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White guys are the black guys in Thailand

Remember those white girls back home who would only date black guys. It used to annoy the hell out of me because I had absolutely no chance with these chicks at all. Typically they were blonde petite and fairly good looking but they had a taste for the Black stuff. No matter how much game I had it didn't matter these girls only wanted Black guys and there was no amount of alcohol that could change their mind.

When I was 18 living in western Sydney I had a really good mate 28 who was Maori (Indigenous New Zealand) and he was very dark in complexion. One day this girl 13 was walking down the street where we hung out. She would have been the complete opposite as white as they come. Even that young she came straight over to us when we shouted out and this chick went straight up to my mate and put it on him didn't even once look at me. Anyway they hooked up and within a few years had a couple of kids, when my mate got pinched on a trumped up driving charge I went over to see her and I asked her why she even went with my mate in the first place and she simply told me that she used to live on the farm and it was her first day in the suburbs and that he was the first black guy she had ever met. She loved black guys and that's what she was only attracted to, simple. They are still together.

Turn the page over and head to Thailand and it's the White guys that are now the Black guys of Thailand. There are girls in Thailand that will only date foreigners, typically western looking guys English, American and Australians that have white skin. In fact most Thai people in general look for these qualities if you havn't figured out yet Thai people are pretty racists which is probably why you don't see many black folks in Thailand.

As a white guy in Thailand talk to any Thai girl for more than 10 minutes and she'll put her arm parallel to yours comparing the skin colours. This shit really annoys the hell out of me especially in Chiang Mai when most of the girls have whiter skin than I do. Yet they are so fascinated about the colour of your skin it still amazes me to this day. I think for many of us here in Thailand we don't care if they are dark tanned or pale Chinese white if they look good they look good no matter their complexion.

But honestly if your a white guy in Thailand they make you feel like a rock star. Head to Pattaya for instance and walk down Soi 8 for a taste of exactly how good they can make you feel. But don't you just hate walking down near the bars and the girls are screaming out at you "Hey Sexy Man" making you smile ear to ear like your the hottest guy on the planet only to get dragged into the bar sit down order a beer then all of a sudden your left alone and the girls scatter and start all over again screaming at the next guy....

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. He has lived here for over 10 years and speaks reads and writes very good Thai.

35 Responses to White guys are the black guys in Thailand

  1. bacardiboy December 8, 2011 at 7:01 am #

    100% agree with your view on this mate , they treat white guys like Rock stars , being an Asian i have experienced it .

    • Jon December 8, 2011 at 1:32 pm #

      @barcadiboy: I agree with you too bro. For me, since Im also an Asian living here in Isaan its pretty cool because I can blend into the Thai crowd and not stand out and get stared at by the Thai people around like the white guys.

    • Daniel August 16, 2015 at 9:41 pm #

      White men are beautiful. Blond hair, blue eyes etc. And south east asian girls love it.

  2. Chemalyn Zambrano December 8, 2011 at 11:58 am #

    I agree! This I observe making most white guys like megalomania! As an asian woman, I hate watching how white guys are taking advantage as to how Thai women treated them like they are gods…sadly, for me, some of them are simply the frogs (feeling prince)

    • Rita Graça November 11, 2013 at 12:12 am #

      And are you as upset the way some white girls treat blacks? Especially because us whites are a minority in the world and alll this mixing is starting to look close to genocide..

  3. Ray December 9, 2011 at 5:20 am #

    I’ve had this thought on occasion before. I know exactly what you mean. I remember those kind of girls who were only into black guys and had often chuckled to myself as I have seen how we white guys are a kind of black guy in Thailand. The downside to this is that they still call us niggers (farang) which seems to me to be completely impolite. But hey, maybe I’m too damn sensitive.

    • Eric December 13, 2011 at 9:09 am #

      I am a westiner going to school to learn thai, I have a sweet teacher who happens to be a history student as well (how often do u find a Thai who knows history.. YES, not often, thay dont care..)

      Anyways, she says the word FARANG comes from when they first saw a white man, and he happend to be from France… so as we all look the same.. that is what we are..
      u gotta love how simple it all is…

      • charlieboz February 15, 2012 at 1:18 am #

        I heard that one as well (farance was how it was pronounced) but then there are a lot of other sources that say it originally came from the Chinese and that the word pre-dates the French and other westerners in Thailand

  4. Gerard Roche December 11, 2011 at 6:25 pm #

    Nothing to do with the colour of your skin. White western guys equal money that’s what the women are chasing

    • Sensible_queen December 12, 2011 at 5:33 am #

      Right! because asian women knew you’ve got the bucks…without your money, white farang are nothing but uncircumcised pigs with bad manners and bad breath…haha

      • Azz November 5, 2015 at 9:26 am #

        Your a jelous little maggot, they like white men because they don’t look repulsive like you little fuckers

    • Eric December 13, 2011 at 9:11 am #

      Yes and no…

      My GF loves femail farangs and their white skin…

      • Chris December 13, 2011 at 9:18 am #

        so does mine! Honestly I think 70% of Thai girls would be ok being the mia noi if mia luang was a white chick.

        • Eric December 13, 2011 at 9:42 am #

          My scandi bar owning friend says that most thai girls are inherent lesbians..

          there u go Chris, another topic for u, he he

        • Dylan December 24, 2011 at 1:28 am #

          Haha, totally agree, my gf would love to get a young hot russiona in bed with her, but she’s not at all interested in other Thai girls.

          I’m starting to agree that they all have the lesbian in them, it just needs bringing out!

  5. HappyinBKK December 15, 2011 at 2:21 am #

    Agreement here also. I was a former inner-city school teacher in Oakland so I’m pretty-well versed in adapting the “Big-dicked, home-boy” persona. It serves me well in that there are a significant percentage ot Thai babes that are attracted to that!

    • DC West May 12, 2016 at 3:37 am #

      I’m from Oakland are you still in Thailand?

  6. Eric December 24, 2011 at 11:30 pm #

    But I just don’t quite get it that they don’t really get into other hot Thai chicks… sure I understand that they don’t want the local friends circle to know but.. even when away they dont seem to want to… I want it damn it! lol…

  7. tu June 19, 2012 at 2:16 am #

    Thailand has 41 ethics, and the ruling ethic is Tai Shan who naturally has white skin, and originally lived north in the south China. Shan or Siam. All Thai kings are shan or siam and have white skin. Siam conquerred the southeast asia from Khmer Empire which has been reduced to small size as today Kampucha, and Siam conquerred Malay Pinisula in the South (phuket) from Malaysia. Southeast Asia aborigines have dark skin, and were forced under rule by Tai Shan or Siam to be thai nationality. The dark skin in the south or Phuket is in fact malay ethic or malaysia, and the dark skin in the northeast Isaan are in fact dark skin southeast asian aborigine, not thai ethic. Worthy of note all prostitutes or bar girls are dark skin issan or malay ethics, while Thai or siam kings are white skin like northern tai shan.

    • Eric November 14, 2013 at 12:56 am #

      @ Tu, thanks very interesting, thanks for that…

  8. Rita Graça November 11, 2013 at 12:14 am #

    Also, if you call the thai girls racist, because they like whites, why dont you call white girls racist b ecause they like blacks???

  9. bob November 14, 2013 at 10:45 pm #

    LOL all studies show that generally low income white women are the ones who go after black guys.

    • HappyInBKK November 16, 2013 at 5:30 am #

      Bob, That fits because (except for a few exceptions,) the only Thai women
      that will have anything to do with “farangs” are the golddiggers and skanks.
      Hence, they’re looking for the financial-security that most Thai males can’t/won’t
      provide. (Of course there are exceptions but I learned long ago not to disregard
      the 90% of truth for the 10% of “exceptions.”) 🙂

    • N95 July 5, 2020 at 9:45 am #

      Ever heard of the name Kardashian!

  10. guy December 1, 2013 at 4:56 am #

    Thai women, and many women in asian countries in general, like white men because they’re physically attracted to them. I’m sorry if this hurts your feelings or perhaps removes your comfort blankets.

    • tuk April 13, 2015 at 3:10 am #

      I am a thai women from the ight skin race. I do not find men of caucasian race attractive. Western men are just iwth black skinned trash women from Thai toilets You hardly get our thai normal girls. Thailand is a land of dark skinned majority and white mnority. Thai kings are white. We have different races and people of different backgrounds. Thai race is white minority, and they are siamese and lanna people minoity.

      Prostitutes in Pattaya are not women of Thai race, but dark sknned Isaan women. Isarn people are not Thai people but just people colonzied by Thai kings to speak Thai language, and they are the largest group of people in the poorest northest part of thailand.We, thai people, got that vast land from loas and cambodia.

      Western men are just with the lowest class prostitutes, and hardly get Thai normal girl.s Most of Thai normal girls you get are divorced women, or already used women.

      Your comment is awaiting moderation

      • DC West May 12, 2016 at 3:39 am #

        Thai people are dark skin people who hate there natural beauty because of ignorance.

        Beauty has nothing to do with the color of your skin?

      • Darryl Hillman October 9, 2022 at 8:30 am #

        I see you got knocked back by a westerner

  11. yan February 1, 2014 at 4:57 pm #

    Im a dark skinned female from Singapore, married to a white Australian. Am in Phuket right now and
    I’m a bit shocked right now at the amount of white males with a Thai lady. Also, it seems as though I am being judged everywhere I go here, as I am seen as a Thai, which is a bit unfortunate as I can’t enjoy the country as much. Can’t put my head around the situation, but oh well we’re all adults and should be able to do as we please without being judged.

  12. since when (thai people) January 10, 2016 at 10:40 am #

    bar girls in thailand are dark Isan people insulted by the rest of the country. how can you say western men are sexy in the eyes of the whole population? walking with Isan bar girls make the rest of the country laught at western men. So there is a thai term “Farang Khee Nok” insulting western men, and this thai term mean “Western men with Bird Poop on the Head”.

    People in Thailand have 4 main origins of people speaking 4 main different languages and having 4 main different cultures (Isan people, Lanna people, siam people, Bak Tai Malay People)

    All Thai kings and queens are Siam people or people of siam origin, speaking siam language, which has become the country’s ruling language. This is while bar girls speak Isan language and eat sticky rice. but Thai kings and queens do not eat sticky rice.

    • Chris January 12, 2016 at 11:46 am #

      Bar girls speak isan. You know even thai people say this shit. There are two main dialects in isan, one from loas the other khmer. When people say speak isan it pisses me off cause isan is not a language nor can it be used to describe a dialect people speak. Thai people make the same distinction and say isan language which tells me nothing of what they actually speak. The majority of bar girls come from buri rum and surin, neither of these places speak “isan” as you would understand it. they speak a dialect of khmer.

  13. DC West May 12, 2016 at 3:36 am #

    It really sad how ignorant the people are here in Thailand. What does the color or tone of your skin has to do with your intelligence and wisdom.

    I watch the news here and the people are not expose to the world outside of a clip of Donald Trump making a fool out of himself but the people in Thailand have very limited exposure of the world which is sad because a mind is a terrible thing to waste and this country is becoming a waste dump of ignorant people who think that white is right.

  14. Plan October 6, 2016 at 4:29 am #

    These are all very funny. It’s basically a rule of the jungle nothing more nothing less.

    Western countries start the industrial revolution they amass wealth faster than other countries and thus their country prosper. Has been like this since.

    Now then in this day and age, why does it becomes a stereotype that asian female seems to love “westerners” first of all I have to note that these asian female do seek wealth and better life, they want the money, they are coming from the 80-90% lower income group. They prefer Thai men in their teen to early adult but will shift to westerners as they grow older as the Thai simply do not take them anymore.

    The rich Thai or the upper middle class have a very bad perception of Farang and views anyone who marry westerners as “Mia Farang” it’s a very strong stigma, even if the Farang are coming from a very rich family. Although, it must be noted that most of the upper class and upper middle class will marry with only and purely richer westerners as well. Eg. They met at Uni or at work.

    Outlooks for westerners are a bit better off now, as there seem to be a slight increase in young Thais dating westerners but yet the percentage is still very small.

    Regarding the Thai or asian female preference over caucasian is inherently wrong and a very egotistical view. There might be some fanfare over some Hollywood actors but it will never exceed local stars or Korean stars.

    As it has been said, very sadly, westerners are most of the time, almost 100% actually viewed in Thailand as moneybag for the older, unattractive Thai female. Hope this view may change and people experience each other through real interaction not preconceived prejudice.

    Btw, to know any of these you must know the local languages, most things you see in the internet are English and only a small percentage of Asian (which is the world majority) will use English for communication in the internet or even access international english content. Most who do are people who live in US or western countries which denotes a very very small percentage.

  15. Mike May 14, 2017 at 11:34 am #

    Lol all the whiteys arguing among each other that how much thai girls love them..

    Honestly its just because of the money… You don’t even see 1% of foreigners u see in thailand in 1st world asian countries for a good reason.

    It was the same in my home country of South Korea back in the day. Loser white guys ravaged our women, you’ll see old white dudes with young korean broads, hookers dating young white men telling them they think u some handsum, but now since we’re pretty well off its pretty non-existant and very heavily shunned upon(doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist Itaewon caters to tourists).

    TLDR; thailand is a poor developing country and whiteys expose it. It’s not because they think ur handsome. Get over it.

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