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How to sweet talk Thai girls

Everyone has heard the saying "Talk a girl into bed" and it's true a girl might not be thinking or really want to go home with you but you can talk to her and make her go along with it. Works in the west and it works even better in Thailand. I've found that any girl I've met off Postjung are too easy and most of the time I don't say anything until they are actually in my room, in fact half the girls I've met from Postjung I've simply picked up and drove to my place or a short time hotel. But there are girls that you meet regularly "not in a club scene" that need to be talked into it, this article explains how to do it.

The Art of sweet talking Thai girls

Thai's like to say ผู้ชายปากหวาน Poo Chai Bark Wahn which literally is man with a sweet mouth I'd probably translate it as man who seduces and sweet talks women because let's be honest that's the only reason why your being sweet in the first place. Ever wanted to take a video of yourself chatting up a girl can you imagine how stupid you would sound!

How to sweet talk Thai girls

Being sweet also means being only half sincere and in a coy way so pick out her best body feature and hit it with the I love your hair routine. Don't pick out some weird part of her like a dimple or something, you need to be the same as everyone else and say the best feature. If you don't say the best feature you'll just come across looking weird and she'll think your insincere.

If you didn't get the right one the first time no worries try again till you get the right line then repeat the same line another 4 or 5 times over the course of the date and that's all you need. But being sweet isn't just about telling her she has gorgeous eyes, anytime you talk to her you need a smirk on your face, not a smile clench your teeth and grin. Doing this alone will let you know if she's into you or not if she's not getting shy then she's probably not into you.

Lets say the girl isn't into you after this and your like hanging what to do next start asking her about her family. Being interested in her family instantly breaks down the walls and get's her back at ease with you, beware this tactic though, you must at this point try to remember her families business, forgetting will make things worse.

You can't be sweet to a girl without talking about love, come across as a romantic and most girls in Thailand get all giddy. Carry a pen with you and when you have a chance write something down and hand it to her while your sitting right there. Passing notes to a girl during a date is a memory of her childhood that makes her remember good times breaking further the walls of resistance.

Being sweet means being mean

Women are emotional roller coasters and Thai girls are no exception. They'll be all happy and giddy one minute then a raging lunatic the next. Thing you need to keep in mind is your always trying to control the situation. Never let her pick anything, pick the spot the time the meal even go as far as telling her what to wear when to order and always hand her the money to pay the bill. Basically be all sweet to her and then say "do this!". She needs to get used to you telling her what to do.

Always dominate the situation

Continue this process through the date, using the sweet talk tactic along with the dominate tactic. The more she gets used to you telling her what to do and she obeys then by the time you've sweet talked her into your room you can say "lay on the bed naked" and you've got a better shot of her stripping down and fucking you senseless.

When you don't need to sweet talk a Thai girl

If a girl has traveled more than 2 hours just to see you, then you don't even need any sweet talking, pick her up and drive her straight back to your place, in fact don't even tell her we're your going. If you have to say something then say get something to eat and pull up at your place and say you have to get something from your apartment and tell her to come up, don't ask! I personally use this method the most and it's worked every time. If a girl has traveled more than 2 hours just to see you, she's already made up her mind it's now just up to you to control the situation.

If you've tried this out or another method tell us about your experience with a comment below.

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. He has lived here for over 10 years and speaks reads and writes very good Thai.

9 Responses to How to sweet talk Thai girls

  1. Anon April 4, 2012 at 9:26 am #

    make her laugh too – many girls I’ve had say ‘you made me laugh’ and that relaxes them – don’t know about postjung as, frustratingly, I cannot read Thai.

  2. obc April 5, 2012 at 10:44 pm #

    Thanks for your advises – I’ll try them on Saturday when I am dating a thai girl in BKK.

  3. Milbrath April 8, 2012 at 6:13 pm #

    Chris, your pimp hand is strong.

  4. Mike April 13, 2012 at 6:43 am #


    I’ve followed your site regularly since returning from a six month stint in BKK, I just wish I would have found it then. Anyway, I followed your advice and signed up for TLL and the results have been better than expected. I’ve got a half dozen ladies in BKK and another half dozen in pattaya aching to see me when I visit 14-25 April. Several offered to pick me up at the airport and some even said I can stay with them! Now that I’ve got the ladies lined up I was concerned that I wouldn’t be able to seal the deal but I will hopefully have some success using this advice. I have a 19 year old cutie picking me up at the airport at 1am, wish me luck!

    PS I’ll be in pattaya 19-25 April, would like to meet up for a drink if yor are available

    • Chris April 13, 2012 at 3:59 pm #

      If you get them back to your place the deal is done just don’t be a pussy! Would love to meet up i’m only available 19-21 so email me when your number when your in town.

  5. Thai Love August 22, 2012 at 12:32 pm #

    I followed your advice and signed up for TLL and the results have been better than expected. I’ve got a half dozen ladies in BKK and another half dozen in pattaya aching to see me when I visit 14-25 April.

  6. Scott April 7, 2017 at 3:44 am #

    I am visiting April 12-May 12. I have a lady picking me up at BKK. We plan to travel for the month. She says no sex until married but I find that hard to believe.

    • Chris April 7, 2017 at 4:10 am #

      Yes it can be true, but only if she’s a virgin, if that is the case get engaged give her parents 20k baht and you’re good to go.

  7. Tuctuc March 26, 2021 at 2:48 pm #

    I have a routine working good.at jomtien, in the soi going to the beach front
    Hello I need some help , do you s-peak englit ?
    Yes , how I can help you ?
    I search for the beach .
    Ho.it just there , 50 meter
    Ho it’s look like this , I never sea the ocean , I little scary, could you stay with me ?
    She laugh everytime and if she not busy , she accepts, just ask her if she want drink or eat something, if she says yes , 30 mn after she’s naked in my bed.
    And sometimes they busy and after 10 mn speak/drink on the beach she ask me.where is my room !
    I am small, skinny and bald , use this routine from 35 to 45 y.
    The most important is have a relax smile and make slow movement, specially with your hands , stay cha-cha and relax, look like Thai lady are more sensitive to body language than body appear
    And be perfect shaving , nice clothes, and very clean and high quality shoes.
    Sorry for my bad English, I learn with Thai lady 5555

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