What happened when i met a Thai girl in Korat
Korat is a decent sized place in Thailand and the nightlife there closes late it's very much working class and a lot of Thai's from out of state visiting. It doesn't have the fancy coffee shops although they are there just not in abundance like say Chiang Mai or Bangkok. Surprisingly I didn't find the girls as outgoing as I had hoped but it was only there for a few days and I had to make the most of it.
My third night there I set out about dusk to check out the moat see what's happening down there. There were lots of people I figured I'd meet some nice girls you know. So I go down and just sit and watch the traffic trying to spot some girls going to pray at the Chang Phueak shrine. I must have tried several groups of girls but no one was helpful. I was asking them if anyone knew of any nightclubs around the area. This normally works but everyone I was asking was like...oohhhh....I don't go out sorry. Very strange, but finally I met one girl who didn't know either but asked me for dinner! Nice.
So this girl I met native from Korat has while skin like a loas chick and she's like less than 5ft tall but she's super cute and around 25y/o. I tell her to meet me at my hotel in an hour and she rockedup up on the dot! From the size of this girl she is not a big eater so I suggest noodles and we settle for pad thai. Honestly the food in Korat wasn't the best, the places I went to even the locals said was good was just crap. But it wasn't the food I was after it was this girl her name is Kot.
After we finish eating I suggest a movie in my hotel room, she was kinda hesitant but at the same time you could just tell she's gonna come up. Thing that struck me about this girl and why i'm actually writing this story is because this chick was like the most honest Thai girl I ever met. Like she didn't hold back on stuff either she actually told you stuff that you wouldn't think to ask.
I'm asking this girl some questions about herself when I find out she's moving to Bangkok to get a job at the end of the next month, she lives with her mom and she's actually kinda boring. So I ask her if she uses any dating sites and she says yeah she's on Thai Cupid. "Oh Really" I say, I didn't have a computer on me to check out her profile not that I needed to anyway, then all of a sudden she volunteers and tells me she's going to meet this guy in Hua Hin next week. "hmmmm" ok.
Now when A Thai girl says she's going to travel hundreds of a miles to see a guy she's never met something needs to click because 99.999% of Thai girls would NEVER do this....UNLESS....it was for money. I wanted to find out more and ask her some questions but I didn't have to. She says she doesn't like this guy but she has to go? Why? Because she's being paid to go. BINGO!
Now remember this is just some random girl I pulled from the street and at this point I'm sure she's gonna hit me up for some dosh before she leaves. But it never happened, she didn't even make the "I need some money face". But she did leave around midnight to go home. The next evening I call her up about 6pm and again she comes up tells me more about the story we fool around and she leaves again around midnight.
Well that's the last time I see Kot but about a week later I call her up (knowing she's in Hua Hin) to see how she's going she's actually a sweet girl. But she isn't in Hua Hin! What are you doing in Korat I ask, I thought you were going to Hua Hin?
She tells me she did go to hua hin for 1 night but came home because of problems. What problems I ask? Oh he wanted to sex me all the time and I don't like him. I laugh, then I ask "How much did he pay for the 1 night"? 15,000 baht. Then we both laughed!
15k for 1 night… Surprised she did not stick to him like shit on blanket!
lol She suffers from short-sightedness
She’s lying. I only paid her 10,000. lolz.
Chris, in a previous blog you wrote about a city park in Korat being pick-up city—did you say it was near the bus station? Well, the bus station is outside of the central area. There is a lot of open space around it. So, could repeat a description of that scene?
It’s the red line on the VIP map
“Now when A Thai girl says she’s going to travel hundreds of a miles to see a guy she’s never met something needs to click because 99.999% of Thai girls would NEVER do this….UNLESS….it was for money.”
I call a HUGE bullshit on this. After I started using Thaifriendly I have had problems with girls from all over Thailand that want to visit me in BKK. Why do I say problems? because it can be hard to fit into my schedule and sometimes they have even made plans to find a work there…… And no I am not paying them.
But man 15k he must have been ugly as fuck. One thing thought you said most of the chicks in Korat didn’t go out and therefore didn’t know any places, how about Kot did she ever go out?
lol it’s not bullshit bro, no Thai girl will do this, sure i’ve had some but believe me it’s not worth the trouble because a girl that would do that is again not a REAL Thai girl.
Well I am certain that my and your experience of Thailand are totally different, I have not been here long and I am also studying in Bangkok (no BS, graduate studies).
I am younger than most here (23) and since this is Thailand I am 9/10 instead of the 6/10 I am back home.
The girls that have been to my place from, Nakon Sakon, Trat and Chiang Rai all felt real and they were not desperate for money or anything and they all left with a smile. I don’t know how you are going to define a REAL thai girl if you want her to be shy etc. If so then REAL Thai girls don’t drink, smoke, party and most will be virgins until they have at least a steady bf. In my school the other older graduate students are extremely stiff and don’t even go out after dark have never been to a party and their parents overprotect them. They might be real Thais, but I consider the girls I meet to be as real as they are.
Was also considering do you ever accept guest articles? I am going to write something about being a student in Bangkok, but not yet I need more experience.
This is a site note and not related, but I hate when I open skype with Thai chicks one time to see them. And the next time they I see them online they say “I miss you” “Do you miss me?”. Wtf is wrong with them you cant miss someone you have never met!
I’ve experienced the same thing albeit with girls (women?) I have met. It’s almost as if there is some sort of manual that they all have read where they are all told to say “I miss you”. I even got an “I miss you” from my Thai language teacher on FB one time. Another girl I dated would always ask me “are you missing me?” which I would for the most part ignore.
If they think there is a chance of a relationship developing they will definitely travel. If you’re just looking for a one off shag, usually the case where Chris is concerned, then probably they wont.
Girls like this are few and far between but it’s real nice when you come across girls like these cuz 1) They will fuck you with no drama or sad story to sing 2) It doesn’t feel like a game is being played and pieces are being manouvered on the board, you’re on the inside and not the farang being duped.
Don’t know why these girls tend to pick us sometimes just out of the blue but they do come along every now and then.
Be decent to this one and you will always have a solid fuck piece in Korat. Cheers mofo
Good words of wisdom there, the plan is to have one of these buddies in every province, best of all you don’t have to call them till you actually get into town.
A good story, damn Man, that dude must’ve been old and ugly to pay that much. Around 1000-2500 baht is enough for a shag and maybe staying the night. I can relate to Thai women I’ve never met saying they “miss me” lol. Also, don’t forget the women who want to go to the hot pot restaurant on the first date, then never call you again.Or they bring two friends to dinner and expect you to pay. Or lastly the ole line of “My grandma/mom/dad sick in hospital and need money!”
Interesting tale. And by the way there is a manual; there’s printed versions such as “Get Rich Quick English For Bar Girls ” and I’ve also seen girls with hand written little phrase books that their mamasans have painstakingly written out in Thai to English with phonetic versions in Thai.
Lol, I have had a few Thai gfs, some desperate for money, wanting a “ rich farang” , most of them. I ended up marrying a girl police officer, , brought her here to Hawaii, been with her 17 years, 2 kids with her. Thing is, she is bossy as hell, I started a business for her, got her citizenship, and now all she does is bitch that I drink too much, LOL
If you’ve been together 17 years and have two kids, you certainly made the right decision. Well done! I’m sure if she stopped with the bitching you may even miss it!