Are Ladyboys and Toms Gay?
Ladyboys have been a fashion in Thailand forever and an emerging trend in Toms (the Ladyboy equivalent for when a girl dresses and acts like a boy) the question in my mind is “are Ladyboys and Toms gay or are they straight?”.
If I ask a Thai person is a Ladyboy gay they typically say no. They are a girl. Maybe it’s the definition of what gay is. Gay is when a man and a man get together right. Well a Ladyboy is acting like a girl so it’s not gay. Same goes for a Tom to Thai people. The Tom is acting like a boy so she is not a lesbian nor is the Dee she isn’t a lesbian because she only likes Tom and Toms are just like guys therefore they arn’t a lesbian.
Me I don’t exactly think the same as Thai people do. In my opinion it’s like the ladyboy is still a guy I don’t care if he’s taken it off whatever you are what you are when you’re born. If you’re a ladyboy or a man who likes a ladyboy then it’s still two men together therefore gay. Same goes for Toms, your a woman dressed up like a guy I don’t care how much tight things you wear to make yourself look like you have no boobs your still a lesbian and still gay.
Now before you guys who love the Ladyboys before you start throwing rocks at me let me explain that this is just how I view I’ve asked hundreds of people this question already and everyone has a different take and I think that’s cool I mean if your with your ladyboy cuddling your Ladyboy and you make yourself believe she’s really a woman then that’s awesome dude, I kinda do the same thing, but instead of picturing a man dressed up as a lady I imagine Um Patchara.
I’ll be the first to admit that some Ladyboys are pretty convincing more so than the Toms. It’s actually a bad rap if your a Tom because basically your too ugly to be a woman. But for a Ladyboy you could still be a pretty good looking guy And for the guys that love these pretty boys and the girls that love the ugly girls are they gay?
When I asked one guy he said to me “You can’t be a straight man if you like Ladyboys”. Do you think that’s true? Is a straight man really a straight man if he likes Ladyboys can you still be straight if you like Ladyboys?
You know I have my own opinion but doesn’t mean I’m right so if you think I’m wrong, agree, or maybe have another take on whether Ladyboys and toms are gay let me know in the comments section below.