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Waiting Your Turn

You ever been to a beer bar and it's obvious that NONE of the girls are interested in you taking them out? Girls are all smiles and dragging you into a bar and as soon as you sit down they somehow disappear? This is not a new phenomena nor is it because you smell bad or look like a troll although if you do smell and look like a troll then that'll probably happen too. More often than not the reason for the bad service are the following two reasons.

  • You are not a mark
  • The girls are waiting for someone

Bar girls are notorious for sucking guys into sending them money, they look for their mark and jump on him. These girls know exactly what they are looking for and if you're not it, they are not interested. On the other hand they may be interested but they have arranged for some guy to meet them at the bar, they are waiting for someone, in this case they don't want to sit with you in case that someone rocks up.

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A friend of mine runs a hole in the wall beer bar in Chiang Mai on Loi Kroh road. Every time I go to his bar there's just a bunch of dudes sitting around, you'd think theirs no pussy to be had there but in fact he has 8 girls on the books. Before the bar even opens the girls are already bar fined and when you do see girls there, they are waiting for some guy they have already arranged to meet. His suggestion to me was to get one of the girls LINE and arrange with her when she's available.

Technology has killed the beer bar experience in my opinion. Back in the day you had to arrange to meet AT the bar because there was no other way to contact the girl, and the girls wouldn't be so keen on waiting for some dude because without a phone they had no sure way of knowing if the guy was actually going to show up.

Today you have to wait your turn more so than you ever had to in the past. Today's bar girl is connected and if she's half good looking, has a phone, and been in the industry a few months all she needs to do is hang around the bar till closing time when her phone starts lighting up.

Is she already barfined?

When I"m bar hopping in Pattaya with mates it's not unusual for me to bar fine 2,3 sometimes 4 girls at the beer bars. I don't wanna drag her around and buy drinks for her espectially if you see something better at the next bar. So, at the end of the night I'll make up my mind who I thought was the best and go back get her and blow the rest of them off. This never used to be expensive but the price of bar fines have gone up and can cost me up to 2000 baht but that's better than spending the night alone or settling for a coconut girl (beach road whores). I would prefer the girls waiting on me then me waiting on them.

I don't get the whole waiting your turn thing, these days you have to arrange to meet bar girls, one guy tells me the trick is to keep going to the same bar until you get the contacts so you don't have to go. This means a lot of drinks and a lot of waiting around. Wouldn't it just be easier and cheaper just to hook up with girls online, you know, girls you don't have to pay or wait your turn!

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. He has lived here for over 10 years and speaks reads and writes very good Thai.

8 Responses to Waiting Your Turn

  1. ChiangMaiGuy March 7, 2015 at 12:42 pm #

    not noticed this to be honest and if a girl wanted me to ‘wait my turn’ that would be that

  2. Skins March 7, 2015 at 8:56 pm #

    I recently went into Spankys at Nana plaza and called a girl off the stage… Sexy young thing. We had a few shots of Tequila while I was feeling her up. Finally I said OK I will pay the bar for you. She said oh no solly cannot!!! WTF?! I didn’t ask for details but it must be like you said… Some dude paid the bar and he would come back to grab her later.

    Still fuckin annoying I’m buying drinks for this chick who wont even leave with me! They should wear a sign that says BAR FINED! 🙂

    • Pad April 19, 2015 at 9:15 am #

      Idiot! Why should they? It is not their interest.

      YOU could ask them that question, cheap Charly.

    • Don tamba July 10, 2018 at 8:11 am #

      Skins….wake up. The first hint are the tequila shot lady drinks. They slam them down within two minutes and are looking for the next round.
      Gogo dancer stunners can actually make more money off from LDs than a barfine. Its preferable to milk a farang for overpriced LDs than to have boom boom with some unknown farang. Gogo girls are notorious for this ploy. Another excuse is that they’re on their period….and a rare one, but still used….is that they’re a cherry girl.

  3. Jacko March 10, 2015 at 8:24 pm #

    I quite often bar fine via text message, cmon man get with the times 😛

    Normally when im tired from the night before and I can’t be bothered walking up bangla road and getting harrased by dozens of locals trying to sell me all sorts of shit.

    It’s super convenient to be sitting in my hotel room and to be able to get my favourite bar girl to come over and bring some food on the way…

    Oh and Chris, some of your ads are not displaying properly, it just shows the short code, your missing out on $$$

    • Chris March 11, 2015 at 2:16 pm #

      You mean SMS? LINE I found is easier and cheaper! 😉 Don’t forget all the brothers who come here their first time who don’t have a single lead, we have it so good living here, I often forget.

      • Jacko March 11, 2015 at 2:57 pm #

        Line, viber whatsup, facebook etc. I don’t live there, Im still in Australia, bought your e book and Im working on my online business.

        I will be living there soon, in the mean time I have to settle for a month over there at a time.

        Im going in August to get out of the harsh Melbourne winter. there is always new girls every time I go…… paradise for a horny guy with yellow fever 😛

        Oh and how do I become a VIP for this site?

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