Extreme feminists aren’t in love with this website, which is a clear indication that I’m doing something right here. I’ve had my issues with them in the past, but once in a while it doesn’t hurt to shed a little light on just how much their movement has crippled any kind of fairness and equality, which, ironically, is supposed to have been what the movement was all about. One of the things a guy has to love about Asia, is that the crazy feminist movement hasn’t done anything detrimental to society here. But in Western Countries like the U.S. and England, the feminists won a long time ago, which doesn’t stop them from going harder and harder at their cause – which is to punish all men, simply for being men.

You might have heard about a recent incident involving hip hop megastar, Jay Z, and his sister-in-law, Solange. A video from an elevator was leaked, showing Solange viciously attacking Jay-Z, who just took the beating like a punching bag. She went at him over and over, throwing everything she had at him. We don’t know what caused her to do this, but we know that hands weren’t put on her, and that she was basically in “I’m trying to physically kill you mode.” No charges were filed, and some people made a joke of the situation, even at Jay-Z’s expense. But a few days later, thankfully, the narrative changed. People, frustrated by the thick double standard, started asking the question, “What would have happened if the video was of Jay-Z attacking Solange?” And then people asked another, perhaps even more important question, “What would have happened if Jay-Z defended himself?” The answers to those questions are obvious. To the first one, he would have been ruined and he would have done jail time. To the second one, he would have been ruined, and would have lost a lot of money. You see, in today’s Western society, a woman is simply free to attack you, and you must sit there and take it until she decides that the attack is finished.
Take a look at this video:
Great job by the group responsible for that video and for their Violence is Violence campaign. In case you skipped over it, the video features an actor and an actress, who take turns acting out a scene of domestic violence in public. When the man plays the role of abuser, people immediately rush to the woman’s aid and threaten to call the police. And then when the man plays the role of the abused, people just laugh. According to the people behind the Violence is Violence campaign, 40% of domestic violence is suffered by men. And get this, in roughly half of the cases reported in the U.S., where the man calls the police on his female spouse, the man is the one threatened with being arrested. And in 25% of those cases, the man is actually arrested. Female arrests are very rarely made in husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend domestic violence disputes. So if your wife beats the crap out of you, and you defend yourself, you go to jail. If your wife beats the crap out of you, and you take it while calling the police, you have a better chance of being arrested than she does.
Feminism was supposed to be about equality! How is it equal for women to get away with abusing their husbands and boyfriends? How is it equal when women can and do get anything they want simply by threatening to lie about some type of abuse that never happened. They’d never do that in a fair system, but knowing that the laws are totally twisted these days, women easily get away with crimes like “falsely accusing someone of abuse or even rape.”
But men are bigger than women? We hear this, but how is it relevant? More husbands kill their wives than the reverse, but the margin is closing. If a woman hits you 20 times, you being “bigger” doesn’t mean you won’t take on significant damage. Women should know that if they are physically abusive, there will be consequences proportional to those men face. That might make some think twice, right? But try and find a feminist in support of that; don’t hold your breath.
In regards to Thailand, the feminists really only touch on the topic of Western males being evil for seeing Thai prostitutes, a topic I wrote about recently here –>>. If they cared about their fellow women here in Thailand, they would make a huge deal about the Thai on Thai domestic abuse problem, which is a cause that really needs support. Or they would try to shed light on some of the really dirty brothels that operate in parts of the country where foreigners never go. In some of those brothels, condoms are rarely used and the women are treated poorly. If the feminists would help Thai women who are victims of spousal abuse or who are abused in the brothels deep into the country, I would certainly get behind them and show my support. But, they don’t. They are only concerned with shaming the men on Soi Cowboy and Walking Street. Because, seeing through the BS, the feminists don’t care about the Thai women. They don’t care about any women really; they’re only concerned with punishing men, that’s all this is about.
The feminist movement is filled with contradictions. Where women in the world need the most help, Muslim countries, feminists aren’t coming to the rescue and fighting for women’s rights. There is some seriously nasty stuff that goes on towards women in some countries; so why don’t feminists get into it? Well, to answer that properly, I actually have to amend a previous statement – that the goal of feminists these days is to punish all men, simply for being men. A more accurate, yet slightly more provocative statement is that feminists seek to punish all white men…for everything. Fighting some Muslim men for their mistreatment of women just doesn’t’ perfectly fit their agenda, so they rarely do it.
Muslim and Thai men aren’t the only ones who get a pass from the feminists, so do men who say bad things about women who don’t share the same political ideology as most feminists. So if you’re a woman who isn’t extremely liberal and progressive, feminists do not care what happens to you.
Here is a list of ridiculous ways in which Western Society is out to get men. These are American examples, but it’s very similar in many other countries.
1) The woman is granted custody in 84% of U.S. custody hearings.
2) If you have a child with a woman, and she leaves you, you will pay child support to that woman based on your income. If a woman leaves you and your child, in almost no cases do courts actually make the woman pay child support.
3) An estimated 30% of out of wedlock child support claims are fraudulent. The burden of proof is on the man to prove he is not the Father. Basically, a woman can name whoever she wants as the Father of her child, and that man is then on the hook for payments. IF he’s not the Father, he must go through a process to prove this. If and when he does prove that he is not the Father, any payments he did already make are not returned. And in almost no cases out there, were there any legal consequences for a woman fraudulently having a man pay child support. They can just give a bill to the richest guy they’ve recently slept with, and there is no incentive for them to name or find out who the actual Father is.
4) An estimated 70% of domestic restraining orders are reported to be either trivial or outright false. This is kind of a big deal, since it’s unbelievably easy for your wife to get one placed on you. As long as she files the paperwork, the courts are likely to grant it. The impact? You then have to leave your house and may not even be able to see your children.
5) Women receive much shorter jail sentences in the U.S. for the same crimes. Robbery with a weapon earns the average man 51 months in prison, and 18 months for the average woman.
6) The Eugene Kanin Study found 43% of male on female rape reports to be false. Among the cases identified as false, 53% of those women admitted they falsely accused someone of rape. Most of the false accusers aren’t even processed for a crime.
7) There are as many male victims of rape in the U.S. as there are female victims. Most of this is male on male rape, an issue that has almost no awareness. Are they not as important as female victims?
8) Many more women graduate college than men, yet many more women receive scholarships than men, and there is a women’s educational equality act in place. No such luck for men.
9) Studies in the U.S. show that income inequality between the two sexes is almost entirely due to the way women choose their careers, and because of the way their careers are impacted by pregnancy and child care. Despite many women choosing not to work, women still own or co-own an estimated 50% of businesses in the U.S. Despite there being no factual proof of income inequality in an apple’s to apple’s comparison, many companies now feel the pressure to promote women over men if they are similarly qualified for the promotion. This is due to “war on women” propaganda.
10) 93% of Industrial deaths and 97% of combat deaths (since the 1st Gulf War) are men. Where’s the call for occupational equality there?
I didn’t even touch on the abuse of false sexual harassment claims, where women can get a payday if they manage to seduce any male who is further up her company’s food chain than she is. But books can and have been written about many of these topics, so you’ll have to excuse my paltry 1,900 word explanation of the problem. In short, women can do whatever they want to a man with impunity, which includes assaulting them and falsely accusing them of crimes. They get the degrees and now they’re getting preferential treatment in jobs. But, when they divorce you (2/3rds of divorce papers are initially filed by women) they get the kids, the house, and half the money. AND, they get monthly spousal support and child support on top. But in the beginning phases of relationships, it’s still men who are fully expected to wine and dine the woman.
Here is Wki’s definition of the feminist movement, which you can see here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, cultural, and social rights for women. And though some feminists have made it clear that I’m the enemy, I stand for all of those things. Most men who have a Mother and a girlfriend feel the same way. And I don’t just think that very progressive American women should have equality, I think that all women should. So that make me more of a purist than any radical feminist you’ll ever find.