next to some stranger won’t make her feel any more comfortable you need to ask her to meet you at a coffee shop or noodle shop. I always recommend a noodle shop as everyone eats noodles and not everyone drinks coffee.
In my experience 99% of girls will eventually meet it’s about how much trust you can build with the girl. I’ve had girls that lived within 10km of me and we talked for a year before they were willing to meet me. In fact these girls who take that long end up being very self conscious but because you’ve had a year of repore with them it makes it easier to either A) have them be your girlfriend or B) get them into bed. The secret to having a long repore like this with a girl is to only talk to them once a month via phone or on the internet any more than that and you are simply wasting your time.
When to give up on meeting a Thai girl
Not everyone is going to be into you and not every girl is going to want to meet you. At some point even with the more difficult girls you’re going to have to decide when enough is enough and know that this girl is never going to meet you.
It’s very annoying when you like a girl her photo looks great and you love talking to her but she won’t now or in the future meet with you. She is just not ready and you need to accept that she’s not going to meet with you and you should move onto the next girl.
If you haven’t met the girl within 4 weeks of talking to her and there were ample opportunities then it’s time to forget about meeting her!
Just because you should forget about ever meeting her doesn’t mean you should stop talking to her. Yes keep in contact with her still but don’t burn your bridges! Make sure she knows that you want to keep her as a friend and have light conversations now and then, eventually she may meet but in your mind make sure you could care less if you do or don’t.
