Sometimes I’ll go through months of using Dating Sites, then I’ll move to the Chat Sites, then i’ll go through periods of sleaze where I’m hitting the Karaoke Clubs, G clubs and go go clubs, I’ll have stints at beer bars and nightclubs, even going to 7 eleven I can come back with phone numbers. Doing all of that you meet a huge range of girls. Good girls and bad girls. If you’re reading this page and do the same thing and you don’t have a photographic memory then then you are going to be able to relate to the following scenarios.
You ever call the wrong girl? I have this system on my phone that I order the girls numbers by province (because I travel so much) and then I order them by age. But sometimes you mess up, you forget to save the number or you save the number to the wrong name and all of a sudden you call up the wrong person.
I’ve had cases where I called up a girl asked to meet her then a different girl shows up. Actually she was the right girl for that number but I thought the number belonged to someone else.
You ever call a girl and you’re trying every which way to get her to say her name without you asking for it, just so she doesn’t think you can’t remember her name?
Sometimes you hand your number out, sometimes you’ll email it out and then weeks sometimes months later that girl decides to log in and check her emails and give you a call and you’re like “who the fuck are you?”.
Girl gives you her number out somewhere, you call her up and she hangs up on you….you’re like wtf…..then a few hours later she calls you back. She was with her boyfriend and couldn’t talk.
Thai Women Talking
Thai women like women anywhere else in the world talk. And they talk and they talk and they talk. Mindless useless shit that us men could care less about. While we the farangs bitch about news stories on Thai Visa the women are talking about us on Lady Inter.
Take a look at this thread http://www.ladyinter.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=31907&title=thaifriendly. This is the most common thread I know on this annoying website. Basically a girl meets some guy on the dating sites like Thai Love Links or Thai Friendly and posts his picture see if any of the other members know what his about.
If you think all Thai girls are looking for ever lasting love your kidding yourself. There are just as many Thai girls playing the game out there as there are Farang, perhaps more. That said this kind of bad advertising on Inter Lady can really screw up your chances even with another player.
Problems with online Dating
I wrote the book on Online Dating in Thailand in fact the system works so good that I’ve done 100’s of girls most barely could speak English and many were virgins all over Northern Thailand and Isaan and parts of central Thailand. The system works but it’s got a problem.
When you date so many women you are bound to get some heat back from the girls, some fall in love with you and some go completely psychopathic!
Thai girls will:
- Stalk you
- Bang at your door late at night
- Contact your ex girlfriends
- Contact your current girlfriends
- Post your photo and details on social media sites.
Recently I had a Thai girl be a little too crazy for my liking, she starts sending all these girls messages from Thai Friendly (which I hadn’t used for months) asking girls if they know who I am. Below you can see one of the messages. For those of you who can’t read Thai yet she is warning the girl (one of my girlfriends) things like;
Do you really know who Chris is? He seems bad for his job but it’s so much more he is so bad to Thai girls, i’m just warning you, if you want to know anythying more email me, I know everything!
She goes on in another thread that where she claims she has already found 28 girls that have slept with me. All I can say she’s still got a long way to go. lol Funnyly enough the girl in question could really give a shit what this person says. Does anyone else get this drama or is it just me?
Limiting damage
What I try to do is only sign up with a dating site for one money. I’ll create my profile get all my contacts in that month then close it down. This works for two reasons first is all those girls just think you’re now talking to them which creates more trust. And secondly if any of those chatty girls on Lady Inter link to your profile it’s now removed. I then create a new profile in a new city with a new picture. This limits your exposure so this sort of attack.
I had a question about dating site profiles. You have to wait until the membership is expired and use a new email address to create a new profile, paying for another membership to have a “new” profile?
wait till the last day of your membership before deleting your profile and starting again