Let’s face it some profiles are going to let you down and if you speak little Thai and she speaks little English there is only so much you can know about your date before you meet her. In fact if she speaks no English at all and you speak no Thai how would you know if she is trailer trash or a High Society slut, you don’t! You can only go off of what you see and hear on the Internet and maybe video chatting. Unless you’re fluent in Thai and even then you’ll still get the odd ugly duckling come through.
“You won’t find Mrs Right if you spend any time with Mrs Wrong”
I’ve seen most guys fail miserably on a first date they seem to go through the motions and be the polite and nice guy but for what? You’ll end up buying dinner going out for drinks or whatever it is you guys planned and you’ll just feel like getting out of there as soon as you can. Instead what you should be doing is getting yourself out of the situation as fast as possible save your time so you can meet the girl of your dreams.
I’ll give you an example:
I met this girl on the Internet she said she was 160 and 50kg well that’s considered a tad on the cushion side but hell why not I had nothing to do anyway. So I go meet her and we agree to meet out the front of Lotus then go for some noodles. When she arrives she’s in a white Honda accord it’s late and I can’t see inside so I jump right in. Well straight away I could see she was actually pushing 70kg and nothing like her picture. I could have A) continued as planned eat the noodles and get the hell out of there but instead I chose B) I asked her to stop the car I opened the door said I’m sorry I have to go and left. She was probably stunned but why should I continue with the date if I’m not at all interested.
If things have gone sideways on you then don’t just let it continue you have to stop things right there and then. Say you’re eating noodles and she’s slurps and you can’t stand slurpers then excuse yourself pay the bill and get out of there. Tell her you don’t feel well and your leaving immediately and no need to follow me please!
