The Ultimate dating website for sugar daddys
I had a lengthy conversation with a friend the other night about dating sites and the girls you meet from them. I made a claim that you could virtually find a girl online to do whatever you want, however sick and twisted your fantasy or gain was you could now find her online.
So I'm looking around the Internet trying to find a website where I can find young Thai girls that are looking for someone to take care of them. Basically a sugar baby looking for a sugar daddy which is what the whole sponsor a Thai girl thing is about.
While I can find plenty of websites in Thai that have what Thai's call "Dek Sideline" where they usually want a per time arrangement or a monthly allowance. I
There are a few good Thailand dating sites where you can find hundreds of girls ready to meet you but I don't think it's enough. The problem with the dating sites is the intention. The intention of what the girl expects from you, sometimes it's just casual fun, others are serious relationships and some especially here in Thailand to bleed every penny from you.
So I signed up to this website Seeking Arrangement to see how a really good website does it. In fact this guy Brandon Wade is the founding father of the website for which he says the only successful relationships are ones based on the brutal truth. My kind of guy. Every relationship must have give and must have some take.
After signing up to Seeking Arrangement I was a little shocked at how many western chicks are seeking arrangements just goes to show it's not just an Asian thing. The only difference is they want some ridiculous allowances. One girl wanted $20,000 a month can you imagine! Some of the girls at 3-5,000 USD a month look pretty good but still is it really worth it? I'd love to know what they can offer me for that!
Checking in on that website certainly cements my theory that you can find a girl online to fullfill any scheme you dream up. But really wouldn't it be good to have a website like that but instead of western women only have Thai girls. Where the Thai girls are from 3-5000 baht (not dollars) a month! Three thousand baht is only $100USD which is 30-50 times less which means you could have 30 to 50 Thai girls for the price of 1 western chick!
Now a Thai version of the seeking arrangement site would be the ultimate sugar daddy website as long as it didn't have any sort of contract with the girls like must have for 3 months or so. Actually this would be the perfect arrangement for those on a month or two holiday. You have your arrangement who takes care of you when your at home giving you the freedom to go out and not have to worry if you find a lowie that night or not.
Like what Brandon Wade was on about if it was established in the beginning that it was a mutually beneficial arrangement it would work out. But it all depends you know, let's say you have a Thai university girl who wants 3000 a month to go plug her every now and then. You'll have to treat it like a gym membership, if you don't go use the facilities often it my cost you 1000 baht a shot! Wouldn't want you wasting your sugar daddy privileges.
The whole sponsorship deal is very common but it's often difficult for guys who don't speak Thai to negotiate good deals both because of the lack of language skills and the type of Thai girls who speak English well have been in the game a while to know how to bleed you dry. So a site that openly displays the monthly cost would make it easier for even those who don't speak Thai to get great deals.
Some of you might still be sceptical and wonder why you would pay when I've repeatedly said you can get them for free. And that is still true but sponsored relationships in Thailand are better than anywhere else in the world because of the genuine girlfriend experience you can get here. Some of the best relationships I've had in Thailand were the fake ones because I was able to always say when and where with confidence.
Do you think the western chicks on that site are asking too much? Would you sign up and pay for a website to get into contact with young Thai girls who are looking to be sponsored? I know I would! Where can I sign up?
20 000 -3500 bucks per month for a burping ,farting fat farang, hahahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaa.What do they think it,s made from platinum, do they shit diamonds, and their cat smells like roses on a bad day.
3500 baht a month for an educated bangkok girl sounds too good to be true, given that dont go far in bangkok these days, what type you would get for that when she could earn as much no strings attached in a couple of hours or one short time event if she was hot….anyway i dont doubt it thailand has mysterious ways, easily the best country on the planet
Bangkok for sure the rate would have to go up a bit but here in Chiang Mai that would be plenty.
chang mai it is then
I love this blog – it’s far more interesting than the newspaper. I have read the article and looked at the website mentioned. It’s difficult to comment objectively on this subject since it’s so personal – that is – it depends entirely on what each person wants and we are all different. Therefore, I can only speak personally – that is, for myself. Jack up above had a great comment and that was indeed my own first thought. I looked at the “selection” of available “sugar babies” and to me they seem like all other farang women: pretty on the OUTSIDE but what are they on the inside? Again personally speaking, I wouldn’t give them 5 dollars let alone 5 grand/month!
I’ll close this comment with my main thought on this: I can’t see the difference between this and just hiring a hooker – oh it’s all sophisticated and high-tech and fancy but in the final analysis what is the difference?
To each his own, I guess.
Isn’t this just what happens in Pattaya all the time? Temporary (from a few hours to a few months) paid for GFE/relationships.
Pretty much, I guess my point was it would be cool to have a database of girls to go through rather than roaming the bars. A lot of the times I don’t want to drink just want to bonk.
I lived in New York, USA before and I can confirm that “sugar daddy” type deals start at 5000 USD and up, I mean even a decent apartment there costs 3000 up. But if you are over 40 you no 20 girl will even look in your direction unless you are extremely good looking, so if you cannot pay that sort of money then you have to date women 35+
I heard from thai friends that there are thai websites for girls looking for sponsor, but hard to find and anyways pretty useless for most of us as they are 100% in thai. For guys who have some money to spare the best bet might be to hire some sort of mamasan who knows lots of uni girls and pay her a comission. Anyways that is my plan now 555. A lot easier than learning to type thai 😉
Living in bangkok, looking for what they may call a “sponsor” but doesnt mean we are cheap hookers. We set our values high in looking for the ideal sugar daddy, men that dont mind spending time spoiling us on the finer things in life.. that is what sugar daddies are seeking when looking for a “young’ sugar babies. Sugar daddies looking to bonk, we are looking for money, lets not sugar coat the topic.
you guys are low life bastards…… you men are the type of creatures who have low self esteem.
Bit of a sweeping statement. It takes 2 to tango.
thanks to feminism this is the best option western men have. the other option is to get married have children then a divorce and then you have to pay for a ex wife and children who you often never see again. western women had everything. then they wanted independence. and now western men move on looking elsewhere you call us pig’s. you needed us like a fish needed a bike remember. well good luck on your own.
What a disgusting human you are
3500 baht well you would definitely struggle to get a sugar babe with that, my gf gets an allowance of £300 per month into an account I set up, she used to get 12000 baht, now she takes her chances with exchange rates, ha ha we agree a new allowance annualy, she gets gifts on top of travels. She is fairly loyal I have no problem if she has fun with other guys, usually she won’t if she does she tells me all lol, we have a great relationship which works, she even helps with my kids. I am no angel when in the sweetshop and she knows, she will obviously fight her corner, things work because we are honest with each other, we both know when we are taking the piss, but we have survived 4 years, her friends tell me she doesn’t love me, always dissing her, but the minute we have a rocky patch. They are making arrangements to try to date me, even members of her family, they tried the sinsod routine, but neither of us want it, I am happy with Hp and she with fun, in this game pay below a seven wage and you will get a seven service.
How old are you guys…really?