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Thai Girlfriend Scam

Lots of guys seem to fall for this scam even a dozen guys I know read this blog are getting scammed right now. If your sending money to your Thai girlfriend this article is not to be missed! The Thai girlfriend scam is not exactly unique to Thailand but Thai women seem to either by themselves or in groups figured out how to get guys to send them crazy amounts of money for doing absolutely nothing.

The following video you'll see a Thai girl who runs the scam and you'll be as amazed at I am that anyone would even send her a dime. Girls like this don't really annoy me it's the guys that send the money that really gets to me. As the girl in this video explains the guys send her money so she doesn't have to work in a bar, but the likelihood that she even worked in a bar is pretty low in the first place.

Thai girls like this are cunning, manipulative, and are worse than whores. In fact whores are probably a whole level above these girls because they are straight up, pay me have sex and move on. These girls just keep you around until you stop giving them money. Believe me if you aren't with the girl all the time and your sending her money she's going to be playing the same game with a dozen other guys all the same looking for new prey.

There are a lot of lonely guys in Thailand and I get that, like in this video one of her victoms is 65 while she is 25. Hey if i'm 65 I can totally get that but damn guys unless she's right there taking care of you and polishing your knob at your beck and call then don't send her 40k a month! Are you stupid?

I'm fine with finding Thai girls to sponsor,  and pay a monthly fee obviously university students are cheaper because their expectations are lower but girls over 25 I find to be more demanding and sneakier like the bitch in the video but younger girls can be just as cunning so really you have to be just as smart and sending a girl thousands of dollars a month that isn't there to take care of you is not smart!

You ever get caught up in this scam before or know someone who has please let us know what you think or how it happened in the comments below.

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19 Responses to Thai Girlfriend Scam

  1. valdi June 3, 2014 at 4:38 pm #

    Scam City BKK

  2. Mr Hoy June 3, 2014 at 5:38 pm #

    Happens all the time when you get the girls confidence or they remotely like you, they open up and tell you so much about what they get upto.

    The most blatant experience of this I have ever seen.
    I was with this girl in Ptty I’m doggying her one of the boyfriends ( had two handing over 60k a month total ) she telling him how much she loves him misses him he only man for her, he says why are you breathing so heavy and panting ?? she replies ” I’m in the rice field hard work very hot ”
    He says ok take care I speak again next week.

    At first I felt sorry for this bloke thinking I would have loved to tell him what is really going on, but then thought if he is that stupid I doubt he’d believe me anyway he’ll have to find out the hard way.
    Meanwhile I’ll just keep seeing her for free every now and then.

  3. K Spicer June 3, 2014 at 9:45 pm #

    I’ve had (engineering) friends in Thailand for over 30 years. And they tell me “Thai ladies do no sell you pu$$y (hee). They sell you problems and give you the hee. More profit that way”.

    • Chris June 4, 2014 at 12:21 am #

      Best saying I’ve heard yet! Thanks for sharing

  4. White Tiger June 6, 2014 at 11:07 pm #

    Heya Chris,

    this is quite good advice for anyone you meet in ‘tourist Thailand’.

    My girl is middle class Chinese Thai from a very strict traditional family. Has her BA and works 60+ hours per week at a major bank.

    Lived there for 9 months, had a few one month trips, even stayed in the room I helped build as an extension from their family home in Pranburi.

    I know life in BKK is expensive, and a 14.4k salary is a joke there, so I help out. Specially since her Pops had a bad car accident. He used to pay for all the big things, as her salary barely covers the essentials (not to mention she is eldest daughter and has a strong duty towards her 2 siblings)

    Even will all that, I do feel a little crazy for ‘sponsorship’ even though we are engaged. We talk maybe twice a week and those are short emails now lol :/

    Really stuck between: Not wanting to complain, as Thais kinda hate that … ultimatums .. dunno we seem to be so far apart.

    Last time there it seemed she was trying to make stronger commitments, doing a condo pre-sale, promise ring etc. Maybe afraid I had next to nothing to lose if I walked … lol

    Rambling now! You have much wisdom about all things Thai and could use a second opinion. Talked with Stickman a year ago and felt a little better, but time apart always makes me feel this way. 10,000km is so far away

    • Rocky June 11, 2014 at 4:12 am #

      “I know life in BKK is expensive, and a 14.4k salary is a joke there, so I help out.”


      Lots of people live in BKK for WAAAAAY less than 14K USD a year.

      Here’s a food blogger who describes how he loved a year in BKK, with his Thai wife for 7K USD:

      And even if she only made 14.4K THB, so what?

      Part of Life is Living Within Your Means.

      You, sir, are what Psychologists call an “enabler”

      • Chris June 11, 2014 at 12:58 pm #

        Huh what a joke, i’ve seen that blog before and it’s a joke to say you can live on $7000 with a wife in BKK for a year, actualy read the article lots of expenses were left out. How bout you compare it with someone who spends $70,000 a year, completely different. Yes you could do it, anyone could i suppose if you had to but if you chose to your a fool.

      • Matt June 11, 2014 at 9:32 pm #

        Nah she makes 14.4k Baht per month. Her SCB overlords only repay 50+ hour weeks with training opportunities and the odd ‘end of quarter’ bonus

        Studied there for 9 months, so I know the cost of things. I could never hit Tesco without dropping 1300B, Home Pro a hair less.

        Her Toyota costs like 1400 Baht to fill up lol. 3 hrs of commuting from Samut Prakarn daily, plus her one day off is an 8 hr round trip south of Hua Hin (traffic blows hard)

        If I had no air con, and only ate questionable street food and solely used a bus .. maybe I could live for 14.4kB a month.

        That blogger is far from a ‘source of truth’ I do have to say, having a local help you shop and find a place is key. Anything advertised in English is going to be 200-300% the cost, as will be rent without a 6-12mo contract.

        even paying direct to MEA for power I dropped 2-5k a month rofl. That aircon was going 50% of the time … prob 10 years old and out of gas. 10k/month for decent condo in Thana City

        ‘enabling’ is far from accurate. Helping someone who’s duty is to help everyone else in her family, regardless of her personal needs.

        They are very selfless and most Westerners can’t even wrap their heads around duty to grandparents, younger siblings … parents who taken a turn for the worse. Something I love her for 🙂

  5. Mike June 9, 2014 at 5:09 pm #

    Great post Chris. Straight up and honest. Liked the comment about the hee too, accurate.

  6. TylerB June 14, 2014 at 12:34 pm #

    I laughed when girl in the video said she is 25 yrs old.
    90% of Thai women 26 yrs of age and older always say they are 25. I’ve heard it so many times from so many Thai’s woman who are obviously older.

  7. gmp360 June 17, 2014 at 5:42 am #

    I’m always amazed by how ugly the scam girls are. It’s like the guys think “well she’s not attractive, there is no way she could have other boyfriends. I must be the only one”.

    • Mr Hoy June 20, 2014 at 4:52 pm #

      LOL While your right the good lookers get plenty to don’t worry.

  8. Palmer October 9, 2014 at 7:13 am #

    Thai girls want a great life. They just use the weak man to luck the life of them. They know their power is in their beauty and there is always somebody willing to pay. There will always be sponsors paying for visa and marriage. They have no idea about the troubles. Just raising the voice on their wife is enough for the girl to get rid of the “loving” husband, playing a victim of domestic violence and enjoy her new visa status. They can be cold blooded following their dreams.
    The girls never have enough money. Just do not marry them. Renting them a unit for daily service is much better. Sponsoring their boobs implant is also more cost effective than marriage.
    Yeah, I found the ‘business’ type of relationship with my Kati in Australia worked just fine. She was always coming every evening. You do not have to marry a chicken farm if you want a chicken soup.

  9. Michael October 26, 2014 at 12:42 am #

    Gotta say I agree with you. Marrying them is not an option here. Better to sponsor them, get what you want from that, and leave it with that. No strings attached, which is the way it should be 🙂

  10. Bkk rookie November 23, 2014 at 12:39 pm #

    Once I sent my thai lady $1000 to buy a necklace she had been begging me for. Instead of buying the necklace, she bought a cheaper one and used the left over money to buy her parents some stuff they really needed. I found out when the parents thanked me for my gift. There was some deception there, I guess, since my lady told me she wanted the money for one thing but actually wanted it for something else. but I don’t begrudge her for it. A sense of duty and obligation is what motivated her, and I dare say it’s what motivates most of these girls when they take up with a farang. Thai women will almost invariable hit up a farang boyfriend for cash, but they are fundamentally decent in a way that western women almost never are.

  11. Marchie February 3, 2015 at 10:11 pm #

    Thailand is changing all the time, and I think it is not getting better. I have been coming here since 2001. I hear of people being ripped off weekly and everyone thinks it will not happen to them. One has to consider that most Thai women work long hours for a little money but they often have boyfriends and giks (lovers) to help them out. Thai women are also far more than men expected to look after their parents and their parents exploit it to the hilt. They will phone their daughters out of the blue and tell them they need 20000 Baht and not even tell them what it is for. They are under enormous pressure to provide and feel that if they do not they will go to hell for it (their Buddhist beliefs). I have even been watching some pornos where the Thai GF is with the farang guy and Thai gardener comes to fuck his missus, something like that. There is an enormous stigma to date and be married to a farang guy and getting worse. I know one Thai women in Chiang Mai who told me her father had sex with her and she still went to visit him on Songkran New Year to pay respects for him.
    In my experience you should do the following
    1. If she says she is earning 14K a month and drives a car she is talking shit. It is impossible to do it when the car costs 1400 Baht to fill up. She is getting the money from somewhere else – gik, boyfriend, another. You are being scammed and she is lying to you. No one likes a cheap ass but do the maths. She would need at least 15000 to pay for the car per month. If she cannot pay she will do tricks for it, or have a few BFs and giks on the side. I met a woman working at Toyota driving a huge sedan and she wanted 10000 Baht for one night of pleasure. She did not have the heart to ask and asked me to “help her out”. I gave her 500 Baht the next day and she was miffed. The next time I wanted to see her, she said she wanted 10000 Baht.
    2. Always find a GF who is working. I now so many farangs who GFs who are not, and they always land up in shit. Just this last week a friend of mine, his GF is not working and she took his entire month’s pay packet. If they work at 7-11 or at a company make sure they have a job and know the value of money. Just to get it from you, she will never appreciate it.
    3. Nothing is for free in Thailand. You have to pay for it and that includes the pussy. She thinks the same too. Sometimes cheaper to pay for it nightly than think you are going to get it for free.
    4. Find someone decent who has a good temper and will not shake you down for too much.
    5. Rent instead of buying. Whether that is the car or house or Apartment. You never get the money back. When it goes tits up, then move on. You will never get the money back. Agree to an amount up front, maybe 10000 Baht a month. Make sure that includes the sex and she knows that. When the sex stops so does the money. Nothing is for free and no Thai guy would put up with that. If you agree to pay half for the car and another 6000 for the Apartment it should be enough, 30000 or 60000 Baht is over the top and you are being ripped off. If she is not up for that, do not be scared to try and find someone more decent.
    6. Try to get someone with an even temper. If she gets angry easily she does not love you. Thais are taught to keep their emotions under control. A bad tempered Thai is a bad sign and means she does not love you. I promise you on that.
    7. Rent and do not buy. The car, the house, the pussy. When it goes tits up, move on. Unless you can trust her after years. Short tempered Thais are bad news.
    8. Keep your money separate and never let her know how much you have and where you keep it. Consider she rents her apartment and you yours and that way you always have freedom.
    9. Know where she works.
    10. You never get satisfaction through the courts and police, but you can approach them politely if you want to, the police that is and ask them to talk to her. It may help.
    11. Understand her beliefs – Buddhsima and try to learn the language and culture. Farangs are considered to be too direct, outright rude and insensitive. Sometimes it drives us mad they way they drive and wait in line patiently for things, but they are taught to do so. You can screw things up by being too impetuous. Try to be patient if you can and you will be liked. Chill out, go with the flow, have a beer and be a nice guy and you will be more liked.
    12. All the young girls are getting on the game. They have choice of working in a factory or 7-11 for 8000 Baht a month, or finding someone to give them 20K or 30K a month. After years of shitty education where they learnt nothing they go for the line of least resistance of finding someone to finance their lifestyle. The car, the house, the jewellery and most young Thai buys are as useless as them with no money and no future with 15 giks who beats them.
    13. Thais are very good actos who watch soapies all day long. I am convinced they want that drama in their life. Do not hesitate to tell them they are being “Hollywood” or “Golden Globe 10 Oscars”. They understand what you are saying.

  12. Marchie February 3, 2015 at 10:18 pm #

    I bet after the interview he went back to her place and shagged her… she has the look in her eye… like please fuck me….

  13. mark April 13, 2015 at 6:06 pm #

    Not have much experience, but must say that it’s so dangerous.

    Little by little the demand of buying something / anything to her grows.
    So you don’t notice that what started as 300 baht is now 3000 usd !

    They can say anything but if you really think about it with your brains and not dic* you’ll see that it’s all lie.
    They need to get the money to the children / parents or both and they are willing to do and say anything… i mean anything.. to get the result = you giving the money to them… all you have

    It doesn’t matter if you are smelly, old, drunk or whatever, just as you have the money to give.

    Sometimes you don’t give the money, then it can be a long time scam, you’ll give it after couple years of marriage or later..

  14. Jake December 13, 2015 at 4:20 am #

    I’ve lived in BKK for 10 years, and I’ve seen many farangs including friends who visit me from back home, fall for these girls, and they use the same bag of tricks: “my father sick, accident”, “my sister university, need money” etc… and I can’t believe how many times they fall for it.

    If you need to find out what’s really going while you’re away, take a moment and think, hit me up if you have to, I’ll get to the bottom of it:


    “Sometimes you don’t give the money, then it can be a long time scam, you’ll give it after couple years of marriage or later..” very true.

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