The dinner date scam is the easiest scam there is for girls to pull off and I admittedly got scammed this way the other month. What happens is you meet a girl normally or through the internet you talk to her and she seems interested so you ask her out on a date. You know that Thai girls don’t have much money to their name and since you invited her out you’re more than obliged to pay for her unless you’ve otherwise talked about sharing the cost.
The problem arises and so does the scam when you find yourself in a situation where the girl is taking advantage of your generosity. For some girls this is the whole plan from the beginning which is basically to get you to pay for alcohol, drugs, food and the scam is she isn’t even remotely interested in you using your ass like a walking ATM machine she can push buttons on and get you to crap thousand baht bills.
Most of these girls don’t work alone, they have accomplices and that’s how the scam can get really expensive. Sometimes their friends don’t even realize that there is a scam going on they are just happy to come out and have a good time on your dime. I can’t stand these kinds of girls and they are less than scum in my mind, at least even a hooker has something worth trading. These dinner hookers are just scum.
How I got scammed and then got her back
So I met this girl on the internet about a month ago on one of these cheap ass dating sites (another reason I don’t recommend free dating sites in Thailand). She’s 18 and starting school in the coming month. I’m normally a good judge of character and said sure I’ll meet her, I told her to meet somewhere and she said no come to see her, I suggested something else and she said no come to see her. I never like it when a girl does this and as I’ve said somewhere before this is a sure sign of a scam when they don’t follow you.
So against my better judgement I go meet her at some Shi Sha joint in South Pattaya, when I rock up I meet her, her younger cousin and Aunt. I order a beer and they were already sitting there with drinks smoking that crap. After an hour passes and this girl seems completely not interested I say I’m going to go and get the bill. Well the bill comes 650 baht and it’s my 2 beers their Shi Sha and drinks. I think about making a scene and instead turn decide to just bow out and say I got done, lesson learned.
Well I’m on the internet a day ago and this same girl messages me and we’re talking and stuff and since I still left on good terms I thought she was kinda genuine and decide to tell her to go to dinner with only me. She agrees and we’re to meet at a pork place across from Hollywood.
She is 45minutes late when I’m about to leave, I’m literally on my bike when she rocks up and has her cousin with her. I’m really annoyed at this time and just want to speed off I’ve done it many times before but you know what I’m done I’m going to give her a taste of her own medicine, this after she tells me on the phone she was late because she was dropping off her friend when in reality she was picking her up.
So we sit down and she’s trying to order that Shi Sha crap again “here we go again”. But this time it’s no problem because I have no intention of paying! Sitting there she is as cold as she was the last time I met her and they are laughing because they think they got away with scamming me again, seriously you had to have been there they were laughing at the fact that she brought this other girl and their intention was just to have dinner.
Whatever because I’m going to get them back. I know the fat cousin can’t eat prawns so i go up and change the menu to mostly prawns, they think there is a problem when the food arrives but so I tell them what I did. They don’t seem to laugh at this now.
After I gobble down 3 plates of prawns two large Leo’s and a few bowls of soup I tell them that I’m going to get my camera out of my bike. Instead I get on and leave the scene, the girls only have a few hundred baht on them each but I’m more than sure there is an ATM card with some more, I mean they eat for free every single day but I only got one free dinner. So did they end up having to pay? I’m sure they did, someone had to pay and since someone has paid now it’s not my problem anymore.
Now that I scammed the scammers there will probably be a bunch of people who think I’m the asshole so yeah let me know in the comments I love reading that shit. Truth is these girls are working guys all the time and I’m not going to be all riotous and feel sorry for them. Pattaya is no place to be good willed and caring or you’ll just get stepped on.