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Thai Guys don’t respect you!

Do you know who your Thai girlfriend is talking to? If you live in Thailand and have a Thai girl be sure to keep in mind that hundreds of Thai guys are likely hitting on her every month! More than likely she's not going to tell you either. But the thing about Thai guys is they have no shame nor do they give 2 hoots about you either. In fact a Thai guys look at Thai girls who are with a Farang as an easy target. I know this for a fact because it happens regularly here are some scenarios that happened to me recently.

I needed to go to seven eleven so I drive to 7 and my girl waits outside. Guy pulls up with his wife/girlfriend and she goes inside also. While I'm inside and his girlfriend is inside he turns to my girl and asks "are you a Pattaya girl?" she says no, but hands her his phone and says quick punch in your phone number before the Farang comes out. Whether or not she actually gave him his number I'm not exactly sure doubt it as he's still talking to her his girlfriend comes out and smacks him on the head, this is when I came out so I ask my  girl WTF just happened.

Another time I pull up to the gas station and ask for 60 baht of benzil. So I hand him the money he goes gets change while I get on the bike. He hands her the change and we drive off. My girl at the time tells me that the guy who handed her the change put his index finger in the middle of her hand and rubbed her you know that fuck me gesture that Thai people do.

This is what Thai guys are like in Thailand it's probably bad to group all guys together but honestly the majority are like this and I wouldn't trust my girls around any of them after the shit I've seen them pull it's no wonder I have no Thai guy friends. I had a Thai mate when I was young in Australia he was a good guy I've known some good Thai guys in America but in Thailand Nudda!

How about this one, I had a Thai mate ey he was cool we'd party and hang out together I knew his girlfriend because she was my girlfriends best friend. Anyway so I take this girl out for dinner yeah and ran into him, I was a little worried but he assures me he's not going to say anything right. Wrong, he blabs to his girlfriend that he saw me with another girl get's back to my girlfriend and causes a problem. Needless to say we're no longer mates.

Whenever you hear a Thai girl say that Thai guys are no good well you know some reasons now. I know there are a lot of Thai guys that follow this blog as well and writing this story is probably going to get more than a few hate mails but look at the deep truth here and ask yourself why i'm standoffish towards Thai guys.

Maybe I've got more respect for other guys than most I don't know but if I saw a girl already with another guy I just wouldn't even go there. Plenty of other girls out there I don't need to fuck around with someone else girl you know. I know some Farang who do this though it's very small number and not really intended but for Thai guys it's endemic.

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. He has lived here for over 10 years and speaks reads and writes very good Thai.

32 Responses to Thai Guys don’t respect you!

  1. jack October 18, 2012 at 9:49 am #

    fickle dogs indeed short sheet you soon as they look at ya

  2. jack October 18, 2012 at 9:58 am #

    and yes your thai girl will have a thai guy somewhere lurkin in the background

  3. american October 18, 2012 at 12:55 pm #

    I love the fact that you are complaining about a trait that is the very same one that allows you to bang so many thai chicks. Look the Thai guys “allegedly” cheat a lot. Whethere it is more than in the west, who know but anecdotally maybe. So, obviously they gotta find the girls somewhere rights? 7 11, tesco, wherever. So, this philandering that isn’t liked by the Thai girls of course is what essentially gets many of them to look at a farang in the first place.

    My mate sometimes complains about some of the non-western negative traits of TGs. I simply explain to him those are the very same traits that allow 55 year old chubby bald dudes to bang on them 3 times a day for bus money back home. If they didn’t have those traits, then they wouldn’t need us right? Well maybe not that cut and dry but you get my point.

    My suggestion is to just treat the girl nicer than any thai guy has and if she gets tired of her, just get a new one. If possible, try to keep the relationship simple. And for gods sake if you ask her if she wants to go get noodles, take her instead of just bone’n her, thats the same crap thai guys pull, or expect the girl to pay, and this is why some go back to thai guys.

    You will never be as good as a (all things being equal) thai guy. The taller, lighter skinned, and well off she is, the harder it will be to keep her. She’d rather have a light skinned rich thai guy but she’ll settle for a farang 10+ years older, balding, 15kg over weight and speaks pigeon thai, because he can take care of her better, but she’ll always be attracted to hot thai guys.

  4. คลิฟ October 18, 2012 at 1:03 pm #

    Correct – obviously, Thais in general don’t respect farangs! 🙁

  5. Popeye October 18, 2012 at 1:16 pm #

    Thai men have small penises so they have to try harder. Lower confidence and jealousy for the white man.

    • Popyoureye June 15, 2014 at 7:58 pm #

      excuse me … i don’t really need to jealous to white men at all and don’t try to judge all Thai guys I am the one who dont jealous at white ppl so u don’t say , or u can try to say in front of thai guys u might get kick at the neck 😀

  6. CoCo Channel October 18, 2012 at 5:25 pm #

    But the Thai guys do this to other Thai Guys too so what would you expect ? I guess I do not really want to know what goes on when I am not around , and I am sure she does not want to know either !


  7. TylerB October 18, 2012 at 8:06 pm #

    Don’t fool yourself,lots of farang guys do the same. And I have no time for these idiots.

    • shyguy October 19, 2012 at 11:40 am #

      I agree with you TylerB.

      I would not trust my Thai girl around any farang either for that matter. Farangs are hardly more “innocent” than Thai guys in constantly hitting on every little Thai girl walking about the place. Even to the point of propositioning Thai girls that have nothing to do with the redlight districts.

  8. Jesi October 19, 2012 at 3:37 am #

    erm, the fact that you came from australia and been to america, your article didn’t make sense at all.

    I am not Thai, but just my opinion, before you diss people learn how to use proper clauses, tenses and punctuation marks. this really confused me.

    • Chris October 19, 2012 at 10:13 am #

      Another Thai Visa idiot.

      • Buttercup October 19, 2012 at 12:35 pm #

        Well, at least now you could ask M. Schwartz to edit your posts before you publish them 😛

    • Yra October 19, 2012 at 12:53 pm #

      Jesi, you blame Chris for his English but yours is not better, you should shut up.

  9. ChiangMaiGuy October 19, 2012 at 7:43 am #

    yup that’s about it – can’t trust Thais anyway for a variety of reasons but mostly because they do not value honesty, telling the truth or ‘doing the right thing’ they just don’t value those things as much as farang

    • Brian Sumpter October 19, 2012 at 4:42 pm #

      The Thais (AND Farang) that just want to get drunk and screw all the time are like that. Normal people, not so much. lolol!

  10. jim October 19, 2012 at 11:20 am #

    I agree; very bad English. Were you drunk? Or was your ghost writer on a visa run?
    And I’m not from TV.

    • Chris October 19, 2012 at 11:24 am #

      There are no ghost writers on this blog Jim!

      • Just me December 23, 2012 at 4:14 pm #

        Maybe you should get one. Or at least get an editor who will proof read for you? The spelling and grammar errors can be very distracting from your misogynistic and racist rants Chris.

        I will agree with you though that you cannot (in general) trust Thai guys. I can think of one exception, but he might still do or say something stupid, so he really can’t be counted until I am dead. Do you think other Thai guys can trust their Thai friends?

        • Chris December 23, 2012 at 11:17 pm #

          That’s a great question do Thai guys trust other Thai guys, I’d say NO.

  11. Milbrath October 19, 2012 at 11:24 am #

    The other side to that coin is, most of us have zero respect for Thai boys. I call them “boys” because they are exactly that regardless of their age.

    I could care less what any Thai boy thinks of me or who’s number he tries to get, because I do the exact same thing when I see a hot Thai girl with her Thai boyfriend.

    You can’t respect people who do not respect themselves. There is a reason they are exploited in every capacity, from labor to sex, and even by their own people.

  12. Tim Case October 19, 2012 at 3:30 pm #

    Who cares what Thai guys are doing? Who cares what any other guy is doing? What’s with all the player hating butt hurt? Just because a guy and a girl are in proximity doesn’t mean they are together. It’s always game on in Thailand or anywhere else. Trust that no matter where you are, Thailand, Australia, or the United States, unless your girl is fugly she is being hit on a thousand times a day. Trust that she’s getting out of this world offers from guys that are richer and better looking than you. That’s part and parcel with dating hot chicks. Same deal goes in reverse. If chicks see you with a hot chick they will be on top of you like white on rice, it’s human nature and not just a Thai thing. Don’t be one of those guys who gets cheated on and then thinks that it was the other guy that did you wrong. It wasn’t the other guy that did you wrong, it was your girl.

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    • Chris October 19, 2012 at 3:48 pm #

      I agree with you totally it’s 100% the girl but your still a lowlife if your fuck around with someone elses chick at least knowingly you know. Me I’d rather avoid any problems remember this is Thailand do that shit here and you can get seriously hurt so I’ve laid down my own rules to avoid any problems.

  13. Blonk October 20, 2012 at 2:20 pm #

    Wow….. Look; an argument on an internet forum about girls… !
    Who would have thought..!!

  14. Jake October 20, 2012 at 5:42 pm #

    I didn’t see a whole lot of farangs in Thailand that I’d respect, either. You know it’s true, Chris! All that doesn’t happen because the mystical gods of respect weren’t kind to the bald, overweight, smelly, sweaty white dudes with zero game.

    • Chris October 20, 2012 at 8:21 pm #

      I’d hate to agree with you even though I’m overweight bald but I do have more than enough game! Lots of farang here I just don’t want to know.

  15. Fluke October 21, 2012 at 1:17 pm #

    If a friend saw your Girl out with another guy , would you expect them to tell you or keep it a secret from you?

    • Chris October 22, 2012 at 10:44 am #

      A good friend would tell me.

  16. Daniel October 21, 2012 at 2:53 pm #

    It’s just the nature of any man who is jealous of the woman you have or does not understand why she is with you. In their minds you have not only taken the girl they want, but you also did not earn her. Depending on her social economic status it is also not hard for them to paint the girl with the “she dates farang for money but will happily take a Thai boyfriend while that idiot is still sending money” brush.

    Chris, I’m guessing that you spend a lot of time with fair skin girls a.k.a. a Thai guys wet dream. That kind of thing is bound to piss them off far more than some guy dating a chick who is pretty much an untouchable in their eyes.

  17. Jeff October 27, 2012 at 5:25 pm #

    I totally agree with what ChiangMaiGuy wrote. I’ve lived here only 3 years but wholeheartedly do NOT trust Thais because as CMG said, they don’t value the meaning of honesty at all.
    Virtually all the guys I see in the public eye seem to be nothing more than jokers with not much class at all…and they don’t care either. It’s not important if they do the right thing or tell the truth. It’s simply whatever they feel like.

    • Andrew September 4, 2013 at 5:05 pm #

      You complain about the thai guys going after girls, and pretend to be some sort of representative or good morality. Yet half of this site is about how to trick and lie to girls to have sex with you. You’re a bad joke, Chris, seriously do you think you represent morality. No way dude, you’re a cunt, sociopath, and then you have the nerve to complain about thai man who aren’t half as bad as you. What a fucking joke !

      • Chris September 5, 2013 at 11:02 am #

        I represent me. I have not time for what you may think of me. I’m pretty complicated too. Like if your wife asked me to fuck her i’d turn her down not because she’s but ugly but because I just don’t fuck around with other peoples girls. But if you do I don’t care to judge you. This story is factual that’s all that matters.

      • Tom December 11, 2014 at 5:38 am #

        Andrew. I feel the same.

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