When to pay for sex in Thailand
Many Thailand newbies are hesitant about paying for sex, seems unnatural and even perverse, dirty, and most guys I know are adamant that they will never pay for sex while they are in Thailand! The reality is not if you will pay for sex when you're in Thailand but when you'll pay for sex.
People think that you only pay for sex when you're old or so ugly that you can't get anyone to fuck you so you have to pay for it. This is not the case, young good looking guys with or without money all pay for sex in Thailand, directly through cash or indirectly through gift purchases and paying their way.
The first time I personally paid for sex was from a beer bar in Pattaya when I was 15 obviously at that age I'm not really thinking too much about it, I wanted her and had to pay the bar fine, I remember I didn't give her any money at the time but bought her a gold necklace (3000 baht I was there a week). I thought that was fair, she was the same age as I. Sure that was 18 years ago things have changed and the price of the girls have gone up but it's still the same.
The first time you pay for sex is going to be the most nervous and awkward experience not because it's different than regular player sex it's more about what happens after. You're paying them to leave!
Paying for sex can become a very natural affair after a while and after 4 years here I can still walk down beach road and get sidetracked into a dark staircase to the short time room. And that's now as comfortable to me as pulling a girl from Thai Love Links.
If you're not looking for a steady relationship and you just want to bang as many young Thai Teens (or whatever your flavor) then trolling around the dating sites can become a real drag especially if you want many very quickly (like on vacation). Then why not just pay for it?
Another reason to pay for sex is if you are in a regular relationship. You can have your giks, the cake and the pie too but unless you have nothing to do it can become a real drag trying to keep all those girls in line, when you get older you just can't deal with all the bullshit anymore, instead you find an unlimited supply of fresh meat at any of the dedicated sex zones in Thailand.
Pattaya as I mentioned is one of the easiest places to get into the habit of paying for sex. When you tell the misses you're just going out to get something to eat you can leave have a quicky get some dinner and still be back in an hour your girl none the wiser. While you don't do it everyday and besides the potential health issues it's still easy to get into it.
They say that prostitution is illegal in Thailand but the chances of being caught up in a sting are a million to one. Entrapment is usually never used when it comes to sex in Thailand unless it's with underage girls so really you don't have to worry about anything to do with the law it's how to deal with it in your head.
When I'm willing to pay for sex:
- If she's worth it pay for it
- Bored and no options on the table
- When I want to play out some sort of Fantasy
Honestly I don't understand what the big deal is about paying for sex or not. I mean imagine what the girls have to think about before they delve into providing you the service. Paying for it seems well a rather easy decision.