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There is no such thing as a Good Thai Girl

If you've been searching for a good Thai girl I'm sorry to be the one to break it to you but you'll be searching for the rest of your life because there isn't any! You might all be thinking that something has happened to me and one of my girlfriends and yes it has, it always happens didn't happen today but it's happened before and will inevitably happen again. Thai girls are not to be trusted!

So let's define what a Good Thai girl doesn't do:

  • Doesn't sleep around
  • Won't make you distrust her
  • Won't steal your shit
  • Doesn't lie through her teeth

I've never dated a girl that worked as a prostitute before I met her (well that I know of anyway, like I said you can't trust Thai girls). So if they never worked as a prostitute or in adult entertainment venues for all intensive purposes she's a good girl right? WRONG! In fact after living in Pattaya for a few months now I'm thinking I could trust a bar girl more than I could trust a good Thai girl. At least with bar girls you know what she's doing and it's unlikely she'll give it up for free at least. Good girls will whore around and get paid nothing come home to you and hit you up for money!

no such thing as a good thai girl

As you can tell I have some trust issues and this isn't because some Thai girl made me crazy either. It's just you can't trust anyone man let alone some 40kg Thai girl that can make even the tough guys cry.

The myth about the Good Thai girl and where to find her is exactly that, a myth. There is absolutely definitely finally no such thing as a good Thai girl!

Speaking Thai as well as I do can get you deep into the mind of a Thai girl, which I use for manipulation. But often when I delve deep into the recesses of Thai girls I feel like I'm swimming around in a big black hole. There is nothing there. The only thing that exists in the mind of a Thai girl is what she wants next.

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. He has lived here for over 10 years and speaks reads and writes very good Thai.

65 Responses to There is no such thing as a Good Thai Girl

  1. Jake May 16, 2012 at 11:50 am #

    Isn’t that part of the attraction though? Good girls, *yawn*.

    Just like the 19 year old that’s been angling hard at moving into my place. I’m the only man she’s ever wanted, and, would you know it, she never even given head to anybody before me! Wow, I’m so special!

    Heh. Roll with it. Lies are flattery.

  2. Andew May 16, 2012 at 12:10 pm #

    Dude, you’ve done it to me again, I’m speechless!

  3. คลิฟ May 16, 2012 at 2:56 pm #

    hmmmm, a couple of months ago, I would have whole-heartedly agreed with you. However, I re-united with a former gf and she seems to have been honest and true- even after I dumped her. We’ve been (back) together for 2 months and she remains an absolute joy. Time, of course, will tell with her too.
    Sorry to hear of your misfortune Chris!

  4. Buttercup May 16, 2012 at 3:11 pm #

    Dude, you’re just as broken as we are all here, you could not trust anyone, Thai or otherwise 🙂

  5. Serb May 16, 2012 at 9:14 pm #

    Hey Chris,

    I am sorry to hear you feel this way – you must have been feeling a bit down when you wrote this article 🙂

    You are far more experienced than me in this field, but I have to say that I had a positive experience with one Thai girl. I firmly believe there are good and bad people in every country and I strongly oppose to any generalization. Hopefully you’ll lighten up, bud 🙂

  6. Working Tourist May 17, 2012 at 12:18 pm #

    Hi Chris.

    When I read these posts I am left wondering if they have been deliberately crafted to stir up debate, maybe bring some more trafic to your blog, or if you actually believe what you are writing.

    While I lean toward the former, perhaps it is time to change your dating habits; your previous posts indicate that you prefer young submissive girls willing to give it up on first date; I am not surprised if a great many of them does not make for good long-term girl friends.

    • Chris May 18, 2012 at 5:49 am #

      Actually I agree with you, a lot of the times the ideas for the posts are from conversations I’ve had with other expats though what I write are pretty much my own conclusions right or wrong it is still a debate.

  7. ABC May 23, 2012 at 8:06 am #

    I think you should make friends with another thai girls who not work as a prostitute in Pattaya, there are many good thai girls who are better than the ones you have met before. I’m sure!!!!!!!!!

    • Chris May 23, 2012 at 8:12 am #

      I spent 3 years in Chiang Mai around girls that have never even been to a bar that has bar fines, I think i know what I’m talking about.

      • Ed May 25, 2012 at 9:52 pm #

        ”I think i know what I’m talking about”
        and therein lies the problem, you really do, don’t you!

  8. Teddyboy May 23, 2012 at 3:45 pm #

    How much do you think that this breakup had to do with your move from Chiang Mai or is this a new girl from Pattaya? Anyway mate, if you fall off then get back on as soon as you can, maybe a different horse but still…

    • Chris May 23, 2012 at 5:22 pm #

      Actually the article has nothing to do with any particular girl I know, it’s just a general feeling.

  9. Bkk Bodo May 25, 2012 at 11:31 am #

    Hello Khun Chris!

    pretty sad to read all that crap!

    But its pretty simple why you feel so frustrated: You obv not smart and handsome enough to play in Champions League!

    Realize, that you are one of the 99% completely mugs, who can have at the very most a 30y+ ugly Isaan who will be ”good” to you!

    I know, that i am very lucky to play in CL, cause i was very lucky in the genetic lottery and i also know that its maybe not good for my karma to write this, but its only the truth and someone has to open your eyes, Chris!

    I come from Germany and there it goes like that:
    Either you have much money or you have a big dick!

    In Thailand it goes like that:
    Either you have much money or you are extremely handsome!

    Sorry Chris, i think you suck at all points!


    • Colet May 25, 2012 at 2:30 pm #

      Right on!

      as an asian girl, I agree with you! Chris just doesn’t possess the look.

      I think the way we behave to others is reflected back to us. Maybe it’s about time to have self evaluation why you can’t find a good girl.

      • Ed May 27, 2012 at 10:26 pm #


    • Bobby Preston May 26, 2012 at 2:47 am #

      So funny!!! I couldn’t agree with you more ha ha! These guys come over here and end up with uneducated Isaan girls from Pattaya! They think they have got the best thing since sliced bread ha ha ha! Yes, they are complete mugs! And then they complain about how they lie, cheat and steal their money! As you said, if you play in the Champions League, you get quality…if you trawl the bars, clubs and online dating services…you get trash!! And, you get what you deserve!

    • Tyler May 26, 2012 at 4:42 am #

      “pretty sad to read all that crap!

      But its pretty simple why you feel so frustrated: You obv not smart and handsome enough to play in Champions League!”

      I agree with you Bkk Bodo.Well said.
      I myself have meet more than a few “Good Thai Girls.” They are every where in Thailand.
      Ever heard of the saying;”Like attracts Like”

      • Chris May 26, 2012 at 10:15 am #

        What is with this champions league, tell you what I wouldn’t like to be in it if it’s full of a guys who think they are better than everyone else. I’m just a normal guy living my life in Thailand telling it how I see it, it may be right it may be wrong but it’s just my opinion everyone has one.

    • Chris May 26, 2012 at 6:30 am #

      Wow and people call me arrogant, perhaps you should start a blog!
      I hate it when people read my blog and think they know me and what i’m about 100% check out the Thai girls on this site, you see any isaan girls you see any ugly chicks dude, that’s right i’ve done half of them and i’m not rich and well i’m not exactly Brad Pitt either!

      • Ed May 27, 2012 at 10:34 pm #

        Actually, most of the girls you post on here are dreary, pasty western lookalikes with slightly Asian faces! Some of us prefer Asian girls, Thai girls, BROWN girls!

    • Terry June 3, 2012 at 6:55 am #

      what you say is not crap after coming to thailand for about seven years its true nearly impossible to find a lie free woman. they tell you what they thik you want to hear.

      I try very hard to not believe what my freinds say that live in Thai that Thai woman are like banana’s look nice on the outside but go bad in about a week?

    • Kenny June 26, 2012 at 10:10 am #

      LMAO…I also play in the Champions league..Very good control , skillful ,always score (With The Mrs) Never give away a penalty,Always agree with the ref… 😉
      I apologise if i have missed out anything,Busy training..

  10. Johnnie Walker May 25, 2012 at 12:58 pm #

    Chris, have you tried dating some girls around your own age? Degree holders with good jobs & a reasonable income? Perhaps a teacher or government employee?

    I think to say there is no such thing as a good Thai girl is a rather sweeping statement. However there may not be any good ones on Thai websites seeking instant sexual gratification with a stranger.

    • Working Tourist May 26, 2012 at 11:03 am #

      Say what??? She doesn’t sleep around, lies through her teeth, steals your shit, and haven’t made you distrust her?

      Are you sure she is thai?

      • Ed May 27, 2012 at 10:36 pm #

        Nice one!

    • Kenny June 26, 2012 at 10:17 am #

      I agree 100%
      BTW Send me a bottle of your finest over Mr Walker.. 🙂

  11. Peter May 25, 2012 at 1:06 pm #

    Hello Chris,

    First let me ask how good of a catch are you for a good girl? You frequent prostitutes! So if your not going to be faithful, why should she be?

    Or is it that your white so have different rules?

    Not sure but your post above just shows you don’t know shit, or you have only been hanging around prostitutes the whole time you have been here. You tell everyone you speak excellent Thai, good on you, so do I, at a native level.

    I know plenty of women here that are basically no different then any woman I met in America, however in America I would not go to the slums or the red light district to find a girlfriend. So why would I here?

    • Chris May 26, 2012 at 1:46 pm #

      Firstly dude I’ve never dated a prostitute before not sure what gives you that idea and I don’t hang out with them either, sure i’ve been in Pattaya for the past 2 months but if you’ve followed my blog from the start you’ll know that’s not really what I’m about and I certainly wouldn’t date one.

      • Peter June 1, 2012 at 12:18 pm #

        I didn’t say date, I said “frequent”. I have read some of your blog and for the most part it is decent.

        I tell guys all the time here that are nocking prostitutes, running around nailing anything that will lift there skirt, etc. Why the hell should the girl be faithful to you if your not to her?

        I have been married to the same woman, “Thai” for 10 years, overseas uni education, good family, the works. I don’t mess around. Does that make me a chump? Maybe, but at least a happy one.

        • Chris June 2, 2012 at 7:17 am #

          Peter I’m really happy that you have found such a great women, you are very lucky indeed. Since you’ve been married for 10 years and don’t fool around your experience with the younger generation of Thai girls is truly limited. The story I wrote on this page is based on my experience dating up to 40 different Thai girls a month it’s my experience it may not be conclusive as I havn’t dated every single girl out there but I would say that I have more experience than most. None of those girls are prostitutes either.

        • BJ June 4, 2012 at 10:01 pm #

          You date 40 girls a month then deride THEM for not being faithful enough?

        • Chris June 5, 2012 at 5:53 am #

          It wouldn’t make any difference mate.

        • Kenny June 16, 2012 at 1:00 am #

          Judging by your “Thai girl of the month/s”
          I am not surprised you have never come across A good Thai girl..

          I come across a good one every night!!

          No seriously “There are many Good Thai girls” Stay a way from the ones with shorts up their arses and tits hanging out..I remember you once said to me “I want to f–k as many girls under 21 as i can” Not the best way to secure a good one mate!!

        • Chris June 16, 2012 at 2:15 pm #

          You are totally missing the point dude, what you think is a good Thai girl from a western perspective is not so good. The Thai girls of the month are just play things for me, I know some great girls dude but if you go around thinking there are good Thai girls dude your going to get suckered! I know you have found your wife just be careful dude.

        • Kenny June 21, 2012 at 10:09 am #

          Don’t know why i cannot reply back to your answer to me..

          Anyway chris i judge people as i find them..You must know the saying a woman scorned?

          It makes no diffrence where a girl is from you get good and bad whatever the girls nationality..

          This blog subject could be considered racist,many or most of us living with Thai woman be it in Thailand or elsewere, do not appreciate these sort of subjects. This is one of the reasons many from my home city of liverpool were saying “Kenny W” Has bought a Thai girl.I will say to you what i said to them. “Get a grip”

          Men who allow them selves to be a victim will always be a victim..I have never (And i have travelled the world) Found a woman from a totally diffrent culture, nation, back ground to have a similar sense of humour as myself..

          Besides Chonlada is from a middle to upper class Thai family and most farangs complaints with women, is money…Nothing is begrudged regarding Chonlada and myself.. 🙂

  12. Ed May 25, 2012 at 9:59 pm #


  13. Brad May 25, 2012 at 10:36 pm #


    I’ve been married to a ‘very good’ Thai girl for a year and a half now. She is age appropriate and attractive Isaan girl who I met through thailovelinks.com. She is 100% dedicated to me and only ever asks for cuddles. We work together and make and do future plans, especially with money matters. They do exist…

    • Chris May 26, 2012 at 10:18 am #

      Hey Brad, you know I generalize a lot about my life in Thailand especially about Thai girls, i was pretty pissed the time I wrote this article and I know there are good Thai girls I even wrote that in the article i’m just saying that at some point one of the points I made she’ll let you down on, doesn’t make her bad it’s just a reality. Really happy for your marriage and I hope it works out. My last mate who married a girl in Isaan now lives here in Chiang Mai by himself. Usually if it makes it past 5 years it’s pretty much a winner.

      • Brad May 26, 2012 at 10:58 pm #


        I hear what you are saying. My wife has Thai girlfriends who are not interested in not much other then shopping and drinking and are basically fake people. I did struggle with Farang girls for years, when I met my wife it was like a breath of fresh air. Everything just flows and keeps on flowing. Thanks, I am confident we will go the distance too.

  14. Dave May 26, 2012 at 5:54 am #

    I’ve had enough of the mindless dribble that comes from your mouth Chris! When i first found your page, i thought it was useful, so i subscribed and you replied quickly and kindly.

    But honestly, lately your posts have been a load of crap, and this post takes the cake!!

    I have to agree totally with BKK BODO above, well said. Now, i’m not one to personally attack somebody Chris, but you need to get off your high horse, and get a reality check. No such thing as a good thai girl? Please………with you being such an expert on Thai women (apparently) , you must be just stirring the pot on your blog huh? Or maybe i was just lucky to meet the most perfect woman in the world, and as it turns out, she is Thai. Let me give you some small details……. Together 8 years, married 6. 5 y.o daughter together. Met in Australia, both worked hard to achieve what we have today. speaks perfect english, well educated, absolutely beautiful, with the most amazing personality. My in-laws are the greatest people i’ve ever met in my life!! have never asked for money ( coz thats apparently what they do yeah?), do everything for us when we need assistance and when my family visit from oz, they are the greatest hosts and the most fun you could ever have!! But i will be honest about one thing……when we first met, she told me that she was from Thailand. My reply……”where’s Thailand?”. (Lack of travel and knowledge on my part). But now i am starting to think that it was a good thing that i didn’t know anything about Thailand, because people like yourself fill peoples minds with negativity about the country and it’s people. Yes, there are some bad people here, and some have had bad experiences. But what difference is that from any other country?

    Look, im sure you are a decent guy. But seriously, stop writing this shit! Aren’t you the same guy who posts pics of good looking Thai girls, and says he has the most fun with them. Now you say they are no good? Why did you come to Thailand? Why did you learn to speak Thai? You must be going through a bad experience, but all i can say is get over it, move on, and stop degrading Thai people because you’re a sad little man.

    Whilst im ranting……..You wrote a recent post that said you got into a fight in Chiang Mai, correct? So as i read it, i agreed with you totally in that the guy was a jerk for cutting in on your woman. And good on you for standing up for her, when he was being a dick. But seriously, the guy was drunk, you said he was small and weak, so why after punching him down did you have to lay the boots in??????? You already knocked him down once, isn’t that enough? but being the big tough man that you are, kick a man while his down? cmon, what a dick you are for doing that. And now you write this post about Thai women being no good? why did you stand up for your girl if she’s no good? hypocrite!!!

    Please unsubscribe me, and why you are at it, maybe re-think your future as a blogger living in The Land of Smiles. Possibly you will be better to go back home, and degrade your own country and its people.

    Rant over

    • Chris May 26, 2012 at 10:40 am #

      Thanks for the comment Dave sure your story is probably unique I mean you met the girl in Australia not in Thailand and together 8 years, clearly unique and not the norm. Lately my posts haven’t been the best and that’s why I stopped writing for 10 days and am now just getting back into it, i’m changing directions although I still believe in this post. Sooner or later Thai girls will dissapoint you, some guys wouldn’t know, if you are living in Australia it’s less likely as the girl you know is probably more western now than she is Thai. I’m really happy for you that you’ve met such a wonderful girl. Little jelous perhaps. I know plenty of great girls, girl I’m seeing now has just past the bar exam and will soon be practicing law, what most people call a good Thai girl right. Yet my point here is to just be careful and not wear your heart on your sleave. Again i’m not saying Thai girls are bad, i’m trying to say that when a guy meets a girl who thinks she’s a good Thai girl is to look long and hard before you make such a classification.

      • kenny June 16, 2012 at 1:04 am #

        You want to try going out with a liverpool girl..
        You will think the sun shines out of Thai girls arses after being with a liverpool girl..

    • Greg May 26, 2012 at 3:40 pm #

      My situation is very much like Dave’s. Married to a Thai lady now for about 15 years, and I thank God for the day I met her. Together we have worked to build a nice life, and we have a wonderful family in Thailand and elsewhere. In my circles, most Thais are honest, hard working, polite people. Perhaps you are in the wrong circles if you cannot find anyone like that.

      • Chris May 26, 2012 at 8:44 pm #

        Thais are honest, hard working and polite, are you sure you live in Thailand Greg? Saving face, two people to do the one job and polite lol I wonder if you speak Thai at all.

        • Greg May 27, 2012 at 4:04 pm #

          Next time you are in Chiang Mai, stop by our restaurant and I’ll buy you a beer and introduce you to some real people, if you can be polite.

  15. Farang May 26, 2012 at 6:14 am #

    Surely, thais speaks same about farangs 😉

  16. simon May 26, 2012 at 10:47 am #

    All part of the fun and games…just dont get bitten!!
    The girls are all pretty easy to work out….fun..fun…fun…and acceptance that they are non committal…happy daze!!!

  17. simon May 26, 2012 at 10:57 am #

    Oh and in answer to a previous comment YES, of course Chris posts his stories to craft a debate!!! He comes across as a complete knob but you have got to laugh! Hilarious shit…a priceless idiot…keep it coming…Ha ha ha!!!!

  18. Reb May 26, 2012 at 2:35 pm #

    Chris, in your blog you talk about “manipulating” girls. This is to treat them as objects for your self-gratification. If you do that, instead of treating them as human beings then you should have no complaint when they treat you in the same way and “use” you to get what they want – be it money or whatever.
    Grow up mate!

    • Chris May 26, 2012 at 8:45 pm #

      It would take a very smart Thai girl to pull one over me dude, i’ve yet to meet one at all.

  19. Si May 27, 2012 at 7:46 pm #

    Like anything you get out of it what you put in. You’re not exactly a stand up guy lets face it.. Sounds like the girls are just wising up to the west’s outcast white trash more quickly than usual. Good for them.

  20. TylerB June 2, 2012 at 10:16 am #

    Chist Almighty,what the f##k is up with you monkeys? The whining is boring. Drop you girly skirt and pull up you man pants.
    All I hear is bla bla. There are many good Thai girls.Lose the cracker attitude and act like a respectable human being.

    • Chris June 2, 2012 at 10:47 am #

      People keep saying Good Thai girl, I think I already explained why I don’t think there are any good Thai girls yet noone seems to want to explain what a good Thai girl is.

      • kenny June 16, 2012 at 2:05 am #

        Ok my definition..When i first met Nong, i had the same attitude towards Thai girls simply because of listening to others woeful stories.

        I decided to be extra cautious, She continued to work,infact i used to make a point of making sure i was always lying down doing nothing when she returned home from work.To cook.

        I would not help around the house,i punished the woman i now love dearly because of stories and fables spread around by bitter men like you are now..

        Me and nong or soul mates.Do you remember when i asked you to “Stop sending Thai girl of the month” Pics to my wall?..Well this was out of respect for Nong..

        Granted Chris a Thai girl could possibly be the most dangerous girl in the world is scorned..I however have learnt my lesson.. ;-)’..

  21. BJ June 4, 2012 at 9:58 pm #

    I am sorry that you’ve found Thai women to be human beings and not the perfect, submissive love-you-long-time sexbots you had been led to believe would fall at your feet in droves to worship your cock.

    • TylerB June 5, 2012 at 6:10 am #

      HaHaHa.I like your post. So many farangs have this attitude.
      They are just women. No different than any other woman around the world. Same same but different. Some are bad,some are good. But being negative is,well,just being negative.

  22. Mr Nobody June 7, 2012 at 8:42 pm #

    Chris your not wrong mate – and as for the champion leage – well it does exist yes. But its based on complete superficiality.

    I’ve lived here for 10 years – i started at the bottom and worked my way up. sure the issaan girls are all a pain in the ass but they look nice for the first few years. but the lack of education makes them very 1 dimensional – this combined with thai culture and the lies (face) and you have a recipe for disaster – farangs are ATM to isaarn. not just the girls period.

    Middle class Thais – Forget about those too. Look around the streets and clubs and even look up at the upper class. what do you see? Sex clubs everywhere, sex workers everywhere, entertainment venues everywhere. Watch the TV what do you see, screaming pathetic women and fem males giving the a whack around. This is what they grow up on, this is what they watch religiously, this is the role models they follow.

    Ive dated middle class women, business women, women with their own companies, gov workers, the whole kaboodle. All of them and i repeat ALL. Had serious issues when it came to trusting them, being open with them, being honest with them, dating a 12 year old. Money and face is everything in Thailand – Middle class girls get really intigued at how sex workers are making more than they are and drinking and partying every night. SO they join the party too and pretend they are good girls with the day job.

    Elite Thais – Not many of us will ever get an Elite Thai Girl – You need a LOT of money to ever get through the family doors and have a serious relationship with one. Sure if your goodlooking you can bed a few. But you will be dropped like a stone when they discover your pittance of a farang salary. Are they better, can they be trusted more? Well in most cases yes they have a better education, have been abroad many times, you may find some good ones here but its a superficial game.

    Finally there is one more sector which does exist – The Traditional Family Girl – Not many of these but ive found a few. Typically mid twenties never slept with a guy, very strict family, very innocent outlook on life, quite shy but in many cases stunningly beautiful. These i have had the pleasure of dating and they are good girls, and educated, but usually from a middle class family which ensure she is home each night by 11pm. And wont let her date without knowing exactly who. These girls are interesting but don’t expect an easy ride, If you ever bed one you will be expected to marry them. However i found them quite honest – BUT with the Thai culture of KENG JAI – (better to lie to someone than make them feel bad) its like talking to half a person, never a whole.

    Chris – your right!
    the stereotype is no cliche

    LOL – 10 years ago before i ever set foot in Thailand i spoke with a beautiful Vietnamese who was studying her masters degree. I told her i was off to Thailand to work and live. Her exact words to me were – Why? You know that 99% of Thai women are prostitutes! I was quite angry at her remark and thought it was just some jealous or national clash. 10 years later i realize she spoke the truth. Office workers, gov workers, Bar workers it doesnt matter – We are nothing but ATMs to them all. The notion of falling in love to a Thai is not romance, its security and superficiality.

    I still love Thailand – Its the only country in the world that is so Lost you will eventually find yourself – or kill yourself… amen!

  23. Thaimlord June 26, 2012 at 12:34 am #

    Hello Chris

    This is the first time I’ve seen your blog and I must say I’m appalled at what you’re writing. People are taking note, and you are creating a reputation for yourself as you write.

    Everyone is entitled to their opinions Chris, so my guess is that you are attracting the sort of girls that you consider are “no good”. A person who is banging 40 girls a month and looking for a good girl amongst them is dreaming. Hell, I guess it might actually happen, but you are doing the wrong things, so you cannot expect good results.

    The victim mentality doesn’t help either. Thailand isn’t for whimps. You are creating your own reality and then moaning that you don’t like it. As I saw in a post above, “man up” and you’ll find a girl in Thailand beyond your wildest dreams. My guess is that isn’t actually what you want at the moment though.

    FYI, in Thailand a “good girl” will often make you wait for months to get into bed with her, if indeed you ever do. If you have sex with her, she will quite likely expect you to marry her. In fact it’s common that she won’t even be *alone* with you for some time, but will bring a chaperone (friend, sister, child, someone else’s child) until she is totally comfortable, which could be weeks in itself.

    Commonly too, she may never have slept with a man before, just as my GF had never done so at 30 years old. I didn’t initally believe her, but after years of knowing her and her family, it is just the way of the respectful Thai family.

    If you are known as someone who takes a different girl to bed every night, no good girl will even give you a glance in any country, let alone conservative Thailand. You would be a complete embarrassment to their whole family. What good girl in any country would want to team up with someone who does and thinks as you (judging by what you’ve written)?

    I’m seldom one to reference the bible Chris, but perhaps you might like to remove the beam from thine own eye, so as to see clearly to remove the spec from the eyes of those no good Thai girls?

    Oh, and learn some respect too mate. Respect is very very valuable in this country, indeed it’s the foundation of their social system. Without it you’ll do poorly wherever you go, insulting people without even trying. Many westerners come here filled with their own self-importance. Respect and humility will get you a long way in this country. This is not the West.

    In writing like this, you are prejudicing your entire future here, if a future here is what you are planning. If not, I guess go for it; as I said, everyone’s entitled to their opinions.

    Best wishes

    • Chris June 26, 2012 at 9:06 am #


      Honestly guy I’m defining in this article that there isn’t any such thing as a good Thai girl, one that doesn’t do anything on the aforementioned list. You say that you have a girlfriend who was a virgin at 30. What percentage of the population are still virgins at 30 mate. Yes I have a reputation here and let people take note, I’m happy to share my knowledge. I know how to play the so called “good girls”. And I know how to do so 50 girls at once! They keep rolling over and giving it up one after another and would you believe I send them the link to my website! They know who I am what I do and you don’t think they want a piece of it too! Girls don’t want a guy who no one else wants bro, popularity goes a long way, Americans do this well.
      You talk about respect as if you understand Thai people, Thai’s are selfish and respect themselves before they respect others in fact most Buddhist cultures a like that.
      This blog appeals to guys from the West and not Thai people in fact readers are from all over the world including Asia, I write from the heart and from experience so that others don’t have to fall through the same traps. Good girls, huh. I know the girls your talking about and they are talking to a bunch of other guys, planning your assassination, and more than likely lying to you about whether she’s had sex before.
      I don’t need to find anymore good girls, I already have a few of them, but a know a lot of easy girls too, I don’t want to go the long way bro, I was the easy way!

  24. Leo June 29, 2012 at 9:24 am #

    Hi Chris, I am reading on your website all day ! That is a compliment ! Reading all these comments on this item, I am amazed how many are talking you down. Looks like they were pretty jealous and just waiting for you to fall . . . Then come with their little finger. Amazing.
    I not agree with all your opinions, but surely I appreciate you are sharing your life with us. I guess sharing yourself does trigger things in other people.
    Chok dee,

  25. Jai Dee September 2, 2012 at 7:33 am #

    First off…Greetings All
    Many interesting comments,observations,reflections etc. regarding long term relationships with Thai women.
    Thanks to all for sharing your experiences .
    So here is my little story…in a nutshell.

    I am married to a woman from Mae Rim since 2001.I know her since 1996
    She has been in Canada for over 10 years as a landed immigrant,has a great Union job in an Assisted living complex as a cook(for older folks) where my mother happens to reside…and my mom happens to love her daughter in law very much.
    We own a house here in Canada as well as property out in Mae Rim.On some of the property we now have a Siamese fighting fish (Plaa Kaat) breeding facility….www. familybettafarm.com (site open but being renovated at the moment.

    When a relationship is based strictly upon physical attraction,then the relationship with always be limited to that.

    That in and of itself is not a problem, as long as one doesn’t expect anything more.

    Fair enough….on both sides.

    However, relationships based on friendship,trust,mutual goals,enjoying each others company,rather than only sex..and the realization that no one stays young for ever,, can be a lot more enjoyable in day to day life ..and it’s nice to have pleasant company when you become an old fart …555

    Don’t get me wrong…it’s not easy to find “jing jai”but it helps to have “jing jai”
    I went through numerous experiences during the time that I lived there, under the radar so to speak,1996-2001 too many stories Chris…we need to chat over some “Khao Soi” lol

    p.s ,…and besides …that is what makes Thailand so fun to live in…going out on the town,,,a little Sayuri…etc etc…is not a problem as long as one understands Thai sensibilities.
    i.e what the wife thinks
    (1)don’t get sick !
    (2) don’t stupidly fall in love
    (3)and if you own a house in the ” Muu Baan” never ever shit in your own nest and sleep with a village girl(opportunities galore,…on numerous occasions I have heard the words “Ow gik mai” and they are fully aware that I have a wife who originates from that village,

    Cheers All

    • Chris September 2, 2012 at 8:02 am #

      Good advice there and little plug to your business 🙂 Everyone is looking for different things and what one seeks is what one finds, I agree it’s hard to find jing jai and your right you have to be jing jai too. I’m off the booze for a month so some Kaow Soi sounds good 🙂

  26. Viking October 30, 2016 at 7:44 pm #

    I understand what you try to do. In all, you are happy that this brainless thai girls make love with you and all the other stupid farang.

    People styed in Thailand for a decade, know that everything you speak is true.The newbies, they alway think they know better, because for first time, they dip their hapineess, in the professionell well.

    In Thailand, I do the same like you, my 18 year old sweetheart lie in the bed, waiting for me, to get happy again with her, so she can dream I buy her a mobile tomorrow.

    I just approve a thai girl give me her p…….., and do not ask any questions, or how much.

    I just love in my old age I can have more young and beautiful ladies, more then the young man or his money, because I know the secret. Stay quiet, and the ladies love you, and the farang man hate you for that.


  27. Viking October 30, 2016 at 8:32 pm #

    Why do you all speak about the love as a ho;y thing??????

    Just fuck them all, and stay happy. You forget what the thai lady tell you all the time…..WHY DO YOU THINK SO MUCH.

    Just fuck them, stay quiet, and you only have one problem, they never go away.


  28. Kevin July 5, 2022 at 12:49 pm #

    Yep. Bang on. Like a complete tit, I made this mistake earlier this year. Went once, met her, went second time to see her, had good time, arranged and paid for my flights for later this year and she ‘s giving it the, I’ll wait for you. And now she’s escorting because she needs to feed her lazy Isaan family who obviously can’t get off their arse to fend for themselves. Yet tells me she still wants me, just needs to do this for a while until I return. So yep, they lie, cheat, probably steal, and are heartbreakers. Read carefully first timers. Don’t fall into their puppy dog eye trap! Fuck them, kick them out afterwards, move onto another girl!

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