There’s a decent amount of bar girls in Pattaya who have spent a few months or even a couple of years with a foreign man in his home country, before coming right back to the bar shortly after. The strange thing is that many of the guys who do this are young, as in under 32! With Facebook I’m able to monitor more and more of these situations, and they always leave me puzzled. A lot of these guys are decent looking and have at least enough money to travel frequently. They shouldn’t have much of a problem meeting girls in their own country or non-prostitute Thai girls. I’m not knocking the act of seeing bar girls, it can be a hell of a lot of fun. But I am left shaking my head when a young guy with enough going for himself, brings a Thai whore back home to live with him. And although there are definitely plenty of older men who have done the same thing, it seems like the majority of times I meet a pretty bar girl who spent time in another country, it was with a young dude. What makes it even crazier is that older guys outnumber the young guys in bars by at least 4 to 1. So there must be something like a ten times better chance of a young man doing this than a middle aged or older man. Being that the younger guys have so many more viable options in terms of women, how the hell is this possible? I thought about it and I figured out the answer! This phenomenon exists because young guys… are fu*king stupid.
Young man – “Hi Mom, meet Noy, she’s my new girlfriend and she came all the way from Thailand to move in with me”
His Mother- “Oh, that’s so nice. What did you do for a living in Thailand, Noy?”
Noy- “Work many c*cks”
His Mother- “WHAAAAAAAT?”
Young man- “Uhhhh…Yes, Noy worked the register at a clock shop, you know…selling clocks.”
His Mother- “OOOOOH, I see now. Well you must know a lot about clocks then, huh?”
Noy- “Yes I see many c*cks and work many many c*cks. Can do short time, can do long time too.”
Yea, I don’t personally see the upside. Even if you brought home a Thai girl who never worked in a bar, some people in your home country are going to think she was a prostitute. In reality only a small percentage Thai women have actually worked in a bar, but for whatever reason, ignorant people seem to think it’s more like 50%. So people will wonder either way. But if the girl was never a prostitute, people aren’t going to pick up any “whorish vibes” to confirm any assumptions. However, if you bring an actual whore home with you, chances are that her behavior and demeanor are going to strengthen some of those assumptions. I know what you’re thinking, “Who cares what people think?” That’s a nice philosophy, in theory. But when she leaves or you send her home, which will absolutely happen at some point, all that will be left of her, are the memories your family, friends, and colleagues have of you moving a Thai whore in with you.
So why do these guys bother bringing a girl home, who can’t work, won’t work, barely speaks the language, doesn’t drive, isn’t legal, etc.? I think it’s because living happily ever after sounds appealing, and some younger guys don’t have it in them to look down the road into the future. IF they did, here’s what they would see: The honeymoon phase concluding 2 months in. Then the girl becomes somewhat depressed because she has no friends, family, Thai TV, or Thai food. Reality starts to set in for both of them, and then the girl is back on a one way flight, usually in the bar a few weeks after the plane lands.
If you’re a younger guy in Thailand, you have some advantage. So do yourself a favor and play your cards right; don’t get hung up on a bar girl. And in case you were wondering, talking to a bar girl on Skype 5 times per week counts as being hung up. Being young, at least you can’t make the mistake of blowing a decade or two worth of savings on a girl. That’s nice and all, but it also means that you have many years to have to explain to future girlfriends why you had a Thai whore living with you for a few months back in 14.’ Don’t do it!