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10 Reasons to dump your Thai Girlfriend immediately

Knowing when to pull the plug on a Thai girlfriend is something every guy who comes to Thailand should know or maybe you've been living in Thailand for years now and your stuck in a relationship you think isn't going anywhere, maybe it's time to go your separate ways.

10 Reasons to dump your Thai Girlfriend immediately

1. Your Thai girlfriend worked as a prostitute or worked within the vicinity of prostitutes

If your Thai girlfriend used to work in a bar or GoGo club then you must dump her immediately period. I don't care if she was the cashier at the club or "just a server" she is surrounded by Thai's who in the western world would be concidered "bad news". Would you date a girl like this back home?

2. Your Thai girlfriend cheated on you

Once a cheater always a cheater and in Thailand that could mean you end up with an exotic disease. I'm not talking about a drunk makeout session i'm talking about going to lengths to meet other guys, if she says she's "just friends" kick her to the curb.

3. Your Thai girlfriend is super jealous

In my experience most Thai girls I've ever dated have been jealous but that's a natural thing for all girls Thai or Farang. The difference or perhaps the line that get's crossed is when she starts calling the other girls, following you around and general stalker behaviour. If it's already at this point you're going to have a tough time even getting rid of her so that's why you should do it immediately before it gets to the chopping your dick off stage.

4. Your Thai girlfriend is abusive

Does your Thai girlfriend hit you? Does she scream at you? Does she cuss at you a lot? As soon as this starts happening you should get rid of the girl immediately, it might even mean you have to move apartments as well, she's a psycho bitch and things will only get worse. Time to tell her to pack her bags.

5. Your Thai girlfriend gets annoyed at everything you do

This could work both ways as well like if you get annoyed at everything she does as well. This is a sign that things just arn't working out. It's a physiological response to the fact that either you or her just don't like each other anymore. Take the warning sign and give her the divorce papers immediately.

5. She's ugly

I can never understand with all the beautiful women in Thailand and the available selection of good looking Thai girls that decent looking guys come to Thailand and end up dating some really hideous girls. Hey I know some less than average girls, and sure i might have done them also but to make one my girlfriend, sorry bro that ain't going to happen. If she's ugly get rid of her now.

6. Your Thai girlfriend has unresolved addictions

Does she smoke, do drugs, or gamble? Especially gambling then get rid of her now. People rarely come out of addictions especially those with an addictive personality more than likely you're going to end up paying for these addictions as well. Maybe you like her because your into these things as well, is she really going to make you a better person if she's just like you? This kind of girl can be fun so make her a gik not a wife.

7. Your Thai girlfriends family are leeches

Actually this reason for dumping your Thai girlfriend should even be ranked higher than 7 but it's just a list and not in any order. The family asking for money is the one reason why you should break up with her immediately. Things are never going to improve and even if you gave her family a million dollars there will be a time they'll come back and ask for more. Does your Thai girlfriend have a mother that calls her only when she needs money? And you don't need to speak Thai to know this because after she get's the call that day she will ask to send money. A family who is not fiscally sound or fiscally responsible will transcend to their kids. Stay with this girl and you'll be broke in a few years. Break it off now!

8. Your Thai girlfriend is lazy

If you're girlfriend keeps a messy house, can't cook, and lacks any ambition then what are you doing with her? If it's just for the sex hell you can have 10 giks to do that for you without the emotional hassle. You're better off single.

9. Your Thai girlfriend lies about everything

If your Thai girlfriend tells you little lies that you know about then don't let her on because she's likely to slip up on a big lie as well. Thai girls who lie will lie forever you can't change them nor can you trust them. The only good thing to do with a liar is to get rid of 'em.

10. She doesn't love you the same way you love her

If a relationship is unevenly balanced where someone loves the other person more than the other person loves them then save yourself a lot of heartache and call it quits immediately, it's never going to work out.

Finally if you have to dump your Thai girlfriend it's OK it's not the end of the world, there are so many good Thai girls out there simply sign up to any of the Thai dating sites and you'll see first hand how many girls wanna date you.

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. He has lived here for over 10 years and speaks reads and writes very good Thai.

55 Responses to 10 Reasons to dump your Thai Girlfriend immediately

  1. J February 11, 2013 at 3:16 pm #

    tfw you realize none of these things apply 🙂

  2. american February 11, 2013 at 4:13 pm #

    LOL, as I read this (no joke), I have a girl here in my room. Just had our fun, then went to eat and are back at my place. Her boyfriend just called (I knew about this) and she is upset at him for going out to walking street with his buddy. She thinks he did short time. ummmmm, but what about her. Oh thats different because he said he didn’t go short time, but she told him she stay in her room and didn’t mention me at all. LOL. Anyway, funny stuff. She asked me what phone she should ask him to buy her. I said, which is easiest to sell. She laughed. I told her to use the phone while he is still here and then sell it and then when he comes back tell him it was stolen and you were embarrassed to tell him, and he will buy you another. Maybe I should stop giving her advice. Anyway, I hope he likes her new flavor.

    • Leo February 11, 2013 at 5:39 pm #

      Hope you both like each other’s flavor. In fact, why don’t you just skip the girl and do each other.

    • Paul February 12, 2013 at 5:22 am #

      I gotta say I’m not fond of falangs that do this stuff to other falangs. Back when I first moved to Thailand I used to think I was clever / cool doing this – but it’s just straight up sucking up to them. Next time they do that tell them they’re out of order.

    • Aziz August 6, 2016 at 6:04 pm #

      Straight pimpin

  3. EU Korean February 11, 2013 at 6:40 pm #

    Some good comments Chris.

    I have a question about the dick chopping.
    When a girl starts to talk about that but she is just joking.
    Should I be worried and run as fast as I can?
    Because I go back to Europe for 3 months and she was talking about chopping it off so she could play with it.

    • Chris February 11, 2013 at 6:49 pm #

      If you’re going back to your own country for 3 months you should break it off now and make her your gik because seriously 3 months is a long time, pleny of more girls to be played while your preparing for your thai girl celibacy when you return home

    • american February 12, 2013 at 4:29 am #

      I just tease them back once (the first time they talk about chopping), and say, oh, yes and I can cut (and make a distinct motion with each tit). Usually she is slightly concerned and I smile and tell her to never mention again because I think she look better with tits. 100% of the time they have never joked about it again. If I ever come accross one that jokes again, and doesn’t get it or is green-eyed, just get a new one. Don’t let the joke go unanswered. I think LOS is at the top of the list for dick cutting by jealous womens.

  4. american February 11, 2013 at 6:47 pm #

    Thats the same name as her boyfriend. lolz joking. You do make a good point 😉

    If I didn’t know thai (listening is the most important) at the level I do, I would have probably not found out but evenso there are always clues. She’ll hang out more when he goes back home. She has some fleecing to do first. Better him than me.

  5. jack February 11, 2013 at 9:29 pm #

    the ugly factor is an interesting one, most expat suits that have spent time in bangkok almost always have an average to ugly wife, hmmmmm theres a reason for this. Jealousy is another, I did,nt think a thai women existed that did,nt exhibit the green eyed monster in unhealthy portions. Well thats good to hear theres exceptions…would you say they are rare?

  6. The Horse February 12, 2013 at 10:25 am #

    11. If you hear the phrase “Up to you” one more time you may explode.

    It was god to read this and confirm my plans. I had already made this decision a few weeks ago… She ticks 1, 2, 5, 7, 8 & 9…

    I’ve just gotta play nice until i can come back and get all of my shit out of the room before I send her packing…

    • Chris February 12, 2013 at 1:13 pm #

      Thanks for the comment you just gave me an awesome idea for a post!

    • CoCo Channel February 13, 2013 at 3:14 am #

      might want to find a new room too…..and a new part of town 🙂

    • Kenny williams February 19, 2013 at 11:42 am #

      Super agree my friend, My situatiation is a little more complex than that.. We have a house a small company in Thai , I have a company in the UK and we have cars and motorbikes ETC…..To give all this up will require a lot of hard thinking on my behalf, as i said in one of my posts, i am seriouslt concidering Chi9na next….Be well sir and make sure you make the right move..

      Kenny SiRatcha Chonburi..

  7. bibblies February 13, 2013 at 3:06 am #

    “7. Your Thai girlfriends family are leeches”

    …” A family who is not fiscally sound or fiscally responsible will transcend to their kids. Stay with this girl and you’ll be broke in a few years. Break it off now!”

    7’s a good reason to dump but not for this reason. The leech one is so bad because of the brain-washing that leads the girl to cough up, regardless of the behaviour of the family, however many times they do it and what effect it has on everyone. If they’re always mindlessly going to cough up to a stupid/irresponsible/addicted/greedy/evil parent or sibling, what kind of future is there?

  8. ChiangMaiGuy February 13, 2013 at 7:30 am #

    don’t ‘do’ GF’s is the answer WTF for?

    too many free girls around – and they can get hurt – it’s a ‘no do’ here dudes

    • Kenny williams February 19, 2013 at 11:53 am #

      I have hurt many Thai girls….I like to think i did it on purpose to avenge my Western Brothers BUT i probably was just shag happy telling them they beutiful and all that rubbish…

      I still get Emails from Girls of 2 or 3 years ago…Must be the Beast in me, Girls say “I want good man”…But they want bad man really…Im the baddest of the lot…Why they stalk me once they find this out…
      One time a few weks ago i walked past a bar in pattaya and a girl called me over, “I will pay you to f–k me she said…I had my GF sister waiting for me around the corner so i just said Som nam Na and walked away… 🙂 So it happens, some Thai girls do acctually fall in love. If we strong we take advantage of this and an old saying in UK poss other areas in the west “Treat them mean keeps Em kean” So true…

  9. Alex February 19, 2013 at 11:01 am #

    Why did no one mention that thai girls don’t know English? It’s a real pain to have a conversation with someone who speak English the way most thai girls do.

    • Chris February 19, 2013 at 4:32 pm #

      I didn’t mention it because I can’t stand it when chicks speak English, they get a superiority complex much like many newbie English teachers in Thailand. F that shit. So i guess yes, if she speaks English exceptionally well, dump her immediately.

      • Alex February 20, 2013 at 9:09 am #

        Exactly the opposite. I mean that if she does speak English well, it’s a reason not to dump her.

        • Chris February 20, 2013 at 4:31 pm #

          I disagree, I don’t like girls that speak English well, it’s a turn off.

    • ujealousofwhitebastard October 14, 2014 at 11:36 am #

      Maybe because she lives in a country called Thailand and you should have figured that out on your own?

      If you want a bunch of Asians who speak English well, there’s the Philippines.

  10. Kenny williams February 19, 2013 at 11:36 am #

    I hate to admit it but one of your 1/10 is me all over..
    3. Your Thai girlfriend is super jealous

    In my experience most Thai girls I’ve ever dated have been jealous but that’s a natural thing for all girls Thai or Farang. The difference or perhaps the line that get’s crossed is when she starts calling the other girls, following you around and general stalker behaviour. If it’s already at this point you’re going to have a tough time even getting rid of her so that’s why you should do it immediately before it gets to the chopping your dick off stage.
    At one stage i had to phone up some girlm i helped out with a few thousand baht, Quite or a bit innocent, she and my soon to be Ex started the Thai talking sister this and sister that…After a couple of weeks of hearing this shit i decided to phone the other girl in front of my Jealous Bitch (Who really thought she had found a best friend who hated me)
    The fist words to come out of this Bangkok girls mouth was Hello darling, i saw the look of horror in my Fiances face so i continued Just to proof this Bangkok girl was no Pee Ka of My dilusional gf….I want to get back to the me of 2 years ago..Driving around Isan and picking up Girls many with used visas to european countries Hence Other farang Boy friends..Some bad Girls among us chris or i am just so irresistable the girls cant help it..Only problem is they expect me to fall in love with them…
    I was just playing a game..The fact they had farang Boy friends did make me feel Guilty as there Guy must of been in his own country working hard in order to marry a girl who will fuck another guy with fairly good look and a little more money then their intended..

    There my friend now you know some of the secrets about my life..Please do not post any of this to facebook , besides i trust you as a officer and a gentleman..Not sure what to do next, Seriously thinking about China my friend..

    • LOLOLOL October 6, 2013 at 7:00 am #

      That is funny! While she is cheating with you her boyfriend is probably a ‘butterfly’ and sleeping with other girls or boys. Spread the love and cooties 🙂 So is this the main reason why White men come back from Asia with std’s? Damn.. they should not let your kind allowed back in. I seriously think that white guys returing to America from Asia get a STD test before being allowed back in.

  11. Alex February 20, 2013 at 12:20 pm #

    Chris, I have one more question to you because you are an American (aren’t you?). Is that true that american girls are much more (!) feminist compared to thai or any asian girls?

    • Chris February 20, 2013 at 4:30 pm #

      Actually I’m australian, but I lived many years in the USA. Feminist, i don’t think that’s the right word, they are much more independent, actually it’s a trait I wish many Thai’s would have but don’t.

      • Jeff Thomas February 25, 2013 at 2:02 pm #

        I agree Chris. Being an American myself, it’s unbelievable sometimes to me to see how the people here have almost no ability to do things by themselves. They must ALWAYS rely on their friends to do anything and everything.They will not go out by themselves to do things or even make their own decisions. Guess they’re just not as strong as those who are independent.

  12. Euang February 28, 2013 at 7:15 pm #

    Hey guy i didn’t read all of comment. but i would like to said “What the reason you looking for thaiwomens?” if you want some serious relationship you will be honest, Thaiwomen have that too .but if you looking from “Karee” then you will not got it. but they are sale the body if have sale and buy process then concern about money. but every where around the world have “Karee” too. even your country, then should’t look down Thai people. So for Chirs i think you got a lot of comment from thai people mostly it should be bad for you. But i want to know Are you living in Thailand? So If you living there why you not accept about the thing there.

    So, If those guy want to love and honest you have to have that too. If you are think thaiwomen not good then shouldn’t looking for them.

    • Chris March 1, 2013 at 2:48 am #

      Most people that I know and hey i run in all sorts of circles are not interested in a relationship just sanook therefore most guys don’t really care how good or bad a girl is in her personallity and attitude its more to do with her ass and tits.

      • ujealousofwhitebastard October 14, 2014 at 11:41 am #

        “most guys don’t really care how good or bad a girl is in her personallity and attitude its more to do with her ass and tits.”

        Is there anything else to them? I guess there’s that “mind” thing, but really, that just gets in the way of them making the right decisions–you know, like sucking your dick for $15, or letting you drain your balls in their faces.

  13. Jon May 31, 2013 at 2:46 pm #

    Chris said
    I disagree, I don’t like girls that speak English well, it’s a turn off.

    Wow that is brilliant!

  14. spectator007 July 14, 2013 at 9:22 am #

    The absolute funny part is they (Thai girls) aren’t very good liars. If you’re going to lie at least put some thought into it. But when the lie unravels so do they. Ultimately its all a game and a game has only two parties, winners and losers.

  15. Never marry ugly fat fuck farang August 26, 2013 at 6:03 pm #

    i think real Thai girl (prostitute not counting) dont like Farang talk Thai or even try to show off he knows thai. Its lame as fuck. And most ugly farang would get Thai girl because they can’t find any better looking with the shape.

    Im fact. You rather marry your mom thou. Lol

    • Chris October 21, 2013 at 2:40 am #

      Recently dumped by a fara farang hey!

  16. jay October 10, 2013 at 4:39 pm #

    you guys are a bunch of jerks you must have never haad pussy before if you cant cant deal with women stay home

    what a bunch of pussys

  17. bibblies October 15, 2013 at 11:13 am #

    They’re terrible liars because:
    1. They don’t expect to get called on the lie. Why would someone at the receiving end be so barbarous as to break face by pointing out the lie?
    2. Lies simply aren’t regarded as the sinful thing they are in the west. Most westerners would hate to get caught in a lie so they’d make sure that the back story was in place and they’d think of easily checkable facts and make sure those were covered. I’ve seen Thais just ignore this. E.g. Say that they were doing this with so-and-so when they weren’t and not think to warn so-and-so that they’d said this. And then get shocked when someone actually called so-and-so to check!

  18. SweetThai October 22, 2013 at 9:35 am #

    I looking for older gentleman prefer white, old not matter, look not matter but good finance so he can maintain please serious response only

    • k39 January 27, 2015 at 11:44 am #

      I lived in Thailand in an isan village I study people to find out how they think and the reality is these girls dont have money they have been left with children and have there hearts broken by thai men and they have to go fucking for money and they cant have feelings to do that so all they want is money they can get no social welfare no security the girls go into prostitutioion to support there families and if they have boyfriends to support them they will take there money cause they cant manage money either they are not happy about it and also the reason they cheat when they after being fucked by many men as they put it they feel they have to take care of men for money and about the lieing they have no true identity they change like the weather I feel sorry for them but that’s life in Thailand they know no better

  19. Kim March 23, 2015 at 2:12 am #

    Not all Thai girls are cheaters!!

    But the stats prove many are..especially those who work in the bars of popular tourist spots!

    If you fall for the beauty then check them out before you get to involved or even thick of sending them money!!

  20. oracle April 24, 2015 at 5:14 pm #

    This post got bumped 2 years ago lol…here goes…OK..still with my girl 4 years…isaan babe…sure if your fat and ugly…youll get rolled ..it is what it is…now if your loaded…then you can part the seas like moses…the thing to me over rmany years is you yearn for a connection…some play along…some sacrifice everything…some have been burned and they now do the burning…go with the tide friend…listen to your heart and your head…do the best you can within reason…in the end …its your life and your decision….upto you as the lovely isaan girls say…and tata baby ill be seeing you in 5 weeks…what a beauty..sawadeeka!

  21. Kim July 10, 2015 at 9:05 pm #

    Not all girls are lairs and cheats, a lot depends on how long they have worked in a bar. The longer the more cynical and manipulative I have found. The knack is to find out what type of girl you have got… a cheater or one with a true heart. Find out before it goes too far.

  22. andrew August 8, 2015 at 7:12 pm #

    I have been married to a Chinese women for over 2 years and she is every one of these ten reasons and more. My elderly father even had to move. just got rid of her thank god did not cost to much. REALLY BAD. No matter how hard I tried never good enough.

  23. Ray June 20, 2016 at 1:28 am #

    Absolutely great advice…. In my case.its a Thai bf.. But I understand it’s just the same.. I can relate to 6 out of 10.. Great advice. Cheers and keep up the good work…Oh btw…5, 7, 8 and 10.. are ñegative..
    Seriously considering returning home
    All the best..

    • Ray June 20, 2016 at 1:42 am #

      Oh by the way.. I am a newbie.. Its only been 9 months..And id prefer.to be in central Thailand than any pretentious touristy joint like Pattaya or Phucket.. I cane here to enjoy and discover the real Thailand.. Not socialise with know all farangs..

  24. Paul August 7, 2016 at 5:32 pm #

    I’ll take a Thai girl over a westernise woman any day of the week!!! You couldn’t pay me enough to touch another westernise woman!


  25. K March 6, 2017 at 1:19 am #

    Hey girl Thai is not always bad. You just met the girl Thai some bad habits. But you don’t know that all woman in thailand They’re not all bad people. And what you say it is not true that some aspects. You should adjust your attitude about women in Thailand because they are not all bad.

  26. ragheed March 9, 2017 at 9:12 pm #

    100% true, i had a 6 years experience and whatever u mentioned here i cant argue with it because its all true, cheating and seeking for money is something priority in thai women, no matter how much she told u ( im not like other women ) or ( im not here for ur money ) keep in mind that words pays no vats, all what thai women wants is 2 things : 1.sex. 2.money.


    im going to thailand next sunday and thank god i never get laid with any of them thai girls and i dont intend to. but the food is good as hell 😀

  27. Linda August 14, 2017 at 8:32 pm #

    doesn’t one person love the other more in every relationship?

  28. ronakorn.chang December 3, 2017 at 12:28 am #

    Well Thai girls are not so bad, but likes to lie and they’re dishonest.
    I have this friend who is a teacher and she dumped her boyfriend after a month
    who exerted huge amount of effort just to see her, it was all a false hope relationship
    for the guy then after a week she’s flirting with me, seems like she’s not hurt.

    It was all her fault, she’s a semi-gold digger type of girl

    I’m confused with her, may the karma guide her.

    • MGTOW September 13, 2018 at 5:31 am #

      No, she is a gold digging whore. Get rid of her!

  29. Ty April 14, 2018 at 2:25 pm #

    it will never happen to me in thailand.
    oops, just did.
    enjoy many free, just because you are farang.
    do not become another farang ATM.

  30. Melbourne Farang September 13, 2018 at 5:34 am #

    No 9 the lying, it is relentless, this is why most – yes most – Thai girls are only good for a pump and dump. Lying by omission is a big thing also.

  31. Karma mgtow September 14, 2018 at 5:34 am #

    I have a 30- 32yo Thai women staying as a tenant here in Melbourne Australia at my place, this is the third one, in the past few years. All three do not have an honest bone in their body. The type of lies and the sheer number of them is breathtaking. All three are into scamming men with multiple men on the go. They are looking for an Aussie sucker to get their P.R.

    She tried to pretend she was single to me, I am not interested anyhow. She is way to thin, immature and entailed for me. I find the perfect women act she puts on creepy and fake.

    Only reason why she fessed up to having a BF was because he has knocking on the front door at 12:30 at night and they were arguing. She claims the guy is a 37yo mech engineer but he looks alot older. She was going to play single, how ridicules.

    As far as she is concerned I have not seen him. The only reason I mentioned him to her was because I forgot to mention that I prefer that myself and Tenants don’t bring home people overnight.

    The other night she told me she was going to the gym, she left at 06:00pm she arrive home at 02:00am. I guess it is none of my business, but I had to make it my business as she had designs on me. I believe I have the right to assess the character of the people I am living with.

    Anyhow she has promised to leave her man/men outside of the property so I am happy with that.

    The Thai girl before this one a few years back was a complete whore. Even had guys over. Her bedroom is next to mine! She also used to work at a Thai massage place and at the end of her shift and I quote her boss “she has a different guy waiting for her every night after her shift”.

    No more Thai female tenants after this one. Way to much dishonesty and drama. Complication and hassle in life that it is not required.

    The current Thai girl I don’t even know her real name or her age. She calls herself Meow but that is not the name on her passport, she flashed her passport at VICROADS.

    My security system contradicts much of what she says.

    Lying by omission is her modes-operandi.

    Hopefully she will be out by the end of the year.

  32. Trust is everything September 22, 2018 at 5:10 am #

    ” ronakorn.chang December 3, 2017 at 12:28 am #”

    “Well Thai girls are not so bad, but likes to lie and they’re dishonest.”

    Trust is everything!

  33. Hunter Killer :) September 11, 2022 at 10:28 am #

    100% Right. Great article.
    Just booted an ex Pattaya top Gogo, who I was seeing for several months.
    She was hot as hell, I got sucked in.
    They never become ex Gogo, no such thing
    Lies, lies, partying all night, several phones. CK designer wear etc….
    Littered tails of failed businesses, always someone elses fault, Blah blah blah (sociopath, narcissist tendencies)
    I mean she even had Little Hunter tattoed on her arm ffs and had no problem showing it.
    She even did the marry a Farang move to England thing. Lasted 3 years.
    This gave her an advantage in English and at sucking you in.
    I escaped in time, about 80K baht lost, but hey it was fun.
    Trust your gut instinct everytime, call them out immediately and kick them to the curb and don’t go back ever!!
    There will be some poor bastard after you doing the same thing.
    You haven’t lost a girlfriend, you just lost your turn lol.
    Shelf life wise she’s nearly 40 and will just end up on the trash heap. Bless her

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