I know I’ve talked a lot about how to sleep with Thai women, how to have multiple girlfriends, how to manipulate Thai girls, basically this blog has been about how to fuck as many Thai girls as you can, good girls or bad. But today i want to talk about how to take care of a girl so that she will do ANYTHING for you, without you asking. I still believe that Thai women know exactly how to take care of a man. They know what it takes to make you never want to get rid of her. This is an attribute of Thai women that I’ve rarely seen in most other people. Most definately not in Australia or the USA. Thai women can make a softy of even the devil.
Thai girls have a reputation of saying I LOVE YOU super early into the conversation, at first I actually believed it, but after about the 15th girl to do this i came to the conclusion that they do this because they watch a movie and 15 minutes into the movie they are I loving you. So Thai’s grow up with this idea that Farangs want to hear I love you so that you will still be interested in them. Little do they know that for most guys here, saying this is a real turn off and a sign to find another darling. Rarely, if ever, when speaking only Thai to a girl will she say ฉันรักเทอ after the second date.
There’s typically two types of girls that I prefer to date, university girls (preferably Freshies) and girls in between jobs. You’ll here a lot of wankers in Thailand talk about their HiSo chicks or Normal working girls whom they don’t have to support. Those same guys probably only fuck that same girl also, really is a waste. The main reason i choose university girls and girls outta work is because they have time. A girl with a job, can’t go anywhere. My exception is coyote girls who can generally get time off and has cute friends.
There are 200,000 monks in Thailand, you might notice on the street that there appears to be more women then men, might even lead you to believe there are more women in Thailand then men, however it’s more like 200,000 women don’t have a mate. If you add that there is 800,000 more women then men in dating ages 15-64 that’s like a million women without a Thai male, the odds are massively in our favor.
Even with the best odds, and the clingy nature of Thai girls keeping a Thai girl without a bunch of drama is something few men here seem to be able to do. As much of a douche bag people have claimed me to be you won’t find a girl in Thailand that would say when they were with me that I didn’t take care.
Taking care of a Thai girl has only a little to do with money. Obviously if the girl is in school or without a job and you actually did care about her you wouldn’t let her starve because you didn’t want to give her any money. That’s also true with girls who earn only a basic salary. The problem is unless you are living in the same economic situation as these girls, you’re going to have to support her, period. It’s amazing how little your Thai girl actually needs though. If her most basic requirement accommodation and transport costs are met. I’ve had girls sleep in my room who cost me as little as 2000 baht a month for her expenses. Meanwhile plenty of guys pay thousands on Escorts and go go girls.
I’ve always found that Thai Girls are always ready to say “YES”. It’s not because they want to fuck, it’s because they are attention whores. They will walk around you get you drinks, they stand their like a personal butler because they want your attention. They want you to acknowledge they are their, they want you to talk to them, they want you to eat with them, they won’t go to sleep until you go to sleep, they pretty much go and do wherever you go. Most Thai’s are like sheep and you’re like the sheep dog herding them into line.
The point is that “taking care” monetarily is easy, hundred bucks to the parents, hundred bucks to the girl for noodles and som tam every month and most Thai girls are “taken care” of financially. That’s not what costs money though, it’s the time it takes you to do basically everything for her.
Things That Your Thai Girlfriend May Need You For:
Eating – She will only eat when you do and complain if you don’t eat
Sleeping – She won’t sleep until you sleep and complain when your going to sleep
Running Errands – Going to the post office, the bank, getting a drivers license, a passport, basically if she’s never done it before she will rely on you to tell her how to do it.
When you often hear of hookers in Thailand especially the bar girls most have Thai boyfriends, when you hear that you often imagine some guy who has strict control of his girl and hooks her out in the bars, while that may be true in some cases the vast majority of the cases is the girl has strict control over the guy and she loves being in charge. Yes the girl does give him money but he earns it typically cooking and “taking care of the girl” probably why you’ll also hear about bar girls saying Thai guys hit them and shit. Not that i’m advocating hitting any girl it does make you start to think about the reason. The Thai guy who takes care the bar girl is a little bitch, also the reason why most of them are Toms.
Taking care of a bar girl while she’s working is super easy and doesn’t cost you much money if any at all, but will cost you time. Simply cook or buy her the food she wants, pick her up from work, do all her errands, and be with her when she goes to sleep, let her have sex with as many customers as she wants and don’t complain, you must however remain faithful or she goes psycho bitch on you and you too can become a little bitch.
Taking care of a little uni girl should only cost you the basics. The main advantages here are pretty obvious, she’s at uni so she pretty much lives on MaMa noodles already, she isn’t sucking dick every night, her only real “taking care” of needs are eating and sleeping and by becoming dependent on free accomodation is much more relaxed when she finds out you’ve taken on a Gik or Mia Noi.
I honestly haven’t found any “girlfriends” to be gold diggers, perhaps I’m just better at picking the less money hungry, but what i’ve found them to want more is attention. To truly “Take Care” of a Thai girl and keep her happy is fairly simple just make sure you do both of these:
Send a few baht to her folks every month and say that’s all you can spare.
Take her to eat something she really likes at least once a week.
It’s amazing how long a girl will stay with you if you just keep doing those two things, no matter how many other girls she finds you fucking, she will still be “taken care of”.
