Why do Thai girls like Farang guys?
Are Thai girls really interested in Farang guys or are they really only interested in what a Farang can provide financially. Ask a bar girl why she wants a farang and she'll tell you straight out so that he can "take care of her" typically this means financially. I don't doubt that Thai girls are attracted to Farang guys, no offence to Thai guys but if I was a girl i'd be more interested in a farang as well.
But is it possible for a Thai girl to love a Farang for more than financial means? Not sure, most of the successful relationships I've seen in Thailand well the guy already has a lot of money and it lasts because he didn't run out of money so it's a bit hard to make a concensus there.
Even though if I was a Thai guy I wouldn't be attracted to a Thai guy physically but if I was a Thai girl I'd wanna hook up with a rich Thai dude before I'd hook up with a Farang and if you look that's what happens anyway. Most of the good looking Thai girls are usually hooked up with some rich hiso Thai dude anyway and it's typically the poorer darker girls who can't bag themselves a rich Thai guy because well she ain't his cup of tea anyway. So are farang getting the shit end of the stick?
My thoughts are that Thai girls want a farang guy because she beleives he will take care of her and will be faithful. Maybe I just roll around in the majority circle cause most guys I know who come to Thailand were faithful back home but with the variety and choice in Thailand they change they become sex fiends and one is never enough although we all keep one girl around we like, sometimes 2 or three 😉
Do Thai girls really like farang or is it all BS and they are just after someone to take care of them. Even the more prettier girls who have some money I've been told by them that they want some guy to take care of them give them 20-30,000 a month so they don't have to work. Damn I think that's a crap idea, I mean how on earth am I going to screw around on her if she's at home all the time, maybe the question is why do Farang like Thai girls?
So let me know your thoughts as to why Thai girls like farang in the comments section below.
No comments yet? hmmm. I know the article is pretty spartan but no comments. Well anyway… I hear 20k all the time.
I met a nice girl from up north, lighter skin, tall, skinny etc. she worked a couple weeks in a hotel and then about a month with a friend in a gentlemans club. talked with an older friend of hers, suggested I’d be like my friend and his TG for 10k a month. After she mentioned she wanted to be my TG 3 or 4 times, asked her friend that speaks better english how much…. I understood about 75% of the thai conversation and pretty much the older more wise and known friend basically told her about 3 times in the conversation “Song Mueng”. 20k. I hear this number repeated and repeated over and over. but people I know that have this arraingment generally only do 8-12k. Anyway, the older friend said, “20 thousand baht, you can do?” I said no and smiled. then 10 min later, I said goodbyes to everyone and left.
crazy. girl makes maybe 8-9k baht a month now. pays for a room with 3 other roomates and food. which she says in total is 3k baht. So she has 6k baht left to send home or whatever. And 10k baht isn’t enough (as compared to her 6k?) and she doesn’t have to work 12 hour days 28 days a month? hmmmm
but you can’t argue math, that just isn’t logical 😉
I would assume that girls who work in the bars like Farangs for their money.
I think that “good Thai girls” see us as a novelty. It’s not so much that they love us, but are “in love with being in love”. Do they even like us? Sure…but we fall somewhere behind her next meal and cute cartoon characters (Hello Kitty, Winnie The Pooh, Doremon et al) We are just another small shiny object that draw their attention. Too bad they all seem to have ADD (Attention deficit disorder).
We get the leftovers, no doubt there. But I must ask…
With the plethora of choice (pussy buffet), why eat the same dish every day? Leave that back in your own country where choice is limited based on the rule of woman.
Keep a 2 day rule in Thailand and enjoy the buffet. Burp.
To use your same analogy I’d say I have my favourite foods that I eat all the time 🙂
My impression is that so many men here at the blog like to brag about that they need/like to be with so MANY girls as possible. Maybe it was too few girls earlier in the home country compared to real players there? They felt they wasn´t good enough before? They like to look at them self as playboy/player, who give themselves a ego boost. I´ve been rich/attractive/running a prestige business fore some years ago and was a big player (the prestige attract girls) and I don´t think it´s anything to brag about. It´s more of a challenge to work for intimacy, a good relationship with one girl who you can have sex with 24/7 and develop your/her sex skills constantly. Why spend dead time for chasing when you loose a lot of good sex? Usually you can´t do EVERYTHING with a girl you haven´t been with for a short time, if you are a experienced, advanced sex maniac. So brag about amount of girls is nothing compare to brag about your advance sex life. If you must brag. As Chris says over: I have my favorite food that I eat all the time, instead of tasting food I dont´t like.
My sentiments echoed maximus, i’m not saying I was the player of the year back home(U.K). But I was in the Music Biz in my younger days, not ugly, short, bald or fat, so I took full advantage of the whole sex and drugs and Rock’n’Roll thing. I’m a bit older now and live around half my life in the land of Thai, which will be full time soon. I’ve had the same Thai lady for a long time now; she is liberated and happy to experiment, as we feel comfortable and safe with each other. The sex keeps getting better and better and more and more fun, and that makes us closer in so many other ways. i also think that once you really click with a great Thai woman, like I’ve been lucky enough to do, they can be so much more open and free about sex than us sometimes repressed conservative Brits. She has taught me as much as I’ve taught her, perhaps more, and getting to know her body and make her happy in bed has been a source of great joy.
I sure don’t want to lick any Thai Prostitutes’ pussies Wouldn’t that be like licking a public toilet and that is free. A prostitute suppose to give men pleasure and if a men want to give pleasure to a prostitute men he wants to get the prostitute as a girlfriend or a wife. Kind of gross to think of licking a stinky pussies that countless men had entered. i sure don’t want to marry a prostitute. It is a low class person would do that. Prostitutes in most countries in the world is on the bottom of the barrell. i read there is only 5% of men in the united states that will lick prostitutes pussies to give them pleasure and they are ones with severe mental issues and they are often a narcissistic behavior disorder person.
Hi Chris,interesting website-do you you have any link references to similar info sites (hotels,clubs to hit,cool lounges places up etc) for Japan + Taiwan or other countries?
not at this time no sorry dude.
It’s true there is more eye candy in Thailand but who says there wasn’t two, three or more girlfriends on the go, apart from the wife, back home? I think it’s too easy to forget that women back home are just as hungry for sex/love/appreciation whatever as women here 🙂
I agree with you there, however the girls in Thailand on average have a better slimmer body but that too could depend upon where you live.
You nailed it on the head. The weather here is hot and humid which lends better to getting wet in bed. If I get wet easier here, then Thai women get horny more easy. If her skin looks healthy, the Thai girl is probably healthy and gets horny easily. When I see a farang, who manages to buy a ticket, to fly here, you assumes has money, and IQ greater than an African which is 70. Most farang I meet, are or were professionals now retired. We assume they have some money. Then the news media tells us about the stupid farang who builds a house with Thai girl whose relatives throws him on the street to die. A Canadian wife will do the same. Don’t have a girlfriend if you expect perfect. Do not buy a house which you can never own. Do not date poor Thai girl who does not have a job unless you have endless, bank account.
In other words, women everywhere are the same – animals… 555
Your mother too
One girl hit me up on ThaiFriendly (as many do), she was mid – late 20’s, married to a farang, quite good looking and sexy, bored, said looking for “friends.” (I suspect he may have been out at work all day).
She had met him whilst she was at college and never worked or had a job, ever, just totally relied on her husband for every baht. I pointed out that she might gain more of a sense of self worth if she worked at least part time and would meet new friends. Not have to hold her hand out to him for every baht. I asked her, should they split up, how she would expect to get a job having no work place experience?
Never replied again LOL.
difference culture, difference thinking way
I dont care what other think, they may think all or most of us “bad, just for money and sex”
i’m a thai girl, i never do what ur guy thought
for sure that i would love one farang guy, cuz when have baby together so cute. however, this is not only the reason to marry farang guy. the important reason i marry and look for one guy is love and understand each other and share our life together.
But most farang just play for fun cuz they have money to pay….
if all farang guy are like this, why i have to love and marry with him… (Thai guy might be better in this case…..) 5555++
It is hard to meet the right one with a good heart and true love….
You talk just like my girlfriend. You want a farang so you can have a cute baby…even her Mum and aunty want her to have a half-farang, half-Thai baby because the baby would be “cute”. It’s fashion now …
Oh, thank you for telling that there are good, honest thai girls who´s looking for real love! We are many farangs who look for the same because westerns is too selfish in relationships who complain and nagging all the time. It´s so easy to get sex with westerns, so why go all the way and pay in Thailand when you can get it for free easily home? It´s the good thai girls values who attract ME to find a nice, honest good looking thai girl. You can´t find this values in the west. Again, thank you for telling this!
I met a girl who worked in Gogo bar. I took her out that night and a few days later for the whole day. She was so sweet loving and affectionate and I didn’t have sex with her. Was she just after my money to give her a nice time or was she really into me. Very living and affectionate. What’s your thoughts?
You are sooo right ….(y)
I agreed with you dude no doubted. All guys you just can’t say things out about Thai ladies without your responsibility. Ofcourse the ladies you hit with whatever of the datesite might hunting you for a better life. they had not much choices to choose, there are several needs such as her family in her hometown, her children etc, but if you don’t want to support those of them then, just don’t go and find out a bar ladies for long term/marriage. You know what an educated ladies think? they won’t attracted someone who always believe money can buy everything not me dear. Well educated will always find only someone who her selected and he’s the best, she will check and make sure he’s really exactly right of the person she will put her rest of life with.
Hello Chris I am a farang that can speak fluent Thai like you (possibly more.) I was wondering if you have had any encounters with Thai girls that are still virgins and would like to know where to find them, as I am interested in a serious relationship/marriage but do not want to settle down with a bar girl or a girl that has been around the block.
I’ll have a post about this soon so stay tuned.
Hey, did you make a post yet about the virgins or at least a good thai girl? if so, can you link it.
Yeah try this post: Virgins in Pattaya
Why does she need to be a virgin? Are you to jealous about her past? Or is it religious matters? Just curious.
And I would like to know if he wants a real virgin or a gril who has been around the block but had her hymen restored by undergoing surgery?
i’m a thai girl who’d like to take a serious relarionship with farang guy, but most farang boys in thai are just having fun and paying for sex… 🙁 so bad.
That’s true, most men around the world are like that, and dare i say it, women too.
and your skin is tanned, dark, light brown at maximum, not at all very bright skin. super light skinned thai girls never walk with farang or western men.
super light skin Thai girls aren’t really indigeous Thai. REal thai have super dark skin Light skin come from the North (vietnam and china) The orginal vietnamese are the same people of Thailand = dark skin negritos.
The people of Namyue from modern day china migrated to what is called vietnam today and stole land from the dark skin people. Many had intermarried with them creating some beautiful looking people………..
Southeast asians are usually dark skin and flat noses. Dark skin to protect from the hot sun and flat noses are better for breathing in hot weather. That goes for Africa. Many light skin Thai girls have white blood in them and also either vietnamese or blood from ethnic groups of China
I’m a white American. Impersonal sex just makes me feel lonely.
I live in the north and Thailand and have lived among Thai people for a long time. I speak the language enough to be considered “one of them”, at least that is what I think. From what I have seen there are a lot of thai girls looking for marring a farang for the money. Marring a farang is cultrurly considered a bad choice. The most thai guys knows that these thai girls with farang husband are former hookers, and many of these girls want to flee the contry for this reason. There are thou also alot of wealthy thai women marring young farang boys. The thing is, if you are an old man who cannot find a woman in your own country and decides to try your luck in Thailand you are most likely going to hook up with a hooker. If you like me is working in Thailand and living among thai your are likely to meet a nice girl. Depending on which group you belong to, you will have a very different relationship and be treated very differently.
I can´t see the problem about girls who´s looking for a safe future about money. It´s possible to find love AND money at the same time. I want a girl who´s smart enough to think about her future and not live in fantasyland where they think only love “put food an the table”. Why do WE try to get a good payed job in the west? It´s to have a good future!
What is their options? Living in poverty? It´s so easy to judge for westerns who have the welfare security system to live on. Shame on all of you who judge and talk shit about these girls who´s struggling in their daily life, day by day to have a life. What would YOU do if you was in their situation? Not thinking about money too, beside love? Many of you are to suspicious about that they only go for your money, and maybe it´s bcd you only look for good sex and aren´t able to build a good relationship? Well, try harder so maybe you can find love too!
it’s likely true. please admit the fact that western men are not the type wanted by the majority of thai women who do not think western men are any sexy. just a minority of women from here want you and they are all ugy in thais’ eyes (dark, supershort, fat). western men do not have a lot of choices in thailand so tend to get trash women from here. many of women from here who have married western men also have thai secret husbands and haved ask money from their western men counterparts and given it to their secret thai husbands behind the western men. please admit that fact that western men are the least wanted in other world, that’s natural.
white man call southeast asian women(especially philippinas and Thai women) dark skin fucking machines. They like slender short tiny bodies where they can do all kinds of kinky sex with them. These white men are very trashy and think of southeast asian women as a piece of meat. They paid for you and as soon as they get tire of you they leave and go elsewhere Don’t trust them. They are not good husbands. Thai women wanted to get out of proverty is the ones that willing to married an old white men for money. If it wasn’t for money I don’t think there are that many Thai women not wanting to marry back a Thai men. Most of the Thai women don’t even speak or understand english well. The farrang and Thai woman will have communication problems. And on top of that they probably don’t have any common interest and the only interest from the white men’s head is “fucking her pussy”. This is the biggest problem with white men and asian women relationships in Southeast Asia.. White men have no common interest/chemisty with their wives and eventually the relationship falls apart. The white evil bastard will leave the Thai wife and move elsewhere for a fresh start.
soorry, i am a thai girl and never want to date any western man. i work as a translator at an international company. a lot of my female thai friends even have told me that i am a cute looking thai, but i am never attracted to any one of male westerners walking in thai streets. at my office, there are a lot of farang workers (male and female westerners), but i am never attracted to any one of male westerners because of their strange body. Be careful, even though there are thai girls marrying farang or western men, they are just a minority. finally, i hope you can find a love in your life, especially with your western girl.
Freedom of choice! Not all people are the same. We all have our personal choice.
I am a European guy (with a Master degree). I am not into Western overweight women, but into Asian.
My Thai wife (she also holds a Master degree) married me because she said it is hard to find a good Thai guy. And that one would not be lazy, and hold at least a Master degree (or Ph.D.).
thai girls some goods some beautifuls some sexys some honests. lot freakys lot playa lot jerks lot user…(i love relationship with ( 1 ) person asian woman honest smart cute funny single
I like farang and I have farang bf, yeah I know many Thai girls want to have farang bf becoz of money, but not all. I never ask bf for money or ask him to pay for my family, my family not poor, we have very big hardware shop. So I love him cozy he’s good and love me. Not about money and he’s not rich.
I am a rich thai woman and this is my opinion “why thai girls like farang?”.
I am the one who interests in farang guy , I like farangs’ personality. He looks smart and clean but the important reason for me is farang usually has one love and honesty with
his wife (I may be wrong lol) and thai men are usually habitually drunk ,gallant and less
responsibility ,never help to do housework even though we both work at the office.
So, don’t judge all thai girls like your money, money is not everything but may be true for some thai girl such as a bar girl who need your financial support but the same time she
needs your true love ,good take care and honesty from her man.
BTW, no matter where woman from come? , she need your true love much more than your money.
According to Why do Thai girls like Farang guys?
There’re good and bad things everywhere. It depends on which one you pick up. Frankly, I feel bad when I heard about Thai women and money. Yes, some of them may be a gold digger but some not. Well, I don’t know why you guys still expect to find good women who you met in a bar. I don’t actually mean women who go to the party are bad but can you imagine that those Thai women who go there every night…being a hardcore drinker, dance like no one cares, the way she dresses. Especially how do they talk to you. I’m sure you smart enough to separate what kind of that person is.
I’m a Thai brown skin girl.
so for me i like farang guys cause they are just my type !! clear now ? 😀 hehe
but i am a thai girl of a super bright light skin. i do not like farang or western men who are very unattractive like fat crocodiles. i really want to have sex with chinese.
Farrangs come to Thailand for pussies only . ONly the old white men that have mental issues and money problems will come to Thailand for a wife.
In united States women are educated and pretty. White men cannot control them, so they come to Thailand to buy a prostitute wife. . If you don’t obey them, they go and buy another prostitute wife or they just leave you and go elsewhere in the world.
I like me a white, Western woman, physically. Thats where it ends. I am not attracted to confident, independent, opinionated type of women.
Angry feminists will try to shame men by saying “you just can’t handle a woman like that.” LOL, call it what you want. Simply not attracted to it. Relationships are not meant to be a challenge, where you should ‘handle’ her.
foreigners in thailand who are popular among thai teenagers are korean, japanese,sth chinese, not farang caucasians.
i’m a thai woman who knows english because my career is a translator of English-Thai.
Reading this page made me laugh. And it reinforced what I’ve always thought: the farang who hook up with Thai women are the dregs of Western society. Most come here to score, have no idea how to relate to women, and are nomadic heart-breakers and users. What a sad bunch.
Exodus – you are really so wrong!
I was married to a air hostess in England who was fit as. When we split I went with a stunning half cast. I also have done fashion shows.I have slept with more woman than I needed to.
I’m older now but still love really attractive woman. I’m not short of money and have offers from English woman. However I prefer Asian woman and culture. Western woman of my own age repulse me. They are power crazy who couldn’t keep the time never mind their bodies.
There are so many woman in the west who marry for money. There is even a tv programme called millionaire mmatchmaker so what’s the difference?????
As a parent I want my daughters to marry someone who can give her a nice life if possible rather than a down and out.
No different to an Asian lady wanting security.
Even prince Charles married a beautiful princess pmsl
There are always exceptions but in my opinion, in this matter, it is rare.
Girlfriends sure, but i only see a few that are still together after 6 months or several years. And also I witnessed that the foreign people that married and still stay together, always have a good job / a good amount of money (the girls / wifes always tell me it is not about the money but real love, but i honestly don’t buy it and the foreign boyfriends and husbands admit and know that, they might just deny it)
I think that it is more about the cultural difference, lack of same hobbies and interests with the good Thai girls and language barrier.
Many times the honest, genuine and good ones simply don’t speak English at all or just a little bit. After the honeymoon period is over, conversations have to be about more than ”how is the weather” / ”gin arai / aroi mai” and ”do u want to eat/drink something” / ”lets go see a movie / lets go to the park”.
Also a lot of the good ones live in areas were foreign people are not living or hanging out.
Yes,most Thai woman really like farang because they believe that farang guys have a lot of money.i have a neighbor ,she got married with a Thai guy.at the same time she had a farang boy.when the farang go back to his country to work.his Thai lady still connecting with his husband.this habit is so bad.they are use farang as their instrument to feed their hungry mouth.
since when? ha ha. thai women with farang or western men are very ugly and have the following key features:
1. superdark, african face that we consider very ugly and that thai men do not want
2. still just light brown at the maximum with african face that we still consider very ugly that thai men do not want
3. already fucked girls or divorced women
4. broken heart women who are physically ugly dark and supershort.
5. uneducated women
6. bar girls, not normal girls.
I married a Thai girl I c can almost gauruntee she will be more beautiful than you. Yes she is short but is absolutely stunning. She moved away from her family and lives with me in the UK.
She lived in Thailand for 3 years while we waited for a visa. She never asked me for a penny. I think if you went with a farang you would never go back to an Asian man.
Thai woman are obsessed with looking like a western woman with pale skin. I personally tell my wife to stay tanned as my preference is dark
LOL Thai girls …. have pretty lil racist minds , act smart but stupid.
Farang like Thai girl for sex so Thai girl like farang for money it’s it fear enough no??? U will let farang fuck u for free ? No !!!! Me who r the one not do that becoz u r not my fucking bf.
I think no matter what a Thai girl want at least most Farangs come to Thailand with troubled minds and want relief from it , we should appreciate these girls who actually take care of men who have a damaged past and have nothing to go back too, at least there may be a better future or us if we are less judgemental and live rest of our lives without complaining even if we feel we are being used , look at the bright side we could find some happiness for rest of our lives if we make some changes like living Thai style as the saying goes Do what the romans do
What you described it’s not just related to thai girls only,but instead it looks like every girls in this world behave like that,money comes first always,wouldn’t you guys take care of your girl if she was american,european or somewhere else as well?
Honestly,in 6 months i had more than 30 girls and just paid a couple for fun,the rest came with me because they liked me,and,at least they’re very respectful and caring people,much better and less paranoid than american or EU girls.
God bless Thailand!
why they are very ugly in thais’ eyes. foreign men who are very popular among thai teenagers are east asian men. stop being jealous of china, japan, korea. i am a real thai girl. western men are all ugly monsters.
That is a bit harsh Tuk
Hey tuk , finally I’ve found one Thai girl who gained my respect !! I though most Thai girls date western man haha , btw I’m Chinese , most pretty +classy valued Chinese women don’t date white guys ! Same come to hot white guys don’t date Asian women !!
Not true In United States an educated woman will not think of money first. They like a quality man that is intelligent, kind, honest, and have respect for her. THe educated woman usually can earn money on her own.
Women that loves money first are not very intelligent. They married a rich guy and the rich guy usually cheat on her with prostitutes and mistresses. Men are men .When they have money they play.
Women who are super poor are the most greedy They are usually have uneducated and come from a very poor country. They think money grow on tress and that their beauty will keep a man forever…….. Branless……..
white men especially the older ones 50 plus are loosers. They have mental issues and are uable to get a women in the western world, so they go to Thailand for a prostitute wife. They are usually very sleazy and have poor hygiene. This is the reason why western women rejected them and they go and pay for cheap pussies in Thailand.
Good Thai women will not have sex with these sleazy white men. The light skin Thai women seldom interested in white men. Some may have white blood in them, but they are interested in Thai men. Thai men are better looking to them. They don’t age like white men. White men in their 50’s look like grandpas (lots of wrinkles) . Thai men in their 50’s don’t have wrinkles and some looks like they are in their 30’s. Thai men do not have stinky body odor I am white and I do have that smell. I am marry to a white lady and she doesn’t mind about my body odor. I do not mind about her having to shave her hair legs. Asian women don’t have hair on their limbs, but white women do. Oh, well.
” I am white and I do have that smell. I am marry to a white lady and she doesn’t mind about my body odor.”
That was hilarious. Thanks for the nonsense, and the laugh. By the way, your English isn’t even good enough for you to pass an uneducated Westerner.
Nice try, though.
I have traveled to/lived in, 70+ countries, and it’s the same in nearly every country. The highest valued women will not go with Western guys, as there is usually a slight stigma attached to it.
They are cherry picked by the HiSo guys in their country, and we are left with the 8’s and 9’s.
I haven’t been to Thailand but had a Korean girl a few years ago.
She never did like living in America. If I could have stayed in Korea it would have been different but I was transferred stateside,
Her daddy asked her to come home and she did…..It turned out he had found a husband for her. So I moved on.
You don’t sound sad or wistful, so I guess splitting up was for the best.
I’m a Thai girl and I don’t want money from any guy. and yeah it will be better if someone we’ll treat me well. my mom found a guy whoever can take care of me all of my life. but I like Farang, can’t help maybe cuz of i addicted about English. Movies music blah blah I just feel like they are more attractive than Thai guys. =_=
Poppy: So you think that when you find a farang of your own that your Mum’s guy will continue to support you?
thanks poppy for the most retarded comment ever on this site.
Everybody in this world are humans. Humans should not insult humans. Humans should make good mind for this beautiful world. Only respect the other human because nobody perfect in this world. Good think . Good speak and do good things Please.Because The end of life is die. What thing that people put before died? Insult the other? Shhhhh. What is meaning of your life? Insult the other people or respect the other people. I will choice respect the other . If you can respect the other it means you can respect yourself too. Because that is good things that human should do before die. Everybody don’t know die time please make this life for good things and good idea please.
The average 20+ Thai girl is expected to support her family. She can either go to work for 20K Bhat a month, become a hooker (“bar girl”), or find a Farang, hoping he will be fool enough to fall in love with her. Once it succeeds, she has to worry less about money. So 1,2,3,4 Farangs, at some point she hopes that to happen. Thailand is where a single western man can have a young, good-looking ladies look for him constantly, sex is easy… I think there’s a noticeable difference of how sex is received in the Asian vs Western world. Asian’s are more open-minded about it and do not connect sex with sin or women abuse. Many girls would go with a Farang even just for fun. So basically, a win-win situation.
I don’t think Western girls are much different. Most do look for some support for their men.