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The Proper Way To Sponsor a Thai girl

What is a sponsor?

A sponsor is typically an older gentleman (though not always the case) who trades money or gifts for the ongoing company of a Thai woman / girl. Usually the company entitles sex but doesn't have to be. The sponsor of a Thai girl is typically a western male who has the means to keep the company of the Thai girl. Sponsoring a Thai girl doesn't mean she'll be faithful for you nor does it mean she'll be around when you want her either, but there are ways to ensure that you get what you want.

How much does it cost to sponsor a Thai girl?

I've heard radical stories of guys giving their sponsor up to 100,000 baht per month. This is ridiculous, the average Thai wage is 6,000-8,000 baht per month so why someone would need that much is beyond me. I'm a foreigner and live comfortably in Thailand for 20-30,000 per month so anymore than what I'm making is just absurd. How much a sponsor gets depends really on where you found the girl and not so much on where she is from and her family position in society. I've have a sponsor who came from a rich family who was attracted to being a sponsor because it gave her status within her friends group. For some reason her friends were jealous that she had a foreign sponsor so that gave her more motivation to be a sponsor.

If you find a girl in a beer bar or go-go club you'll be expected to pay no less than 30,000 per month, and this does not guarantee that she won't still be working at those places either, actually chances are she'll be more motivated to work at a bar in the chance that she'll find another sponsor, the girls at bars targeting foreigners are the most expensive and most unreliable sponsor you can find in Thailand. Your better off sponsoring the night than more than that it'll just cause you pain.

Thai girls you find on the Internet on English language dating sites are also expensive, typically they have a high level of English, have better education, and are more interested in the big prize (marriage) than they are of finding a sponsor, you can find them though, I actually found 2 girls 18 and 19 who were willing to move to another district (together though they didn't know each other and were happy enough to just get an apartment and enough money to eat. Typically these girls are runaways and/or have sever problems at home.

The cheapest sponsors you can find are Thai university students, these girls have only two things in mind, studying and getting good grades, as well as partying and having the latest gadget to show off to their friends. Typically the ones who want a sponsor are those who really are determined to finish school but their parents are having trouble paying the bills, these girls are the ones you want, their eager to please young, and will be extremely grateful for your generosity. Usually you can get away with sponsoring a Thai university girl for less than 10,000 per month, i typically wouldn't pay more than 6,000 and that includes rent, any more than that and your asking for trouble.

Where to find a Thai girl to sponsor?

As stated before and i'll recap where to find a Thai girl to sponsor.

  1. Bars and go-go clubs
  2. The Internet
  3. University

Most single Thai girls are good candidates for sponsorship, though meeting them is always tricking and that's only half the problem, then you have to somehow convince them that a sponsorship deal is better than a full time girlfriend, but that's a different story.


The best place to meet girls for sponsorship i believe is through the Internet, it's become acceptable nowadays for girls to find a sponsor over the Internet. And I'm not talking about a Thai dating site, I'm talking about chat rooms for Thais, in Thai language! But you don't read Thai? Doesn't matter, hire someone to do the grunt work for you, not so hard, just put an ad in the local English newspaper or website for someone to do translation work then explain you want to find a sponsor and that you need them to find one online for you and set up a meeting. If you do speak/read/type Thai like i do, you'll find you'll get better deals.

I've found a Thai girl to sponsor, now what?

I'm pretty sure you can fill in the blanks on this question, what you want to do is find someone who needs a place to stay so you can set them up in a cheap apartment somewhere, if you want more than one you'll have to be upfront at the start so that they stay where you pay for and the next girl has to stay at the same place, often they won't want any funny business at the same time however they will almost all agree to sleeping together without doing anything, after a while it get's easier to have them do what you want. Manipulating a thai girl is easy if you know what to do.

Sponsorship typically goes for a one year contract, but you need to give 3 month terms. Always say you have 3 months that way you have a better bargaining chip after the 3 month contract. Always have the apartment in the Thai girls name and not yours! Don't worry about them running off with the deposit, most girls are smart enough to know that it won't get them that far anyway, you want 3 month terms so you can bargain for more rights and extras.

Having more than one Thai girl at a time.

Fear is your weapon, money is your tool! Remember this and you'll do fine.

For those who really don't give a shit and love the playboy lifestyle this is what you want to read. I've had 2 even 3 girls at the same time all know each other, they even go shopping and eat together, some have even splept together and lived together and when i show up it's party on! I typically don't even pay much either if anything. So how do I do it? It's simple BE HONEST! Don't hold back, explain exactly what you want, and if she say's no, don't worry, sponsor her then hold it over her head and she'll do it. They all do, just be firm, be a man, and don't give a fuck about them, they will do what you want if you be honest and straightforward. They are used to being lied to, so don't do this, be open about the other girls your seeing and sleeping with if you lie once, they will lie 3 times. Even if you are honest like this don't expect them to be though, always keep your eye open at all times.

How to keep a Thai girl on a short leech!

Thai girls are really bad liers, i know when someone is lieing to me, even when i don't want to believe it. But sponsoring a girl that you don't live with and you arn't around all the time is leaving the ball open for her to screw around on you, believe me, they will.

If a Thai girl starts talking about some farang guy she met down at 7 eleven and she seems overly happy about it, yeah she did something wrong. If she turns her phone off when your around, yeah she's don't something wrong. If she closes her computer when you arrive, yeah she's don't something wrong.

First thing you want to do is just act ignorant! Second you want to do is employ one or more of the following tactics.

  • Buy a motorbike equip it with GPS don't tell her then say she can use the bike.
  • Buy a new mobile phone and sim card, give it to her as a present and put 2000 baht on the sim card. She might keep the other card, but she will now be using this one, make sure you register the sim so that you can track phone calls.
  • If you rent an apartment DO NOT rent one near a shopping mall or anywhere near tourist areas or where foreigners stay, your asking for trouble!

If you do find out that your thai girl was unfaithful, well you are a lucky guy now! Why do i say lucky? She just cheated on you. Man your going to learn something now, this is your perfect bargaining chip! Now you can reduce the amount of money you give her, you can get more out of her because of what she done and you can say it's over unless you agree to do some kinky 3 way action with her best friend. Trust me, the best thing that can happen with a Thai Girl sponsee is to find out she has cheated on you, don't get wound up, hell how many times a week you cheat on her?

Final Thoughts

Sponsoring a Thai girl is in many ways better than having a Thai girlfriend, it won't last forever (it can though) but you can have great fun and most of the time you can do it during the day when the wifey is out at work. Good luck and if you have any thoughts or comments i'd love to hear from you.


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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. In 2017 he stopped writing new content (although does update the site) and is now focused on writing for his new website SlyNomad.com.

62 Responses to The Proper Way To Sponsor a Thai girl

  1. thaiwoman August 29, 2011 at 8:30 am #

    My father also sponsors a few Thai girls those having several more old men supporting them at the same time so they can have enough money for partying and shopping .. I guess this is just so common nowadays and i don’t this this only happens in Thailand.

    • Chris August 29, 2011 at 8:52 am #

      It probably does happen elsewhere in the world, but not to the extent it happens in Thailand just because of how cheap it is to do here.

      • Ben July 5, 2016 at 7:25 pm #

        in the netherlands prostitution is legal and sex tourism booming. yet it’s one of the wealthiest countries in the world. and sugar baby’s can be found all over the world. western women just charge more for less.

        • Rie March 11, 2017 at 3:42 pm #

          Keyword: living cost. Duh. If you think the $ disparity is solely due to western women’s greed, try taking your Thai sugarbaby to Amsterdam and see if she could last for a month on EUR160 (=THB6,000 i.e. ‘reasonable allowance’ per Chris).

          Besides, you’re comparing prostitution to sugar arrangement. Prostitution is a one-off transaction. In Nevada, an HOUR with a prostitute costs you up to $700 but an sugar baby would go on a 2-week trip, entertain daddy’s bros and be available for unlimited amount of sex for $7,000.

          I sugared when I was in college years to cover my living expense, save towards a business, etc. A room in NYC easily set me back $2k (70k Baht) a month. Charge more for less… Wha…?

          Okay, we’re pale, feisty, and don’t say “I love you”, but we sign contracts: our daddies don’t lurk websites and forums asking others’ opinions on how to handle us, or what our real intentions are. Safe sex isn’t a foreign concept to us (re: a post here regarding Thai women’s view of safe sex) and there’s no cultural difference over which men have to meet us halfway or anywhere ever. Ask us which, how and how many – we’ve done it all.

          I’m not saying we’re better, but the GFE offered by your hometown sugar baby and Thai girls are strikingly different, with the only thing common between them being men’s genitals.

          I understand the novelty of being involved with an exotic-looking partner and experiencing a certain transcultural charge (well, I know my reasons of dating Asian men), but…spare the prejudice, bro.

    • Viking March 16, 2017 at 4:31 pm #

      I ave been living in Thaiand since 1999, and I always feel like a newbee, beacause my friends tell me to go here, and theyb stayed here in Thailand 20 yers before I come here.

      I just want to tell you, what this owner this webside, speak before, so correct, and sometimes the audience get angry.

      HE SAID, UNI GIRL, VERY YOUNG, THEY ONLY WANT TO PLEASE, THEIR CUSTOMER, SO CORRECT, CORRECT.

      nOW, i STAY WITH A LADY SOON 19 YEARS OLD, JUST FINISHED HIGH SCHOOL, 2 DAYS AGO.

      sHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL, SYRONGHARD TO FIND GIRL LIKE THIS.

      i THINK TO MUCH, EVERYTIME BEFORE i BRING HER BED, BECAUSE SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL, AND i AM AFRAID OF BEAUTIFUL GIRLS, SO i DRINK, THEN i JUST GO AND MAKE LOVE WITH HER ALL THE TIME, FOR MONEY, LIKE WE DO IN tHAILAND.

      aND SHE IS THE PROTOTYPE. LIKE CHRIS SPEAK ABOUT, SO EAGER TO PLEASE, AND NEVER HAVE LOVE IN HER HEART WHEN SHE PLEASE ME.

      SO, YOU DO NOT NEED TO SPEAK BAD TO ME, i HAVE A PROBLEM, TO HAVE SEX WITH HER ALL THE TIME. i HAVE TO MAKE MYSELF STRONG ALL THE TIME TO GO TO BED WITH HER, BECAUSE, I AM A STUPID FARANG WHO DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAI CULTURE.
      bUT, i THINK EVERY GIRL JUST WANT YOU TO HAVE SEX WITH HER, AND YOU HAVE TO TELL HER, YOU ARE HAPPY, THEN NO PROBLEM.

      tHERE IS NO PROBLEM. jUST DO WHATEVER YOU LIKE, DO NOT THINK SO MUCH, IF SHE DO NOT LIKE WHAT YOU DO, SHE WILL TELL YOU.

      jUST DO WHATEVER YOU WANT, DO NOT THINK DO NOT SPEAK, JUST ENJOY YOUR PAID FREE FANTASY SEX.

      vIKING.

    • Viking March 16, 2017 at 4:38 pm #

      sORRY i AM DRUNK, AND SHE ONLY STAY IN MY BED WAITING FOR ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER.
      tHAT SHOULD NOT BE A PROBLEM, BUT IT IS FOR ME, I JUST LOVE TOHAVE SEX WITH HER EVERY WEEKEND FOR 5 000 BAHT.
      tO MUCH, TO LOW, i DO NOT KNOW. BUT, i CAN SKIP THE CONDOM, AND SHE TAKE CARE THE PILLS AND THE MEDECIN.

      wHAT A GOOD GIRL.

      bY THE WAY WHEN SHE NOT TAKE CARE, I HAVE 2 OTHER UNI GIRLS TAKE CARE, 19 AND 21, ALL FROM mAHA sARAKHAM. GO THERE, GET HAPPY.

    • Viking March 16, 2017 at 4:41 pm #

      oH, I FORGET TO TELL YOU ABOUT HER CANADIAN BOYFRIEND NOT TAKE CARE HER FOR STUDY. sHE NEVER MEET HIM FACE TO FACE, IT IS ONLY A WEBSIDE LOVE.

    • Viking March 16, 2017 at 4:51 pm #

      Do not worry about spending some money on your thai girlfriends or your wifes or a freelancer.

      everybody do, but spend it wise, so you get quality in retuen.

      In thailand, you not take care the lady, she can take care herself. In Thailand, you just try to take care yourself. That is the secret, never stop loving yourself.

      If you do stop take care your slf go read, Stickmans reader submissions.
      Lately i come to the conclusion, that Chris, is more better to listen too, because he is not to old, and can get the experience stickman neer do, because he is married to a lady from Korat, but we do not know anymore if he still stay with her.

      My advise is, just have sex with them, and enjoy your ride alon, with the girls, and do not try to make them love you.

      Please, do not love them, love yourself. Try it, and you will be more happy then before.
      Viking

    • Viking March 16, 2017 at 5:05 pm #

      I forget to tell you my favorite song, the Hep stars, a Swedish group.

      They sing a song like this………

      Its my life, and I do what I want.

      Me only say, it is not easy to do what you want. Sosiety, teach you and indoctrinate you, that you you have to respect pussy, do not believe in shit like this.

      you just have to move on being a nice man threat everyone with respet, and never forget, that you have to do this with yourself, too.

      Remember, Viking like your true telling stories, too. Tell me and every member here, the true story all the time.

  2. thaiwoman August 31, 2011 at 3:46 am #

    somebody has to educate them that at the same qualifications they can be costly high maintenance and over-demanding as white chics. LOL..

    • Viking March 16, 2017 at 4:56 pm #

      Oh, i just forget to tell you I am 64 years old, but I am very bad an lie the thai ladies, telling them I an 54.

      they give a shit, if you just pay them and tke care them

      I love Thailand.

      If you want a life rule, just check your bank accont 1 time every month, if it is normal, you never have a problem in Thailand.

  3. Rob October 20, 2011 at 12:21 pm #

    Dude…I know there is not much point in saying this but you better hope that there is no law of karma or hell in existence……

    Your one sad dude…what do you do to unwind….people smuggling?

    • Chris October 20, 2011 at 12:52 pm #

      Hey Rob, that must be the funniest comment I’ve had on this site thus far.
      Thanks for making my night mate.

  4. John King November 18, 2011 at 9:42 am #

    What if a Thai woman won’t accept me s a sponsor? Must I remain alone forever?

  5. Fred January 1, 2012 at 6:36 pm #

    Hello,

    i am sponsoring a thai girl for 4 months now,she have good work and litle room and i send 10 000 bahts every months, i say i love she but she answer me she just love me a litle,and we share gifts.she acept the fact we are bf/gf .I know she is not really into me but take care of me and she is ok to meet me when i come thailand for hollydays(about 1 time in a year) when she have time and not work.

    i dont care if she lie me or have hiden bf when i am not in thailand as i know most thai girls do so i will not kill my head with this.i only want spend good time with she when i am in thailand.

    she say want wait marry before sex but in other hand i know and see she is not virgin.

    my problem is i want to stay with she and sleep with she but we never speak about. i wonder if i must be a man and ask directly and be firm or forget to ask this and just spend my time go out with she and friends cause i really dont want loose she . . .

    thank you read me and i will apreciate all help

    Ps : i dont need bads coments.

    • Wayne February 3, 2012 at 2:27 pm #

      Be a man and take control. Tell her your coming over.
      Get drunk first that’ll give you some balls, I think you need em.
      Tell her your gonna sleep together or she’s out.

      Actually whats her name. It could be the chick i’m banging and spending her sponsors money.

    • Johnnie Walker February 13, 2012 at 12:06 pm #

      I think “Fred” is a Thai girl………. just read it again and look at numerous instances of THinglish used 😉 eg. “when she have time and not work”.

      • KimmS March 26, 2015 at 4:45 pm #

        Johnnie … you are damn right… someone (Thai) portraying their imagination

    • John June 8, 2013 at 11:24 am #

      try and do what the other commenter says but find a new one if things dont go well. i think shes taking advantage of you.

    • Dan H October 20, 2016 at 11:50 am #

      Wow Fred this girl is just using you. You would do so much better buying a girl for the short time you are there rather then support a girl year ’round. You may just find a girl that is really into you. When you find that one that clicks then offer to sponsor her.

  6. พิชญา January 8, 2012 at 6:22 am #

    ขอโทษนะคะ ฉันได้อ่านเว็บไซต์นี้มาได้สักพักแล้ว นี่หรือคือความคิดของฝรั่งอยากพวกคุณ ผู้หญิงไทยหลายคนมีการศึกษาค่ะ รู้ว่าอะไรดีหรือไม่ดี ดิฉันไม่อยากพิมพ์ภาษาอังกฤษ เพราะดิฉันเป็นคนไทย อยากรู้ว่าฉันเขียนว่าอะไร คุณก็ไปหาคนแปลให้เอาเอง คิดว่าคุณคงทำได้ เพราะแย่กว่านั้น คุณยังทำมาแล้ว
    ดิฉันเกลี่ยดวิธีการที่คุณทำ ขอบอกนะคะ เลิกซะเถอะ นอกจากคุณจะไม่เจอความจริงใจจากใครแล้วในชีวิต คุณยังทำลายความรู้สึกที่ดีๆจากคนไทยด้วยนะคะ วิธีที่คุณทำ ชาตินี้ทั้งชาติก็คงจะไม่เจอความรักหรอกค่ะ มันบาปกรรมนะคะ ที่คุณทำนะ ฉันไม่รู้หรอก คุณจะนับถือศาสนาอะไร แต่การใช้วิธีการสกปรกๆของพวกคุณ มันทุเรศจนเกินกว่าจะรับไหว ฉันไม่ใช่คนโง่ให้ฝรั่งมาหลอกใช้ค่ะ ขอโทษค่ะ ที่ใช้คำไม่สุภาพ มันเกินไปจริงๆ อยากหาความสุขเรื่องอย่างว่า ไปจ่ายเงินกับหญิงขายบริการเถอะค่ะ เขายินดีบริการคุณอย่างเต็มที่ ไม่ต้องมายุ่งกับผู้หญิงไทยธรรมดาๆ ที่ต้องการเจอความรักหรอกค่ะ มันไม่คุ้มกัน

    จากความคิดของผู้หญิงไทย

    ปล. กรุณาใช้คำสุภาพค่ะ หากต้องการตอบคอมเมนท์นี้ ขอบคุณค่ะ 🙂

    • Chris January 8, 2012 at 6:36 am #

      อืม…ไม่ต้องไปหาคนแปลให้ก็ได้นะอ่านรู้เรืองแล้วนะ ความคิดของเธอก็ไม่เหมือนของผมนะครับ ผู้หญิงไทยธรรมดาๆชอบขายตัวเหมือนหญิงขายบริกาแล้วจะหาที่ไหนนะหญิงแท้ๆไม่มีแล้วมัง ที่ได้เจอนะพวกหญิงที่มีการศึกษาชอบเป็นคนรับใช่ชอบหาพู้ชายมาเลียงขี้เกียจมากไม่ย่อมไปหางานที่ดีอยากมีพี่เลียงมากกว่า ผมก็ว่าคุณรู้จักหญิงแบบนี้ที่เรียนด้วยกันเหยอะแยะใช่ปะ ถ้าตอบว่าไม่ก็ตอแหล

    • Jes February 16, 2014 at 8:46 am #

      Dear; Pitchaya, after I read the article. I feel so sad deep in my soul. How one person can treat other human being without dignity. And I feel very sad to learn that many richer countries can exploded many other poorer country without human conscious. I deeply sad to my tears after I read the link which I never knew before. And I feel so sorry for my country men from the west behave that way without respect to other human being.
      I am sorry that I wrote back in English. I was born in BKK, and grown up in Chicago for 42 years. I can read some Thai, but can’t fully comprehended. And I am no longer be able to speak or wright Thai. But can understand some. So sorry. Jesda

  7. พิชญา January 8, 2012 at 9:03 am #

    คิดว่ามุมมองเราต่างกันจากสังคมที่หล่อหลอมคุณมาให้มีความคิดแบบนั้น ดิฉันเองหาเงินเลี้ยงพ่อแม่พี่น้องในครอบครัว ทำอาชีพสุจริตและมีการศึกษา ผู้หญิงไทยดีๆมีอีกเยอะค่ะคุณ อย่ามาหาวันฉันโกหกตอแหลค่ะ ดิฉันรู้ดีว่าอะไรเป็นอะไร ดิฉันอยู่กับความจริงและสังคมไทยมีสังคมคนดีเยอะกว่าที่คุณเจอ ดิฉันคิดว่าเพราะเหตุนี้เองคุณถึงมองผู้หญิงไทยต่ำมาก และคิดว่าคงขายบริการกันหมด เพราะสังคมที่คุณอยู่มันกล่อมเกลาความคิดของคุณให้เป็นแบบนั้น ลองยกระดับจิตใจให้สูงขึ้นซิค่ะ คุณจะได้เจอคนดีๆมากกว่าผู้หญิงขายตัว 🙂 ดิฉันแนะนำ

    • Chris January 8, 2012 at 9:41 am #

      I don’t think you’ll change any minds writing in Thai. You sound like a very respectable lady and I applaud you for that. Bust honestly this is a post about how to sponsor Thai girls, there are girls out there looking and guys out there willing to give. I don’t even see anything wrong with that as long as it’s both mutually beneficial. I don’t look down on Thai girls well depends on how they have talked to me depends on the level of respect I give them, but that’s the same for any country.

      • พิชญา January 8, 2012 at 9:51 am #

        Thank you for your reply. I can write in English, actually. 🙂 I know what you mean in this case. Most Thai girl still love the other sponsor them because they are too lazy. I’m really agree with this point. On the contrary, sponsoring might have a bit purpose. If you have heard this word before” You give and you will get” Most farang (I don’t like to use this word, honestly)they need something like sex or going steady. 🙂 Your topic seem like support someone who want to seek for sponsoring Thai girls. That’s will make us look slightly bad.

  8. Tao Of Badass Members May 9, 2012 at 7:07 am #

    Continue the story, I’m interested.” Then, when she finally begins her story, politely excuse yourself to go to the bathroom. In case you didn’t know, though, around 80% of girls actually cannot reach an orgasm without getting their clitoris “attended to” first. How in the world do you expect anyone to want to be with you when you can’t even get your life together. If you’re lucky she’s not just using you to get what she wants which could be your money or just your attention because it makes her feel good. You would firstly need to “condition” a woman’s mind to obey you – by making her feel “painful” when she says no to you. As a disclaimer to all this, it’s not advisable to “punish” and attempt to shape her behavior too much if she flakes on you for the first hang out.Girls are bored everyday of their lives; most of them hate the monotony of their lives and how much they lack fun. They are plain suggestions and real down to earth methods although some what unconventional to help you to get your girlfriend back in days – not months or years. Then stop trying to please women by buying them gifts and doing every little thing they ask for and learn the most powerful word you can use with a woman: NO!. Strike up interesting and informative conversations – Avoid dull and boring conversations, try to keep it simple, fun and exciting.

  9. Bam April 20, 2013 at 7:51 pm #

    To CHRIS,

    Everything’s okay with you?

    อืม…ไม่ต้องไปหาคนแปลให้ก็ได้นะอ่านรู้เรืองแล้วนะ ; You made me smile.I can see how you proud about your Thai skill, not perfect But It was good. I like how people tried to be good or the best in the positive way.

    ความคิดของเธอก็ไม่เหมือนของผมนะครับ

    ผู้หญิงไทยธรรมดาๆชอบขายตัวเหมือนหญิงขายบริกาแล้วจะหาที่ไหนนะหญิงแท้ๆไม่มีแล้วมัง ;

    Of course! still have somewhere else. And I believe noone want to sale themselves. Also me even I don’t have any BAHT in my pocket money.(will never happen to me because I don’t lazy,dirty and still work hard for now and the future)

    ที่ได้เจอนะพวก “หญิงที่มีการศึกษาชอบเป็นคนรับใช่ชอบหาพู้ชายมาเลียงขี้เกียจมากไม่ย่อมไปหางานที่ดีอยากมีพี่เลียงมากกว่า

    But not me okay. Maybe have some. I don’t like lazy and dirty people.

    ผมก็ว่าคุณรู้จักหญิงแบบนี้ที่เรียนด้วยกันเหยอะแยะใช่ปะ ถ้าตอบว่าไม่ก็ตอแหล; LOL.

    • John June 8, 2013 at 11:33 am #

      Bam, i think what they talk about is about the other kind of girls. From what i read (your comment) i think u r a respectable person. We say thai girls but what we mean is Those kind of thai girls. I often get into a fight with my girlfriend because of this, and i tell her when i say thai girls i dont mean everyone, i just mean those type, i don’t talk about her. i hope she understands.

      I like to complain about thai girls to her and she tells me that she cant do anything about what other thai people do but shes not like that i know its true because we are living together for over a year now (24/7) we eat together and go out together, we do everything together, i know she loves me and i love her too. she stopped talking to many of her friends because of me and is ok with that and me too i dont talk to girls anymore.

      so i get chris and i also get you.
      chok dee kub

  10. Marco September 3, 2013 at 7:46 pm #

    This sounds like a male fantasy as opposed to reality, to have a nice young thai girl living in your apartment who you can screw around with anytime you feel like. In reality, I would imagine she would quickly figure out she’s being used as one of your many other prostitutes, and she would resent you for that. Either she would leave or try to extract as much money from you as possibly by being dishonest. If you don’t satisfy her emotional needs she would just spend time with you for the money, she would not respect or love you, or even like you. Why would you want a relationship like this? What are you getting out of it that you can’t get elsewhere cheaper? just the hassle of dealing with an apartment and a huge risk of this relationship turning sour, it doesn’t sound real to me. If I’m wrong and you guys have had this work, I’m curious to hear how it went, and how it ended, was there really sex involved? otherwise I’ll just tend to assume this is a fantasy setup.

    • Chris September 4, 2013 at 11:38 am #

      It’s real, I have sponsored plenty of girls for months at a time, it works well eventually they leave it’s not sour they know the score from day one.

    • ujealousofwhitebastard May 1, 2015 at 11:25 am #

      Attention: clean up of emotional tampon in aisle 5.

      You sound jealous and pathetic. That’s quite an accomplishment in so few words.

      What’s he getting out of it? The opportunity to drain his balls whenever he wants, without the hassle of a relationship.

      What does she get out of it? Who the fuck cares?

  11. tony November 16, 2013 at 7:37 pm #

    I love your idea of cutting the tg money after she’s been caught out screwing someone else. or better still extracting more kinky sex from her.
    they are selfish cheaters & liers & lazy.
    my tg is having her friends text me to try to convince me she didn’t screw someone else,
    who is she trying to manipulate.
    she needs to be taught a lesson
    cheers
    tony

  12. Lauren J January 29, 2014 at 2:13 pm #

    Can’t any of you losers get women in your native country without traveling to Thailand to prey on young women that will do just about anything to improve their way of life! You are PREDATORS and the men I have known that do what you do are normally LOSERS that can’t get smart, strong, independent women of their native country!!! This is how I see your type: is normally, middle aged to older, fat pigs, or personality flawed types that need to prey on much younger, uneducated women so you feel superior, smarter and richer!!! YOU ARE NOT, you may be wealthier, smarter or even better looking in Thailand, but your not. You are still the SAME LOSER, so don’t forget that:(

    • ujealousofwhitebastard May 1, 2015 at 11:31 am #

      Wow, you sound like one embittered sow.

      You say that men who resort to sleeping with Thai women can’t get, “smart, strong, independent women.” Are you referring to the land whales who’ve let themselves go, yet want to be catered to, supported, etc. without putting anything into the relationship? That “strong” type of women? How about Thai women, who are smart enough to take advantage of available opportunities (farang), strong enough to accept the challenge of making things happen and independent enough to do it themselves? Oh, and they’re slender, pretty and pleasant to be around.

      Go back to your cats and romance novels and leave us the fuck alone.

    • Ben July 5, 2016 at 5:51 pm #

      smart, strong, independent women of their native country!!! ?? what’s the benefit of this to a men? it’s this feminist bull that destroyed relations in the western world and makes men look elsewhere. western women simply dont have much to offer anymore. they party and fool around in their teens and 20’s with the bad boy’s, and when they hit the wall ,they want a nice guy to bail them out of student loans, settle down, have kids. then it’s of to the family courts for a divorce where they rip your wallet out of your A hole. no thanks. i dont need that drama in my life. i’m looking for a better deal.

    • Dan H October 20, 2016 at 12:12 pm #

      You are upset that we have an outlet for our desires and you can’t get laid. If you have it so together why are you here ranting about what some folks you don’t know are doing? Maybe we are fed up with cheating dishonest women we must eventually Divorce and give half of all we have worked for to….

    • Paul white January 31, 2017 at 9:20 pm #

      What a sad bitch lol

    • jess February 25, 2017 at 4:28 am #

      I love your comment. brother

    • The traveller March 6, 2017 at 4:45 am #

      I’m twice the age of the girls I date in Asia. Super fit, look like Cpt America. Post grad degree from an Ivy. Well paid professional with great social skills. Would have no problems getting a date with women like you in the west, EXCEPT, I have no interest in you. Not even if you were the same age, looks etc as the Thai girls. No western woman does anything for me.

  13. Johnnie Walker January 30, 2014 at 10:21 am #

    Lauren, that is a rather harsh and a very a sweeping statement. There all sorts of guys from all walks of life come to Thailand from the stereotype you describe to well educated successful business men. Have you ever even been toThailand?

    I think as is so often the case you are infact very jealous of the number of slim, attractive younger women readily available to older foreign men.

    As for saying the guys are “preying on” the girls, well you just show a complete lack of knowledge and understanding as to how things work in Thailand.

    Myself I don’t play the rent-a-wife game, there really is no need, there are so many well educated professional ladies with independent lives keen to meet a respectable foreigner.

    • Wayne January 31, 2014 at 9:13 am #

      Exactly. I won’t date anyone in Thailand without a university degree and good job already. I’ve been the walking ATM before and didn’t like it much.

      • jess February 25, 2017 at 4:29 am #

        hahaha..you are tremendously right

  14. Juke March 12, 2014 at 11:50 am #

    You people definately went to the wrong country. There are
    other countries where you dont need to pay even if youre average looking.
    As a good looking person its even better…

    • Ben July 5, 2016 at 8:31 pm #

      you dont always have to pay in thailand. there are plenty nice thai girls who like to date men. when i’m in thailand and go out with thai friends, it takes about 2 min for 3 women to approach me. and i dont mean at the go go bars. i’m a little younger then most western men visiting thailand, financially stable and even in the western world considerably good looking. yet i like to have some other kind of relation then most, once i move to thailand in about 2 years from now. i’m not looking for marriage [the thing most of the thai girls are looking for] and i’m not looking for a prostitute. i hope to find a middle ground. in respect of both parties needs and wishes. the financial part is simply a need for most thai women. and i have no problem contributing a bit of my money if a thai women is willing to contribute to my needs and wishes. give and take.

  15. Mangpor June 23, 2014 at 4:30 pm #

    There are so many foreigners think about Thai ladies only in a sexual way. I know Thai girls have a bad reputation that way and its hurt me so much when I hear that kind of thing. I want to let you know about those ladies who make the dark side in my country. Most of them are uneducated and they have no choice to choose a job, many of them were forced to be as well. Some of them may think becoming a prostitute is the only way to solve problem. I and majority of Thai people really don’t like that idea, act as a product to full fill men satisfaction is so embarrassed.

  16. Jim February 28, 2015 at 12:04 am #

    Mangpor,

    Thailand is not the poorest country in the world; India is so why are Indian people not prostituting themselves like Thais?
    I say Thais are greedy and worship money, most Thais like you will speak of these girls as uneducated and poor but you and your government will not do anything to stop these sex tourists from entering Thailand and spend their money on millions of Thai hookers.
    I tell you why because you also benefit, educated and rich Thais provide services to these sex tourists in the form of hospitality and banking to enable them operate. The Thai economy is built on sex tourism so what are you talking about?
    Your comment is hypocritical and lacks common-sense. Thailand has laws against prostitution but when a Thai hooker reports to police and people like you when some farang refuses to pay them you arrest the foreigner for not paying the prostitute who is doing something illegal!!!

    • Johnnie Walker March 4, 2015 at 3:21 pm #

      “The Thai economy is built on sex tourism”

      What a complete load of bollocks. Just shows how uninformed you are.

      • Chris March 4, 2015 at 4:03 pm #

        Well he kinda has a point JW. Considering before Mass tourism, sex tourism was a massive percentage, while it’s only a small percentage today compared to normal tourism it is fair to say it was built from sex tourism. What’s ur argument?

    • Himmler April 25, 2015 at 10:20 pm #

      “Thailand is not the poorest country in the world; India is so why are Indian people not prostituting themselves like Thais?”

      Are you sure you can say that for certain? Maybe it’s because they’re aren’t enough women in India to begin with. Also, I hear prostitution is big there too.

      • Chris April 28, 2015 at 8:20 am #

        You don’t know much about India dude, there are millions of prostitutes in India, they even have a whole village who’s entire income comes from prostitutes for centuries. Try google.

        • Steve August 29, 2015 at 1:47 am #

          Please tell us more Chris. I’m looking for somewhere different for my next holiday.

    • ujealousofwhitebastard May 1, 2015 at 11:34 am #

      “why are Indian people not prostituting themselves like Thais?” Because they’re fucking hideous.

  17. james July 18, 2015 at 11:18 am #

    ok after reading over this site i am offended. sponsor is such wrong term to use here. a sponsor is some on that open there heart and home to some one and helps them achieve their dreams of a better education and only thing that should be gotten in return is thank you . definitely not some live in slut at your beck and call.
    and keep in mind that 30,000 baht is only worth $875 us dollars and this publisher is saying to only pay a messily 6000 baht that 175 dollars. your not hiring prostitute your helping out someone that is financially needs assistance from caring heart .
    so quit being perverted pig you are disgusting and give real sponsors bad rep, no wonder why these people fear us when pigs like you and publishing crap like this . this site need to be torn down and you the publisher need to spend some time in jail for human trafficking and for being perverted deviant pedophile.

    • Chris July 18, 2015 at 4:08 pm #

      human trafficking…deviant pedophile? You’re actually breaking the law by making untrue statements online in Thailand. How do you get pedophile anyway that pisses me off to no end. I only fuck girls 16+ which is far from being a pedo dickhead.

  18. Sean January 1, 2016 at 4:36 am #

    Great article Chris! Can it work out if I put my sponsored girl in my own apartment, and tell her to be quiet/stay in her room/go out when I bring another girl over? I’d prefer the extra closeness of living together, but of course need to fuck other girls too!

    • Chris January 2, 2016 at 2:53 pm #

      i do it pretty much every day.

      • Sean January 3, 2016 at 1:25 am #

        Cool. Chat rooms are still a thing in Thailand? In the US they’re dead.

        Do you use any other techniques to find them? I was thinking of job ads at the university though this could get risky. I’m in Pattaya.

  19. Al February 22, 2016 at 9:24 am #

    I have been sponsoring a Thai girl for over 3 years, she has lived with me in the UK been on holiday with my children, we have worked on markets together, traveled extensively, our relationship works, she will re negotiate once a year, of course she tries it on sometimes, we have a very open relationship, which is one of the reasons things work, I am happy for her to fuck other guys as long as I get to join in, and she prefers me to be there, we are both into swinging, I have a couple of other girls I see sometimes which she knows about and is OK with.

    When we first started seeing each other she was chaperoned everywhere, eventually her family accepted me and no problems thats when I discovered she has a very high libido, but when I was not there Grandpa, Papa or an Uncle would chaperon her probably worried that I would leave her reducing the family income, her Sister has a Thai partner, sometimes I feel sorry for him as he is the families main ATM.

    A couple of years back they tried the Sin Sod routine looking for 1 million bar, my GF even thought this was hilarious, my answer if we do ever get married, which we are not, we would send her parents 6,000 a month but if we split they get sweet FA.

    At first it is like lease purchasing a GF but when you realize it can be the norm even between Thais this becomes insignificant.

    As long as your happy get what you both want the relationship can work, sometimes my GF has even lent me money, she surprised me this xmas with a high quality branded watch bought in a main store, this made me feel quite guilty as I was shagging a bg I know on xmas eve, she was well aware of this as well, which was probably why she bought it..

    So my advice when sponsoring give a little bit more than her peers get, don’t go crazy use minimum wage for graduates as a base, tell each other what you want, accept if you have a young gf she will shag young guys sometimes, accept you will get headaches occasionally remember she will not have such a mature outlook on life as you, so let her have her fun and hopefully it will work.

  20. Gonzo February 11, 2017 at 6:26 pm #

    Lol u make 20000 a month and dare to teach people about Thailand?? That’s not even minimum wage in the US. Btw, most things are cheaper in the US like cars, phones, laptops,so when people talk about “low cost of living “in Thailand they’re actually talking about living like a poor person, which is cheap no matter where you live.

    • Chris April 2, 2017 at 6:27 pm #

      I didn’t say i make 20k a month i said i spent 20-30k a month, there is a difference, and as an australian who lived in Orange Country for 8 years I can tell you the difference is immense. My 1 bedroom condo cost $3500 in newport beach. Am I qualified yeah dickhead been here 10 years.

  21. Tom May 21, 2017 at 6:24 pm #

    Ha ha you all are old fucks. You can’t even have sex without pills anymore))) you all should be banned from coming to Thailand. Disgrace.
    It’s not like you using girls, it’s them using you until you pay. Once your small money finish they won’t give a shit if you hit dead by the tuck tuck.
    The situation is that you all will never be able to find a young girl or even older one to be with you just because she likes you because you’re old creeps and probably always was, and lost your virginity once came to Thailand and had to pay for it in peanuts.
    I bet you couldn’t afford to pay for a prostitute in a first world countries, could you?
    Don’t be fooled, and it’s so stupid to let other people what you do, it would be embarrassing for any normal man.

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