One of my readers asked to meet up with me the other day for a beer and hang out really cool guy with unique ideas. We talked about Thai girls and how we hook up with them and he tells me he prefers the use of the free dating sites in Thailand. He claims to meet heaps of girls from this site and it’s not exactly unbelievable even the free dating sites have many girls on them.
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He speaks a bit of Russian which I thought was cool and tells me he met a few Russian girls from the website and is hooking up with them later, need a wing man? lol So we go meet these girls who look more Asian than Russian (apparently a lot of Russians look Asian). But these girls are super boring and I know it isn’t going anywhere with them I’m ready to go home.
So I asked him where he met these girls and he says the Thai Friendly website. Thai Friendly is a free dating site but you can only send a message every Ten minutes you can upgrade your account to get more search abilities and send as many messages whenever you want. So I decide to join just to check it out.
While I’m going through maybe only 20 girls active in Pattaya (lame) those Russian girls were on their and so were more than a few bar girls. I pick one girl who is from the North of Thailand and looks OK, little more weight than I’m used to but still OK and lives within walking distance from me. My mate tells me he’s meeting another Russian over in Jomtien and I’m too lazy to go check it out.
My mate gets back from Jomtien and tells me the Russian girl he met was livelier than the other two chicks he met but still lame and not warm like Thai girls. He does tell me though in Russia the chicks are much more warm and friendly. We basically declare the Russian angle is a bust and should stick with the Thai girls.
So I meet up with the best looking girl on Thai friendly in Pattaya and I’m more than sure I’m the 100th dude she’s met. Her English is pretty good but it sounds like bar English though she does work in Central at some beauty care place. Her see through top showing her nice rack was enough to keep me interested but I can tell she wasn’t, in fact she was kind of weird like she was interested but standoffish. Could just be because she knows I have a girlfriend so maybe it’s just a matter of meeting her more which maybe I will but if that’s the best I can find on a free dating site in Thailand then I think I’ll use the paid sites!
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The problem with a free dating site is the girls get even more messages from guys than on the paid sites. This is not helpful to the punter at all. See if you can send a message free to anyone then your basically competing with absolutely everyone on the site! While dating and getting dates is a numbers game guys will message everyone and the girls will have their choice, so even the most basic average girl on a free dating site will thing she’s super hot and in demand and become super picky and stuck up.
Free dating sites in Thailand suck! In fact the internet is littered with so-called free dating sites that people thought that just by being free they were going to get all these members. But I’ll tell you why a free dating site doesn’t work, see for a girl they don’t care if they are free or not, all the dating sites in Thailand are free for girls anyway! So which site do they sign up to? They sign up to the site their friends tell them to sign up to, their friends are introduced to the site by an advertisement, that advertisement costs money and if you have a free dating site and only have Adsense then you would need about 20,000 users a day to maybe make $100 then you’d have to spend that on advertising, the math just doesn’t add up so even though this Thai friendly site has paid membership most people who would use it don’t pay.
If you’ve read this blog long enough you know I do really well with the “get a girls phone number in 5 minutes” Now that’s a good free dating site but it’s only in Thai. Then I did an excursion into Thailand Dating Sites which I signed up for 1 month and with only that one month met enough good looking girls that I was sleeping with several women at a time, sometimes together.
So you can be all cheap Charley waiting 10 minutes to send one stupid message or you can just pay the $20 – $30 for a month a a decent Thai dating site like ThaiLoveLinks and find quality women who are open-minded good looking and are happy to sleep with you for fun. Don’t think I’ll ever try one of these free Thai dating sites again.
Interesting I never thought about how the girls had a lot more messages on Thaifriendly. I paid for a year, because I like the feel of the site overall and it has more, hotter girls (and i dont like to wait 10 mins to send a message). But with the increased competition etc it’s no wonder I had better luck on thailovelinks….
I think the way girls often view falangs (ruined if they’ve been here too long) is the way girls on online dating sites should be viewed too. The amount of messages, meets and time spent on a dating site correlates strongly with how well things are going to go between you and her.
You are correct, first 3 messages I got had only their phone number in it, sure that’s good, but they all turned to be duds, it could just be because I’m in Patts.
Not been my experience I must say – had great dates on TLL and TF (probably 100+) but they are both quite expensive. DIA has proved almost pointless and AFF was appalling and never had a date yet!
I don’t understand why anyone that can speak and write Thai would go to look on a dating site for a date. The are millions of the Thai women that can’t speak English but that would be interested in meeting a farang and there are only very few farang that can communicate (in an interesting manner) in Thai. So the supply is much bigger the demand and there’s no need to go on dating sites.
Meet a girl from a dating site and your odds are stacked better of getting laid within hours of meeting her whether you speak Thai or not, guess that’s the attraction.
Sure, because on the dating sites the are more professionals, semi-professionals and would-be professionals.
it’s like this guys – would you rather go into a room with 50 girls and not know who was single? who was gay? married? etc. or would you prefer to go into the same room and know they were all single AND looking? that’s why most of us use dating sites.
another thing to mention is ‘resting your profile’ if you have been on these sites for years like me and met many, many girls your profile gets ‘old’. I try and discipline myself to ‘rest’ my profile and re-join after a couple of months with new photo and write-up and a new date for when I joined. I have noticed that my ‘hits’ have gone down substantially over the course of my membership and newly joined friends get tones more because they are ‘new’.
I do exactly the same thing.
Yes I’ve been thinking about that too CMG. I’ve been on TF (paid) for almost a year now, but looking for a keeper not casual flings. I’ve had 100’s upon 100’s of replies, many of which are of no interest and clearly don’t read my profile before sending a message, but there are also some very interesting ladies.
A problem I foresee though is if i close my profile for a while, I’ll lose all my old correspondence & notes.
I wouldn’t worry about it a week on Thai love links and you’ll forget all about it.