One guy I know spent the past 6 months here yet failed miserably trying to find and hook up with any really good looking Chiang Mai girls so I thought I’d give you guys who live in Chiang Mai some pointers on where and how to meet and get good looking girls in Chiang Mai.
In my mind Chiang Mai and Northern Thailand in general have the best looking girls in Thailand if not South East Asia yet as a foreigner you will struggle to find a good looking girl to even talk to you yet alone actually meet one but there are a number of places where you can find girls that are approachable. I’ll let you in on my secret spots soon so keep reading.
The reason why guys have such a hard time here is because of the attitude of the Chiang Mai girl, see Chiang Mai girls are highly sought after by guys who live in Bangkok. In fact if you went to Warm Up or Monkey the Thai guys there are mostly from Bangkok. This is powerful information to know because if you follow in the footsteps of those kinds of guys you can easily find yourself a good looking Thai girl in Chiang Mai.
The thing about Chiang Mai is about making relationships, I’m not talking about getting a girlfriend (although a girlfriend can really help you make more friends here). What I’m saying is you need to make a lot of friends. Of course this can take some time so someone blowing in for a couple of months isn’t really going to be able to pull this off. If you are just coming through town for a bit you’re better off hitting up the takeaways, coyote clubs, and massage parlors on the Chiang Mai Nightlife map.
Still reading then you are one of the lucky ones who live in Chiang Mai for 6 months or more and have the time to make the relationships that will enable you to get to know some really good looking women. Please use this knowledge responsibly and don’t F it up for the rest of us.
If you aren’t a sociable person then you should try to get out there more as the good looking girls in Thailand are extremely sociable and if you don’t have your own friends she is going to think that’s weird. Good looking girls want to hang out with a guy who has lots of friends both Thai and Farang.
How to get good looking Thai girls in Chiang Mai
Find a Wingman or Wingwoman
The most important aspect of hooking up with hot Thai girls in Chiang Mai is having a good wing man or wing woman. A good wing man will be there to help you get a girls friends distracted while you aim at hooking up with a girl you are interested in. Sometimes it’s better to have a wing woman with you especially if you don’t speak Thai, you should instruct your wing woman to tell girls at the club that she is your sister and that you are single. Key traits of a good wing man and wing woman is being outgoing, being able to handle copious amounts of alcohol and should know exactly what kind of girl you like. If you’re in Chiang Mai and don’t have a wing man yet try putting a post in the wing man forum on this site.
Reserve tables in 2 nightclubs
Have a table reserved at Monkey and or Warm up every Tuesday, Friday, Saturday night. Tuesday nights are the best nights to pick up and Saturday nights are the best nights to meet new people. Having a table reserved in the best part of one of these clubs is your chance to rub shoulders with some of the best looking women in Chiang Mai. It’s important though for you to never hit on any of the girls in these clubs. This is important because this is we’re these types of girls want to hang out. Never and I mean never socialize with other Farang at these clubs this is your base, you need only bring the hot girls you meet here for a night out and get them drunk that’s really all your aim is. If you didn’t happen to find any girls yet then still go to the club, dress well and just have a good time if someone at the next table looks at you and smile clunk glasses only when someone looks at you. The idea of these places is to bring the girls get them drunk then take them home.
Where to meet good looking Thai girls in Chiang Mai
Hit up the dating sites
First thing I’ll say is my experience has been that the better looking girls and those girls with cars expensive hair cuts and manicured nails are going to be found at ThaiLoveLinks. Search for girls who work in banks, hotels, business owners and university girls from Chiang Mai university between the ages of 20-30 my experience is girls over 25 are more approachable and have a close circle of friends. Never be interested in anyone you meet unless of course they fit your exact specifications, if you make it sound like a date then it’s hard to change things around without her losing face especially if she brings a friend.
The reason you want to keep it at friendship is that if she isn’t your specification for a hotie then you can use her and her friends to expand your social reach. The more people you know especially when you go to the clubs the better your chances are of meeting some hot girls.
Big C cheer beer girls like to party!
I have a map below so you know what Big C I’m talking about, this particular Big C has a very lively cheer beer crowd and many of the girls are hot enough to take to warm up and Monkey. How to play these girls here is go on a Monday with your wing man sit down and figure out which girls like to Party, easy way to do this is simply ask if they have ever been don’t ask anyone to go with you at this point though. Come back again with your wing man and sit in the Zone with the girl(s) you were eying from Monday this is when you should hit them to go with you either friday or saturday night if unsure get their phone numbers and meet elsewhere, remember to come dressed well to this place even if it is Big C.
Events that run at Prasertland
Prasertland is the large empty lot location where the Infinity nightclub is just off Nimmanheiman. Whenever they have an event out near Prasertland you need to go! There are cheer beer girls here that when they finish work want to party as it’s mostly vocational work that they do so it’s just fun for them, you can meet so many girls at these events don’t be surprised if several girls show up. Events here usually run for a week so it’s enough time to get to know more than a dozen girls. All the beer promos are held here Singh girls are super cute but the leo girls are known for being sexy and easy so my pick is always to go with Leo. Again just tell some girls there to meet you at your Reserved table at Warm up or Monkey.
Buffet Lunches
Not into Buffets well maybe you should start thinking about eating them more often. A buffet lunch might only cost 180 baht or a little more and can be a great place to meet some of the cute girls that work in the hotels. If you live here it’s unlikely that you’ll even meet them because you don’t stay in a Chiang Mai hotel so going so something like a Buffet Lunch is where you can meet girls, the best girls to look for are those who are doing work experience for their final year of their hospitality degree. Girls outside of Chiang Mai usually do this so they have lots of free time but little money so going to a place like Warm Up is out of the question for them, an invitation from you and your free bottle and reserved table is going to go a long way in fact I’ve gone to Buffet lunches at many places where the girls have asked for my phone number and within days we were fooling around before we ever got to Warm.
Final Tips
I guess my final tip here is just to have fun, you can’t buy the really good looking Chaing Mai girls using cash the really good looking girls in Chiang Mai are really just looking for a good time and meet someone who their friends approve of. When her friends get drunk for free you’ll get the approval.
Hi Chris, which hotel in CM you think have nice gals ?
hmm interesting strategies there i like it.
Although you seem to have the social gene and Thai language at your advantage. I’m guessing your wing men and women are mostly Thais? this can be pretty difficult as most Thai women i’ve slept with can do the friendship thing, and most Thai guys are wankers trying to get me to pay for everything.
Maybe learning Thai would make a difference and i could find some better male Thai friends.
Are any of the above strategies with your working SOLO?
Would you go to one of those clubs alone and sit at your table alone?
Yeah my wingmen and wingwomen are Thai they pay there own way, you can do it solo but Thai’s are very social and to go solo is strange to a Thai, I would never go to a club in Chiang Mai alone, but I would in Bangkok, it’s a different scene.
Do you have any hints, where I can find good wingmen or wingwomen? Your forum link seems to be not available anymore.