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How to get revenge on Thai girl scammers

The dinner date scam is the easiest scam there is for girls to pull off and I admittedly got scammed this way the other month. What happens is you meet a girl normally or through the internet you talk to her and she seems interested so you ask her out on a date. You know that Thai girls don't have much money to their name and since you invited her out you're more than obliged to pay for her unless you've otherwise talked about sharing the cost.

The problem arises and so does the scam when you find yourself in a situation where the girl is taking advantage of your generosity. For some girls this is the whole plan from the beginning which is basically to get you to pay for alcohol, drugs, food and the scam is she isn't even remotely interested in you using your ass like a walking ATM machine she can push buttons on and get you to crap thousand baht bills.

how to get revenge on scammers

Most of these girls don't work alone, they have accomplices and that's how the scam can get really expensive. Sometimes their friends don't even realize that there is a scam going on they are just happy to come out and have a good time on your dime. I can't stand these kinds of girls and they are less than scum in my mind, at least even a hooker has something worth trading. These dinner hookers are just scum.

How I got scammed and then got her back

So I met this girl on the internet about a month ago on one of these cheap ass dating sites (another reason I don't recommend free dating sites in Thailand). She's 18 and starting school in the coming month. I'm normally a good judge of character and said sure I'll meet her, I told her to meet somewhere and she said no come to see her, I suggested something else and she said no come to see her. I never like it when a girl does this and as I've said somewhere before this is a sure sign of a scam when they don't follow you.

So against my better judgement I go meet her at some Shi Sha joint in South Pattaya, when I rock up I meet her, her younger cousin and Aunt. I order a beer and they were already sitting there with drinks smoking that crap. After an hour passes and this girl seems completely not interested I say I'm going to go and get the bill. Well the bill comes 650 baht and it's my 2 beers their Shi Sha and drinks. I think about making a scene and instead turn decide to just bow out and say I got done, lesson learned.

Well I'm on the internet a day ago and this same girl messages me and we're talking and stuff and since I still left on good terms I thought she was kinda genuine and decide to tell her to go to dinner with only me. She agrees and we're to meet at a pork place across from Hollywood.

She is 45minutes late when I'm about to leave, I'm literally on my bike when she rocks up and has her cousin with her. I'm really annoyed at this time and just want to speed off I've done it many times before but you know what I'm done I'm going to give her a taste of her own medicine, this after she tells me on the phone she was late because she was dropping off her friend when in reality she was picking her up.

So we sit down and she's trying to order that Shi Sha crap again "here we go again". But this time it's no problem because I have no intention of paying! Sitting there she is as cold as she was the last time I met her and they are laughing because they think they got away with scamming me again, seriously you had to have been there they were laughing at the fact that she brought this other girl and their intention was just to have dinner.

Whatever because I'm going to get them back. I know the fat cousin can't eat prawns so i go up and change the menu to mostly prawns, they think there is a problem when the food arrives but so I tell them what I did. They don't seem to laugh at this now.

After I gobble down 3 plates of prawns two large Leo's and a few bowls of soup I tell them that I'm going to get my camera out of my bike. Instead I get on and leave the scene, the girls only have a few hundred baht on them each but I'm more than sure there is an ATM card with some more, I mean they eat for free every single day but I only got one free dinner. So did they end up having to pay? I'm sure they did, someone had to pay and since someone has paid now it's not my problem anymore.

Now that I scammed the scammers there will probably be a bunch of people who think I'm the asshole so yeah let me know in the comments I love reading that shit. Truth is these girls are working guys all the time and I'm not going to be all riotous and feel sorry for them. Pattaya is no place to be good willed and caring or you'll just get stepped on.

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63 Responses to How to get revenge on Thai girl scammers

  1. Jake May 10, 2012 at 10:16 am #

    Yup. Totally the way to go. The rodents must be squashed!

    Happened to me a few weeks ago. Cute girl on dating site, claims to be 42 kilos (close to my max). When I meet her, she’s probably 10 kilo over the advertised range, and some ugly friend is with her. I can just see the “here is the ATM for the night look in their eyes”.

    I had told her we’ll get some Thai tea, and I’m mentioning it again as we walk. Of course, instead they head into the restaurant with bar to eat on my dime.

    They went on a giant ordering spree. I just ordered a coke, wasn’t hungry anyway. Once all the food arrived and they were just chatting with each other the whole time in Thai, I told them I’m going to the bathroom, and took off.

    I’ve had really good luck with the ‘free’ dating sites. I’d try the others but at 20+ messages a day, it’s already more than I can handle. Still, occasionally, these little bitches slip through in under the radar.

    My favorite is just have a date ‘in the park’. And movies at my house after.

    • Chris May 10, 2012 at 10:36 am #

      I hate fat chicks lying about their weight curses of internet dating, you were right to take off, they were clearly taking advantage of you.

    • Fidelitycheckonline September 27, 2013 at 2:08 pm #

      Thai Girls are probably the most unfaithful girls in the world! So why waste your time on revenge just avoid them!! Or if its to late and you’re hooked check them out before it goes to far!!

      • Billybong December 10, 2017 at 2:56 am #

        Nah , he taught them ho’s a valuble lesson. There should be more people like him. They will think twice before doing it again..to many ferang let them get away with that b.s. i would of blocked her soon after i left them with the bill.. i jave given up trying to be civil with these people for now. Met an older woman not much younger than myself. She was nice good looking. Met her at friends bar alarm bells did ring.. so i turn up. I am hungry. I offer her she declined so i am drinking my chan. Waiting for my tom young .. we chat a bit.i notice her bar lady two friends observing my every move & chat , l glance at them my date days dont worry they are not watching me 5555 b.s !. She has her bill , they bring my seperate bill. Two drinks come her way .1 for her bar lady friend , 1 for her. The tom young i take my time to eat.. i try & start up convo . Blah blah i got grown kids etc. I look at my bill 60 baht .i order another chang. By now my date seems to have audience of lady & katoey l.b. all seem to listening to my convo. I feel uncomfortable. My date knows this, she strikes up covo with her m8s & plays with her big ass shiny new phone. I look at the bill that my date has ( remember she ran up this bill over an hr b4 i arrived ). 400 baht .she laughs to her self & says to me don’t worry you are paying it. My face did not laugh , by now there is a congregation of females looking suspect all eyes on us. I glance at them they kinda blank me.. anyway my date got the message . She knew i was paying her bill.& her katoey Bar gals friends bill. Then she tells me she is going soon to meet her other friends.. i finish my 2nd drink. Pay the 120 baht bill & had to shimmy past my unwanted audience feeling shamed got my my scooter & high tailed it out of there.. shame on them..

        • Billybong December 10, 2017 at 3:04 am #

          Ps i meant my date knew i was not going to pay her & her friends 400 baht drinks bill, i just paid my 120 baht bill + 120 for my food.. it was only after she realize i am not paying her b.s bill she says she going to meet up with other friends 55555. Bitch got busted & she knew it…

    • dave October 11, 2014 at 4:35 am #

      Here is a new one the girl gives you a small amount of drugs over a couple of days, then one night I would be good to have some, so being a nice farang you give her a couple of thousand thinking this is going to be great sex with a bit more of this drug, so out she goe’s and buys, brings back and shows you how good she done and wow look how much there is, 5 minutes latter the police bust in and arrest you and her, now back to the station and no one speaks English, and she is saying don’t worrey she will talk to them, anyway they charge her with everything as it seems she told them you had nothing to do with it at all, but the police still want ten thousand to let you out, so shitting yourself at the thought of a thai jail you pay and run, now at this point you should keep running but that pain of guilt sets in that you gave her a lot of money to buy a lot more than she would usual buy and she has taken all the blame so you wouldn’t get locked up. two hours latter you get a phone call from her asking for help, at this point you should be at the airport but stupidly you go back and pay the 350 000 baht bail money for her that you get back when she goes to court. Unfortunatly your visa runs out before she goes to court and you have to go home, anyway she goes to court gets a 5000 baht fine and keeps your 350000 never to be seen again.

      • Kim March 11, 2016 at 1:12 am #

        I’ve heard of this scam before but not from somebody who has actually been a victim of it. I think its more common than people might think. Police put pressure on their informants to get them results. Many of the informants are drug dealers themselves. To keep on dealing they supply the corrupt police with a supply of arrest, usually Farangs) who will pay good money to be released. Bottom line DON’T DO DRUGS IN THAILAND

  2. Bear May 10, 2012 at 10:35 am #

    Hey Chris
    That was a smart move, I like your thinking.
    Some people may well call you a weasel and they think that they are eagles? Pffook them, tell them you are better off being a weasel, as weasels don’t get sucked into jet engines/ I will bear this scam the scammers trip for next time it. I will tell it too my friends too.

    • Bear May 10, 2012 at 5:03 pm #

      What on earth happened to my last sentence??? ” / I will bear this scam the scammers trip for next time it. I will tell it too my friends too. ” Thai internet I am afraid.
      It should read, ” I will bear this scam in mind and I will pass ti onto my friends as well”.
      Weird how that got twisted, sorry Chris.

  3. Khun Dee (Dennis) May 10, 2012 at 1:47 pm #

    Got to love it Chris. A few nights ago, I was at JP bar, meet this cute babe, who I have seen before, and she and her (sister) friend sit with me. I buy them a drink, and I’m all for going with the babe, her friend is not my type,fat, and loud, but I deal with her, as she keeps trying to take my attention away from my babe, who I’m going to do that night, if i can this this dumb friend of her’s away from us.
    Anyway, her friend plays the I’m going to get this guy to buy my beer and shot trick, orders both, the waiter, really the manager, brings the order, and he hands me the check, I say right back to her and him” not my Check” I no pay…put her on the spot, and the waiter hands her the check, they try it one more time, and I look at them both, and say no.
    She pays it, now the manager who has seen me many times drink here, never says a word to me, but later he gives me that pat on the arm, like good for you don’t let Thai lady play you.
    Now I still get the babe as I say to her you want to come with me, otherwise I go, she’s like up and out with me in a New York second, once we are out of reach of her friend, I tell her, I’m not stupid falang, if her friend had asked me I would have bought another beer, but don’t play me….she says I was right,I gained a lot of respect from her, and I think the manager.
    Thai’s will respect you if you stand your ground, if you cave in to Thai Ladies BS… you are sunk, and will be played all the time by others, as they all talk and see it.

    • Chris May 10, 2012 at 1:54 pm #

      Don’t get played, exactly!

  4. Travis May 10, 2012 at 8:36 pm #

    That was hilarious and a good job. I think some of us would have striked out the second time, like me! I don’t think what you did was bad or low at all. They deserved it.

    I think I would call these types of girls gold diggers rather than scammers. You see these flakes everywhere around the world. They really do not have interest in you as a person, but only as a means to have fun that night on your dime. I guess if you accept it for what it is, it could be fun. But don’t expect any payout! I’d rather spend that money on a lady from a beer bar, at least the odds are that you’ll get some return on your investment!

  5. FarangInChina May 11, 2012 at 1:40 am #

    classic. great strategy chris. in US we call this a “hog and jog” I would have loved to see their faces when you didn’t come back!

    • Chris May 11, 2012 at 6:08 am #

      Hog and job, never heard that before i like it.

  6. Mr. Somchai May 11, 2012 at 1:48 am #

    That’s hilarious! You’ll have to update us on what she says if she contacts you again. Sometimes when I’m at the bar and a girl says she wants another drink I’ll say, ‘great, will you get me one as well while you’re up?’ Not exactly a scam but it’s fun to turn the tables sometimes.

    • Denver May 13, 2012 at 4:07 pm #

      Yes its true every now And then i then i would invite a girl to pay her round back fist time i did it was more of a test it was my first few weeks in thailand it was to see what girls where working girls or non working and i have a strict rule of not paying for sex because i’m young and i get laid enough in australia with backpacker chicks for free with women that dont expect any thing else than a shag i’m a cheap basterd i usualy have a very good sence of jugement and from all the stories i heard before coming here and after arriving i was extra safe in my every move not to get ripped of not to waste money on chicks that wouldn’t have interest in you if you were broke i’ve told a lot of girls that i didn’t have much money the hookers i have been with i always told hem up front if you hang out with me there will be no money at all look at that fat old guy over there he looks loaded go for him dont loose your time with me and most of hem told me i do what i want i do what makes me happy i go with guys i like even when i work i can choose i was sort of learning my own way around detecting hookers being cappable of telling the difference because a lot of thai girls are outstanding actress at the whole love and seduction procès and sometime you cant exactly walk to them and ask hem if they are a prostitute without risking to upset them and loose them asking for a thai girl to get the round back or kind of acting like your are expecting her to oftenly help a pro hardly wants to spend money on a customer but sometimes do and just charge you afterwards they are smart ones i’ve been tricked a few times thinking i was with a nice girl into me and realised only to late that she is a pro and left to get back at the game but i have to say some girls from ladybars i have been with (met out side of the work place) have bought stuff all day long. Stopped me from reaching my pocket it made me feel like i was the prostitute at times i do hate scamers ho and lets buy drinks for all of my friends in thailand the girls will only respect you more for beeing smart and strict with your money the one who will tell you your a cheap charlie are clearly after rich charlie if you meet a girl late your having doubts about how trustworthy that chick might be. Dont. Bring her back to your room just. Take another room for the night that room will have nothing of you exept what you have on yourself of course there is ways of playing always be on guard never trust to fast and all your in for is good suprise of the fact that in there girls you will meet a nice. Girl

      • Harald Stoll November 22, 2012 at 3:26 am #

        english motherf****r do you speak it?

  7. Stein May 11, 2012 at 6:33 am #

    Chris, hilarious story, and only an idiot would think you an asshole for getting back at those leeches. High-five for you. 😉

    I’ve been lucky enough to never get scammed with this kind of crap, but if I joined a table of people I were not overly interested in paying for, I’d pay for each item I ordered as I was getting it. I.e., I order a beer, I pay for that beer when I get it. No need for me “check bin” as nothing I’ve ordered would be on the bill, and I’d just bid my adieu once I realized this one was a dud.

    Also I prefer to just meet at a coffee shop or something first. I’m ok with sponsoring a cup of tea/juice for her while I sip my coffee and we find out if we like each other or not. No need to
    plan a big night out on a blind date IMO.
    One time this fat chick from a datingsite proceeded to
    eat most of my cake too though, even though I had not offered her a taste because I, wrongly, assumed she had the good sense to be dieting. That was pretty annoying and I left walking shortly after I finished my coffee, declining her offer to drive me home.

  8. Monsieur May 11, 2012 at 9:39 am #

    Very smart move, congrats on having the balls to do it.
    Only thing is : aren’t you worried, they’ll try to put the heat on you in the restaurant like ‘it’s the farang who ordered, he must pay’.
    Especially if you’re living in the area.
    Or maybe they’ll try to come back at you with male friends ?
    I know that’s not courageous but that’s what i’d be afraid of.

    • Chris May 11, 2012 at 9:46 am #

      There is always that risk sure, I should probably mark the article with a disclaimer “try at your own risk”

  9. bacardiboy May 12, 2012 at 11:10 am #

    wow chris those chicks deserved it , the next time they will be be more cautious to play the trick with some farang

  10. David June 4, 2012 at 2:14 am #

    The only lowlifes who would think that you’re an asshole are those who engage in scamming. Who cares what they think? As far as I’m concerned you achieved hero status. Well done mate and welcome back to Chiang Mai.

  11. Mr Nobody June 8, 2012 at 5:33 am #

    yes! you did the right thing…
    These parasitic Thais will just take and take and take, either a good slap of humiliation is the only way to stand your ground with a sociopathic parastite. These women are psychologically BAD. no excuses…
    Want to be the heroic Farang with morals and a big heart and throwing tips at everyone? You are just corrupting them even more, and its because of you these Thais exist.

    I like Chris’s style, he could have made a scene in the first bar but he played it cool and won the game in style. yes its a game folks

    • ano July 17, 2017 at 6:59 am #

      exactly so many are sociopathic yet so many idiots want to undermine us for telling the truth, i did something similar when a date brought a long a friend and expected me to pay all evening.I just left… they have no problem ordering the most expensive bottles of wine, and several dishes they could never possibly finish

  12. Philthy June 8, 2012 at 6:09 am #

    HAHA. Love it.

    This happens in all the go-go bars. Everyone wants a drink. Even the ex mamasan ghost 😀

    One time this happened to me I was in the US. On a date in Chicago. This girl showed up with her friend. I said. Oh I didn’t know you were bringing your friend. Yeah she’s just going to have a couple of drinks with us. During drinks at the bar, there was a coldness in the air I felt from them. There was little chat between my date and me so I just played it along until (I thought) the friend would leave after drinks. We go to sit down and the friend follows us. HMMMmmm. We order dinner (they both got the $30 steaks). Same thing during dinner. Mostly conversation with them. I was the 3rd wheel. My date was not at all interested in me. I’m not even sure she really knew my name (which was good hehe)

    On a $150 bill I said Hmm wow I need to go to the ATM. They’re like yeah whatever dude and kinda laughed at each other . haha I BOOKED it out of there. I sent a text and said. Nice TRY Thanks for dinner. :DDD

    She called me back cursing ghetto style. I said First, you lied about your pic, (yeah she got fat from all her free meals) then you bring your friend and try to get me to pay for it. hehe Sorry .. Got several hate texts and threats in my vm. LOL damn it felt good to hog and jog.

    • Chris June 8, 2012 at 7:26 am #

      Good going dude! You know I hate to see other guys get taken for a ride, it’s not even about the money so much it’s about girls taking advantage of the game, when they play hard, you need to play harder. You did well!

  13. Sean June 28, 2012 at 6:28 am #

    I was tricked into this sort of thing in NY. Lighting a cigar, 2 stunning German speakers ask for a light. We get to talking (I speak German, and they were stunning, and I am a straight male, so, yeah). They ask me to have a drink. I knew I should have said no, but then, why not have one, and so on. In the end, I have 2 scotches and end up paying just under $200. I tried to get them to pay. I tried to convince them there was a problem with my card. God, they got away very quick after I had paid. I knew something was wrong, but god, they were good. And I could not get away to speak to the waiter to split the check, so I pay for my stuff, and hightail it out of there. I had alarm bells the whole time, but they were good at this thing–they were not new to this. It is not even the money so much as the fact that I feel violated. Anyway, it really sucks that there is no legal recourse I could use against them– after a few drinks, one leaked enough that I could track her down.

  14. Erik July 15, 2012 at 6:09 am #


    Good show, all in all.

    On reading your Thai scammer stories, I had to state (after 3yrs in LOS), that it is not only the Thais… In HK it is just as bad there.

    My brother was out (without me) in Lan Kwai Fong, on LIMITED funds. Indeed I was paying for his whole trip across China/HK.

    So.. he is dancing, having a good time with a few of my colleagues, when he ‘pulls’ a nice looking HK bird.

    She makes it clear she’d like to sleep with him, and he tells her I’m not paying for it. They leave the club (expensive to enter), walking along, and she makes it clear he is to pay 1500 HK. He stops her in the street by standing in front of her, and says loudly and clearly – I have no money for you.

    Oh, so ‘ let us go for a few drinks instead then ‘. She chooses a cocktail bar, orders HK-priced cocktails for her and her other lady-friends she knew already in the bar, and my bro could sense they were lining him up for the bill. Uh oh.

    He said he needed to go have a smoke outside, bummed a lighter, got past the bouncers, and ran for his life. Good boy.

    Psychologically, I wonder how they interpret this pay-back, but I’m worried they learn from experience…

  15. sam August 23, 2012 at 2:44 am #

    I had a dinner with a girl who I met in an internet site. She took me to a big thai restaurant. She ordered very expensive food and drinks. I told her in the beginning that I had only 500B with me. She said she will pay with her card and I pay later. The bill was about 2000B. After that she said she will come with me to my hotel and I pay her. We went to the hotel she just want to sit in the lobby and told me to get the money. I said I will give the money tomorrow. She said she want to have my passport for security. I said I cannot give my passport. She said her brother is a police officer and she is going the call him. She talk with the hotel staff something in thai. I give her 1500B to end the scene. After she leave she send me a text saying I have to give her 5000B tomorrow to end the story or she will come back with police. Anyway I got little scared and moved to a different hotel.

    • Chris August 23, 2012 at 5:34 am #

      Random story Sam, these girls are vultures and will eat you alive, stay away from bar girls bro!

  16. Mack September 23, 2012 at 12:57 pm #

    Hi All,

    Great read from all your comments! I thought I was the only Farang in Thailand who scams the lowlife back ( bar girls, dinner date scammers, freelancers in Clubs, bars ). I play them all at their own game and I get way with it every time…. How?… They just don’t expect a taste of their own treatment , especially from a well dressed , respectful , charming gentleman farang that I portray to be for that evening.

    My attitude ( like it or not) is that they should feel privileged to be with such a fun loving farang for the evening!… They can pay for the entertainment!


  17. Chiang Mai Girl November 12, 2012 at 9:21 am #

    Don’t you guy think that they are really some nice genuine girls that spent for at least 34 hours to impress her date and also spent a couple thousand for a new dress for the date? It is not fair for her to be treated that way after her effort to look as best as she could just to appear to be super pretty to you. If you think that paying dinner for a girl is being scammed..then don’t get dates..

    From Chiang Mai girl..

    • Chris November 12, 2012 at 9:26 am #

      I think your missing the point. The point is some girls who go out for dinner with you are purely doing it for a free meal and that chiang mai girl is a scam.

    • Deepe November 13, 2012 at 12:59 pm #

      if the girl seems interested in the guy and actually looking forward…no guy will will do this…..this post is just to warn guys about “FEW” scam girls….

  18. Chris January 19, 2013 at 4:46 am #

    Dude I invented that scam! Sorry that you got done ey. Too bad you didn’t find this blog earlier.

  19. Nolan June 1, 2013 at 5:26 am #

    You guys are good I met this evil woman at a bar ended buying phones, cameras, clothes all the shit they keep wanting, I was quite obviously taken with this girl. Over 18 months she had got me for about a million Baht I even bought to Australia for 6 weeks. Long story short I got concerned about her disappearing all the time but claimed to be sick and in hospital, I hacked her email account found another Aussie also buying her phones ipads TVs etc and sending her money for an operation which she didn’t have I got hold of the guy told him my story he cut her off at 250,000baht was his damage mine nearly a million and this whore I have no doubt is already courting her next victim. She wont want to see me when I get back there things will get fucking ugly. Shame I cant add the whores photo here so no one else gets scammed by her although I did start a facebook page for her with photos check it out
    page name is Beware in Bangkok

  20. Brian June 1, 2013 at 11:01 am #

    I got Scammed yesterday been talking with a girl call Nim Tawat ( skype name ) from Surat Thani we were talking for about 2 months about her coming to visit me so yesterday i said ok so she gave me her full real name and bank details so i transferred 2100 baht for her fare. She sms me to say she was on the train. She said she got to Bangkok the right amount of time passed 11 hours then said she ahd lost her purse. So could i send another 700 this is where i started to think this is a scam so i called “she” would not answer the phone just sent sms saying send now. I said answer your phone she would not. So i didn’t send anything and had a few sms say send now or last sms from me. I didn’t and except i’ve been ripped off once again.
    That’s was a very believable scam for not a lot of money.

  21. Larry Finklestein October 7, 2013 at 6:57 pm #

    Happened to me tonight here in Pattaya. Yes, the girl was from cheap Thai dating website. The girl made sure I arrived on the meeting place first and then when she walked up, she walked up alone. Then after about 20 seconds her friends in tow came up. I was nice, but I wanted to do a runner in my mind. I just said what the hell and went through with it and took them to 299 baht buffet. So I paid 598 baht more than what I should have if it was just her. It was a $20 learning lesson, and yes, it was pretty sleazy. They were wearing nice dresses as if I might take them out on the town after. I think if I had followed them, they would have walked out to beach road to sell themselves for 500 baht each (if they could get it). I suppose I know if I do it again, I will let them show up on the meeting place first and prepare to have the balls to just do a runner. I can tell them I have to go get more money or I have to go get my wallet ha ha. These Thai’s really are like bugs that pounce of a bread crumb. Maybe have the balls not to say anything and just walk away.

  22. John Smith October 7, 2013 at 7:00 pm #

    Happened to me tonight here in Pattaya. Yes, the girl was from cheap Thai dating website. The girl made sure I arrived on the meeting place first and then when she walked up, she walked up alone. Then after about 20 seconds her friends in tow came up. I was nice, but I wanted to do a runner in my mind. I just said what the hell and went through with it and took them to 299 baht buffet. So I paid 598 baht more than what I should have if it was just her. It was a $20 learning lesson, and yes, it was pretty sleazy. They were wearing nice dresses as if I might take them out on the town after. I think if I had followed them, they would have walked out to beach road to sell themselves for 500 baht each (if they could get it). I suppose I know if I do it again, I will let them show up on the meeting place first and prepare to have the balls to just do a runner. I can tell them I have to go get more money or I have to go get my wallet ha ha. These Thai’s really are like bugs that pounce of a bread crumb. Maybe have the balls not to say anything and just walk away.

  23. jim February 8, 2014 at 9:32 pm #

    Some excellent reads here.. thank you.
    Looks like it’s happened to many including myself. …
    Starting a facebook is an excellent idea which I may start to warn others of a particular give from Udon. Does anyone else have any suggestions for naming and shaming individuals who have scammed genuine guys… Maybe something like a scammers list because I know her proper Thai name and other names she uses. ….

    • Chris February 9, 2014 at 7:22 am #

      I would be careful doing that. Libel laws in thailand are ruthless. Call someone a buffalo u can land in court.

    • Venturalaw February 9, 2014 at 1:08 pm #

      Name and shame is an excellent idea, however, due to Thailand’s over-the-top libel laws, even if what you are posting is the absolute truth, you can still be in big trouble if they track you down. Truth is not a defense here, and if you cause someone to ‘lose face’, you can find yourself in deep shit.

  24. Joe February 12, 2014 at 2:15 pm #

    I was looking for help with a Visa for my neice to come to the US to be our Nanny, and tried to get scammed by this scamming Thai lady with many names including Diane Sittimilak, she appears to be running this scam from Saint Kitts with her Nigerian boyfriend who goes by the name of “Amri” and “Khalid”
    They also are doing website scams, apartment rental scams, the works so beware!

    Here is what I found posted all over the internet.

    Yotsawadee Polwatana Sittimalik goes by many aliases:
    Giselle Polwatana
    Diane Sittimalik
    DiAmr/Diane Visa & Immigration Services
    Yotsawadee Polwatana
    Prior arrest record:

    She is hiding out in Saint Kitts with her Nigerian boyfriend who goes by the name “Amri” real name Miebaka Dix-Fiberesima. They are both staying illegally without legal Visa’s running their Internet, Visa, Website scams. Their IP address is so the local Authorities are very close to capturing and arresting them. Yotsawadee had her US Visa revoked due to fraudulent, false information on a VISA application for her and her Nigerian boyfriend so she has no more US Visa and was deported from the US and can’t return to Thailand for fear of being captured at Thailand Immigrations and turned over to Thailand DSI for arrest for crimes committed in Thailand and various other Asian Countries and the US.

    Yotsawadee is a known Clinically Insane Psychopath who creates her scams to feed into her delusional disorder that she runs a multi-million dollar company that employs 100 people and has offices in Dallas TX, New York, Miami, Bangkok Thailand all which us bogus or non existent addresses except one in Florida which is a ship and pack that forwards her mail to Saint Kitts:
    3017 Johnson Street, Ste 1374, Hollywood, FL 33021

    Do not do business with her, do not work for her, she is a Clinically Insane Psychopath with a delusional disorder. Everything that she types or speaks is 100% false lies and fantasy. Her first tip off that she is a scammer is she uses the excuse that her computer microphone is broken so her Nigerian boyfriend “Amri” can do the typing to work the scam.

    • Alan May 17, 2018 at 10:12 am #

      Sitimalik is here in Bangkok offerered to buy a share in my business told me she sent me 100k THB showed paperwork and then asked me 3-4 times to borrow money, I never lent her any saying don’t have it, 3 weeks later cash never arrived! kin beeatch!!! if you want her passport I’ll send it over glady

  25. jim February 14, 2014 at 10:45 pm #


    WOW what a fantastic email Joe warning other people on this terrible scammer.

    Its such a shame a small minority give Thailand such a bad name. I now understand the liable rules but this should never be a smoke screen for them to hide behind. Naming and shaming like what Joe has done is the only way to go. A bit like Rouge Traders here in the UK. My friends so called girlfriend from Udon Tanni/Hong Khai had him send money to her for a year and a half while the visa came through. When visa came through her farther mysteriously became I’ll. She could not come as looking after farther. Basically he’d been scammed for a year and half about £6000 including 3 holidays….

    I’m not saying all Thai’s are scammers but I’d never trust one again.
    Shuch a shame as such a nice county…… PLEASE don’t trust em name and shame right here…….

    • Kim April 27, 2015 at 12:50 am #

      Thailand is not called the land of scams for nothing. Personally I think the place is being spoilt by scammers, it seems to be at epidemic proportions. All non Thais seem to be fair game and you won’t get any help from the police either.
      The worst is the multipul boyfriend scam, some girls have up to five boyfriends dotted all over the world all thinking they are the only one, all sending her sponger ship money and non with the faintest idea about the others existence. She just ripping them all off.

  26. george March 27, 2014 at 11:28 am #

    This thread was started by Jake in May 2012. That time even the dumbest fella under the sun knew about the typical scams that use to happen wherever large crowds of tourists gather for fun, not exclusively in Thailand. As much as I agree to teach a lesson to a scammer, I’m surprised about the complete lack of auto-criticism in all of you. ‘Who puts himself in danger will die in it’, is a wise old saying. I used to go to Thailand for more than 30 years before I finally settled here several years ago. I’m not a genius, but I was never scammed, not even once, though I had and still have my ‘naughty timeouts’. There is no secret behind it and no luck. I simply never switch of my brain and I never drink too much; nothing when I’m alone. Though I’m very well familiar with all the modern tools of comunication, I never used a dating site (what for, if you’re not seeking for a wife?) and I have no facebook-, or twitter-accout or any other to contemplate ones own navel nonsense. Summarizing, you guys run in well known scams with open eyes. This is no excuse for wrongdoing, but instead blaming the scammer you should blame yourself, as you belong to the legions of farangs who once tought the people that we all are rich, stupid and an easy prey. Have a trip to the Issan, and find out where the majority of the girls you are dealing with come from, and you will understand.

  27. george March 28, 2014 at 1:20 am #

    Too bad you removed my input, though it was civil. Looks like critique is not appreciated here. However, self-reflection is an important part of problem solving, something most of you should try, instead of boasting how you payed some less well-off Isaan girls back. Action and reaction is a physical law that can be perfectly applied to real life. Thai culture is the result of centuries-long intellectual ‘inbreeding’ in a country that never got deeply in touch with other cultures. Now they have started learning, unfortunately not the many positive qualities our cultures have to offer.

    • Chris March 28, 2014 at 4:07 am #

      just took me a while to get to your comment but it was approved. thanks for the input.

  28. george March 28, 2014 at 4:12 am #

    Sorry, ‘got it wrong!

  29. Promthon March 28, 2014 at 7:18 am #

    This is a classic one. I did it a few times already. Last time I did it in an uspcale bar in Bangkok where this girl was sitting with me who i’d met from ThaiFriendly. She wasn’t a prostitute, but clearly not interested in me.

    Her mother kept calling her on the phone, atleast 2 times in about an hour or so, which seemed a bit weird to me. I also heard her saying the word “farang” to her mom on the phone.

    I clearly noticed that this chick was totally not interested in me, and before that I waited about 1 hour for her to show up because she was stuck in traffic.

    I paid for the first drink, one for me and one for her… Then I see she seems very disinterested, looking at her phone, not smiling, not talking with me, so I asked her “What’s the problem?” then she just returned the same question back to me. Then she said “I’m going home soon.” as if I said something wrong that pissed her off. I said okay no problem, one more drink, then we go… she ordered again one of those expensive cocktails and myself a big Hoegaarden beer for 250.

    The bill should have been atleast 550 baht if not more, and I told her i’m going to make a phonecall outside and just ran off.

    I did the same thing with another bitch a few months ago who kept begging me in a restobar for all sorts of special drinks and foods… At first I told her, look i’m not hungry so i’m not going to order 800 baht worth of expensive snacks and dishes just for you alone, which she didn’t like… She wanted to leave, just because of that, so I told her ok ok wait i’ll buy you whatever you want. All of a sudden a smile appeared on her face, while she orders all her crap. I then did my special move, prended like I had an incoming call, went to the street to talk on the phone, when out of sight jumped in a taxi and went to my home.

    Of course the next day or just an hour or so later, you start receiving nasty text messages, threats etc.

  30. derek May 11, 2014 at 9:31 am #

    i would of done the same bet you left feeling like a boss =)

  31. Jack June 25, 2014 at 4:38 am #

    I support your revenge 100%.

    But I think you should have went further. Something more expensive than few plates of prawns.

    And bit more creative on leaving part. Receiving text and claiming you’ll be back asap and that its emergency, but for them to just stay and order whatever they like and you’ll be back in an hour. Then you can always say situation got complicated if they contact you after.

  32. James January 15, 2016 at 4:48 am #

    What sort of men are on this page – that they would talk about ‘revenge’ – any kind of revenge – against women?
    Are you all women haters?
    Has you been robbed of your conscience and your sense of self respect as well as your beer money?
    Stay at home – and get a life.
    Or go to Thailand – and get a Thai wife.
    If they break your heart – big deal – you are a man take it on the chin.
    Go back and get your heart broken again and again. Until you find the Thai woman of your dreams.
    And then – love her and marry her and take care of her.
    That is the way of nature. That is Gods way.

    But If you travel to this land – just to fuck the women – expect the fucking worst.
    You will get it and you will deserve it. Believe me – i have the T shirt.

    Law of Karma. Google it. Read about it… and learn. Idiots.

    • Jack Hunter March 10, 2016 at 5:56 am #

      James you are what we call a fedora. Beta male. Real men dont let anyone scam them and go unpunished. Especially not some 3rd world whore.

  33. anon March 10, 2016 at 1:07 am #

    @James: The only idiot is YOU!

  34. Joe March 28, 2016 at 3:27 am #

    This happened to me the other day and did not have to pay anything …the girl was a FAT BITCH WITH her FAT BITCH Friend. They Kept insisting that I get something to eat and I was like NO NO NO NO…I got a water.

    After they ate she looked at me and said are you going to pay and Im like NOOOO you ate all the food. So her friend got up and left saying she go to ATM and then the Lady I got on a date with left too and say she have to find her friend.

    I told the manger that I had water and she knew I did. I got the POLICE involved and got PICTURE to the COPS of her THIEVING FAT ASS so at least now..the COPS have evidence of her leaving without paying and pictures of her.

    The place was very slow in the mall so hopefully they Find her Fat PIG ass and throw her in jail where she belongs. One thing that really threw me off is that I kept insisting to get a COFFEE or just tea and then she walk into a place to eat and it was very late and I just went along with it and was thinking ok she is FAT she is hungry right? Fat people always hungry.

    Lesson learned …I hate dinner dates and never do dinner but she was eating and her fat friend….

    SO here is my new RULE for all GUYS! NO FUCKING DINNER DATES unless you know this woman and she is your lady. FIRST DATE COFFEE OR TEA at coffee shop only and if she try and go into a Restaurant instead RUN for the HILLS.

    I must say I got very LUCKY Here but guys Follow my #1 dating rule of coffee only first date or no date and you will be fine.

  35. jj November 3, 2016 at 7:18 am #

    Been visiting Pattaya for 14 yezrs now at least 2 times a year…….never do long time….never do the drink dinner thing and always do short time only…..As others mention…….DO NOT…fall in love. i also put a lace tied to my wallet and thread it through my belt and as such…..it cannot be stolen. Do not leave valuables in the open. Most hotels have safes.

  36. Billybong December 10, 2017 at 1:28 am #

    Oh poor issaan . If you see how they live you would understand they scam & take the piss out of fetang bcos they are so poor.. you my friend ate a pussy whooped fool.. they scam & get away with it bcos not even the police will help a ferang. Yes thailand can be a fun place . But it can also suck the life blood outta you . The thais are only happy when baht is being exchanged or thrown around like some some disposable tiolet paper. Loosing face ?. Ok the thais would rather embarrass a farang in front of other thais to show there friends the the ferang is ting tong . I have shown thai women how a street ferang operates . We do not pay all the time! You waste food the thai lady pay.. me no need thai lady with me when i stay in thailand i tell the thai whore who at this stage i fuck for free.. gotta be hard on a piss taker. Thai or who ever.. i have chased down thai man who gave me 3rd degree burns on my arm by inposing poisoness hena on me afyer i said no about 6 times . I made him pay me in full view of other thais on jomtien beach 3000 baht.. this payment was not nearly enough but it felt good. Because on the street in full view of other thais i cursed this thai man loudly & shamed him ..

  37. Anon March 3, 2018 at 2:57 pm #

    Lucky to only get away with a dinner date scam. Friend of mine got scammmed by a Thai girl, pat muenrak for pregnancy. Watch out for those ones they are expensive.

  38. 3 rules April 15, 2022 at 8:14 pm #

    Rule number 1 in THAILAND… meet for a date, NEVER take thai womans to eat in restaurants, they dont care how much money you have, they care how much money they can take from you, starting in restaurants.

    Rule number 2 in Thailand… never send money to a thai girl, if she tells you she loves you, play her game, tell her you also love her, until you F.ck her … after that play games with her or move to the next one.

    Rule number 3 in Thailand… most english, norway (scandinavians), canadians, japanese, german, dutch, belgian, are the most naif men int he whole world…they are the prefered targets of thai girls…easy to take money from this farangs… if you have money they like you and tell you everything you want to ear. be very carefull.

  39. Ngeean August 3, 2023 at 5:53 am #

    Wtf. ALL Thia women are poor? Well apparently the uneducated hookers referenced in this thread. As a long time resident there are many highly educated wealthy Thai women but of course they are not interested in tourists or whore users. As they say you get what you pay for so suggest raising your standards and stop looking for women in the gutter…or khlong as the case may be…

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