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Thai Girlfriend Scam

Lots of guys seem to fall for this scam even a dozen guys I know read this blog are getting scammed right now. If your sending money to your Thai girlfriend this article is not to be missed! The Thai girlfriend scam is not exactly unique to Thailand but Thai women seem to either by themselves or in groups figured out how to get guys to send them crazy amounts of money for doing absolutely nothing.

The following video you’ll see a Thai girl who runs the scam and you’ll be as amazed at I am that anyone would even send her a dime. Girls like this don’t really annoy me it’s the guys that send the money that really gets to me. As the girl in this video explains the guys send her money so she doesn’t have to work in a bar, but the likelihood that she even worked in a bar is pretty low in the first place.

Thai girls like this are cunning, manipulative, and are worse than whores. In fact whores are probably a whole level above these girls because they are straight up, pay me have sex and move on. These girls just keep you around until you stop giving them money. Believe me if you aren’t with the girl all the time and your sending her money she’s going to be playing the same game with a dozen other guys all the same looking for new prey.

There are a lot of lonely guys in Thailand and I get that, like in this video one of her victoms is 65 while she is 25. Hey if i’m 65 I can totally get that but damn guys unless she’s right there taking care of you and polishing your knob at your beck and call then don’t send her 40k a month! Are you stupid?

I’m fine with finding Thai girls to sponsor,  and pay a monthly fee obviously university students are cheaper because their expectations are lower but girls over 25 I find to be more demanding and sneakier like the bitch in the video but younger girls can be just as cunning so really you have to be just as smart and sending a girl thousands of dollars a month that isn’t there to take care of you is not smart!

You ever get caught up in this scam before or know someone who has please let us know what you think or how it happened in the comments below.


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About Chris

Chris founded Living Thai and author of the books Learn the The Thai Alphabet and How to make money in Thailand also the Blueprint for Living in Thailand. Chris started this blog with the aim of educating westerners on how to have the best time in Thailand, to make new friends and to vent his frustrations Chris is also fluent in both written and spoken Thai.

12 Responses to Thai Girlfriend Scam

  1. valdi June 3, 2014 at 4:38 pm #

    Scam City BKK

  2. Mr Hoy June 3, 2014 at 5:38 pm #

    Happens all the time when you get the girls confidence or they remotely like you, they open up and tell you so much about what they get upto.

    The most blatant experience of this I have ever seen.
    I was with this girl in Ptty I’m doggying her one of the boyfriends ( had two handing over 60k a month total ) she telling him how much she loves him misses him he only man for her, he says why are you breathing so heavy and panting ?? she replies ” I’m in the rice field hard work very hot ”
    He says ok take care I speak again next week.

    At first I felt sorry for this bloke thinking I would have loved to tell him what is really going on, but then thought if he is that stupid I doubt he’d believe me anyway he’ll have to find out the hard way.
    Meanwhile I’ll just keep seeing her for free every now and then.

  3. K Spicer June 3, 2014 at 9:45 pm #

    I’ve had (engineering) friends in Thailand for over 30 years. And they tell me “Thai ladies do no sell you pu$$y (hee). They sell you problems and give you the hee. More profit that way”.

    • Chris June 4, 2014 at 12:21 am #

      Best saying I’ve heard yet! Thanks for sharing

  4. White Tiger June 6, 2014 at 11:07 pm #

    Heya Chris,

    this is quite good advice for anyone you meet in ‘tourist Thailand’.

    My girl is middle class Chinese Thai from a very strict traditional family. Has her BA and works 60+ hours per week at a major bank.

    Lived there for 9 months, had a few one month trips, even stayed in the room I helped build as an extension from their family home in Pranburi.

    I know life in BKK is expensive, and a 14.4k salary is a joke there, so I help out. Specially since her Pops had a bad car accident. He used to pay for all the big things, as her salary barely covers the essentials (not to mention she is eldest daughter and has a strong duty towards her 2 siblings)

    Even will all that, I do feel a little crazy for ‘sponsorship’ even though we are engaged. We talk maybe twice a week and those are short emails now lol :/

    Really stuck between: Not wanting to complain, as Thais kinda hate that … ultimatums .. dunno we seem to be so far apart.

    Last time there it seemed she was trying to make stronger commitments, doing a condo pre-sale, promise ring etc. Maybe afraid I had next to nothing to lose if I walked … lol

    Rambling now! You have much wisdom about all things Thai and could use a second opinion. Talked with Stickman a year ago and felt a little better, but time apart always makes me feel this way. 10,000km is so far away

    • Rocky June 11, 2014 at 4:12 am #

      “I know life in BKK is expensive, and a 14.4k salary is a joke there, so I help out.”

      Mistake.

      Lots of people live in BKK for WAAAAAY less than 14K USD a year.

      Here’s a food blogger who describes how he loved a year in BKK, with his Thai wife for 7K USD:
      http://migrationology.com/2011/07/cost-of-living-in-bangkok-thailand/

      And even if she only made 14.4K THB, so what?

      Part of Life is Living Within Your Means.

      You, sir, are what Psychologists call an “enabler”

      • Chris June 11, 2014 at 12:58 pm #

        Huh what a joke, i’ve seen that blog before and it’s a joke to say you can live on $7000 with a wife in BKK for a year, actualy read the article lots of expenses were left out. How bout you compare it with someone who spends $70,000 a year, completely different. Yes you could do it, anyone could i suppose if you had to but if you chose to your a fool.

      • Matt June 11, 2014 at 9:32 pm #

        Nah she makes 14.4k Baht per month. Her SCB overlords only repay 50+ hour weeks with training opportunities and the odd ‘end of quarter’ bonus

        Studied there for 9 months, so I know the cost of things. I could never hit Tesco without dropping 1300B, Home Pro a hair less.

        Her Toyota costs like 1400 Baht to fill up lol. 3 hrs of commuting from Samut Prakarn daily, plus her one day off is an 8 hr round trip south of Hua Hin (traffic blows hard)

        If I had no air con, and only ate questionable street food and solely used a bus .. maybe I could live for 14.4kB a month.

        That blogger is far from a ‘source of truth’ I do have to say, having a local help you shop and find a place is key. Anything advertised in English is going to be 200-300% the cost, as will be rent without a 6-12mo contract.

        even paying direct to MEA for power I dropped 2-5k a month rofl. That aircon was going 50% of the time … prob 10 years old and out of gas. 10k/month for decent condo in Thana City

        ‘enabling’ is far from accurate. Helping someone who’s duty is to help everyone else in her family, regardless of her personal needs.

        They are very selfless and most Westerners can’t even wrap their heads around duty to grandparents, younger siblings … parents who taken a turn for the worse. Something I love her for :)

  5. Mike June 9, 2014 at 5:09 pm #

    Great post Chris. Straight up and honest. Liked the comment about the hee too, accurate.

  6. TylerB June 14, 2014 at 12:34 pm #

    I laughed when girl in the video said she is 25 yrs old.
    90% of Thai women 26 yrs of age and older always say they are 25. I’ve heard it so many times from so many Thai’s woman who are obviously older.

  7. gmp360 June 17, 2014 at 5:42 am #

    I’m always amazed by how ugly the scam girls are. It’s like the guys think “well she’s not attractive, there is no way she could have other boyfriends. I must be the only one”.

    • Mr Hoy June 20, 2014 at 4:52 pm #

      LOL While your right the good lookers get plenty to don’t worry.

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