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5 Characteristics of a Good Thai Girl

I don't think there's any guy out there that wakes up sober and sane and in the right from of mind and dreams of having a bar gril as a girlfriend. Those that do well, more power to you. But for the rest of us finding a girlfriend means we have to be careful about what kind of thai girl we're getting with. Some Thai girls are psychotic crazy jealous freaks that shouldn't be left around in a kitchen with sharp knives. Here are some traits of a good Thai girl that you should be aware of when making your decision.

1. A good Thai girl is Polite

Even if you can't speak a word of Thai you should be able to tell if she is polite or not.

2. Good Thai girls are not loud

The loud and obnoxious thai girls you should definately stay away from. Their opinions and childness will drive you to insanity. If a girl talks to you loudly then this is a good sign she's a rotten apple. But if she's sweet quiet and demuer than this is exactly the quality of good Thai girls.

3.  A Good Thai girl will Wai when first meeting you.

This comes down to being polite again. Thai people Wai to show respect for their elders. Now more than likely the girls your meeting will be younger than you so if you meet a younger thai girl for the first time and she raises her hands to Wai you then this is a good sign that she respects you and others. Because you're a foreigner it's less likely that she will Wai just because you're not Thai. However a Thai girl with a good upbringing and parents will always Wai no matter where you come from.

4. A good Thai girl will wash your clothes

For many Thai girls they don't have much, they don't have money to buy you presents or anything like that. For these girls the only thing they have to offer you is their time and whatever they can do to help. Therefore a good Thai girl will likely wash your clothes for you and in many instances demand that you allow them to do it.

5. A good Thai girl wants a real relationship

Even though good Thai girls might even sleep with you on the first date, their motives are clear and they want something real. A good Thai girl will talk more about love than about money.

Characteristics of a Good Thai Girl

Characteristics of a bad Thai girl

You can't have the good without the bad and well let's just say there is just as many bad girls as there are good girls. When it comes to good looking girls I'd say there is a 50/50 split between the good and the bad. If you meet a bad Thai girl it's honestly just best to walk away no matter how hot she is.But for some reason guys just don't listen or they are thinking to much with their dick then their brain. What happens next is a million missed calls waking up early in the morning to some psychotic Thai slag banging on your door yelling "why don't you answer my phone!?" and in some extreme jealous filled scenarios your Thai girl hires a hitman to gun you down. Don't be a statistic guys!

1. Bad Thai girls Will have sex for money

Clearly the number one trait of a bad Thai girl. Good Thai girls would never dream of whoring themselves.

2. Bad girls are weird

General weirdness and irregularity are common in bad girls. Extreme ADD induced episodes of mindless gibberish causeing you extreme. If she is weird it's not cute, she really has issues and you should stay away.

3. Bad Thai girls are lazy

Since bad Thai girls often do number one they don't see any reason to do anything else. If they need something they open their legs. You'll never get a lazy girl to wash your clothes.

4. Bad Thai girls smoke

There's a reason why nearly every girl in Pattaya these days smokes that Shi Sha crap, they're bad! In Thai society if a Thai girl smokes she's seen as a lowy by pretty much every other Thai out there. Thai's like to maintain a air of superiority about themselves but once a Thai girl starts smoking she stops caring what other people think. You want to avoid this girl because it's more than likely she won't care what you think either!

5. Loves spending your money

Unlike a good Thai girl who is frugal with your money, bad Thai girls love spending it. If anyone asks you to buy an iPhone, iPad, jewelry, expensive clothes, etc etc. Then stay as far far away from that girl as you can.

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. He has lived here for over 10 years and speaks reads and writes very good Thai.

16 Responses to 5 Characteristics of a Good Thai Girl

  1. GG September 23, 2012 at 5:45 am #

    Of course all the rules go out the window when your bag is full! D’oh!

    Good column! I would also add turns on the TV without asking on day 1 and see how far she goes wearing her shoes into your home. What Thai girl would not remove her shoes in another Thai’s home?

    • Chris September 23, 2012 at 6:12 am #

      Girl doesn’t take off her shoes immediate foot to the rear!

  2. "the kid" September 23, 2012 at 6:04 am #

    i wish you’d posted this a month ago.

    • Chris September 23, 2012 at 6:14 am #

      lol, well better late than never!

  3. Farang ngong nguay September 23, 2012 at 12:33 pm #

    One thing that I have both read and experienced with regards to “good Thai girls” is to expect the relationship with them to move forward at a glacial pace, and on her terms. As frustrating as it may seem, I have always been of the opinion that if a woman is worth having a relationship with then she is worth waiting for.

    Just my 2c

  4. Johnnie Walker September 23, 2012 at 7:21 pm #

    Its a good post and pretty accurate.

  5. John September 24, 2012 at 9:20 am #

    Having trouble writing this in between vomiting attacks and bouts of laughter. You’re taking the piss, aren’t you?

    How many neurons did it take to write this? 1?

    Hey, here’s an idea, swap the word Thai for any other nationality and apart from the waiing, it could apply to any race.

    Appropriately described on Twitter as “Possibly the worst Thailand blog post of all time”.

    Now, back to my vomiting, not laughing, wait, vomiting, oh hell, a man can choke while vomiting and laughing at the same time.

    Don’t give up your day job, unless this is your day job.

    • Chris September 24, 2012 at 9:30 am #

      So in-between vomiting and laughing and now mocking me your agreeing with everything I’m saying…hmm…how many neurons did that one take?

  6. ChiangMaiGuy September 25, 2012 at 10:52 am #

    well Thai girls are not as bad as Ghana! so that’s something right? lol

    Thais top the infidelity charts
    Published: 28/08/2012 at 04:55 PMOnline news:
    Thai men are ranked on top and their women are ranked second as the world’s most unfaithful lovers, with well over half of them admitting to frequent infidelity, according to a survey conducted by Durex, a condom producer.

    Women from Thailand are ranked the world’s second most unfaithful lovers, according to the survey report.

    The survey of 29,000 women in 36 countries names the women of Ghana the world’s most unfaithful, with 62 per cent of the women questioned there admitting they often cheat on their boyfriends and husbands.

  7. Milbrath September 26, 2012 at 12:36 am #

    A scorpion tattoo on her breast (or anywhere on her body) is also a good indication she may not be a good girl.

  8. penny June 17, 2015 at 7:12 pm #

    I’m a thai girl who grown up in thailand and move to another country for education and i absolutely disagree with some of your opinions but it’s ok i just wondering that what the foreign thinks about thai girls. Those hookers make so many problems for me in adjusting to a new place. Everyone thinks that thai girl are slut. I’m so embarrassed.

    So these is what i spotted and disagree

    ‘2. Good Thai girls are not loud’ I can say that most of the thai girls are so loud especially when we are with our friends either big or small group but we just know that where we can be speak or laugh out loud. Being loud shows that we are happy but it ups to what kind of the voice tone they use. I might not see thai girl speak so loud cause we shy or do you know this thailish word ‘keep look’ it likes making ourselves look good for the impression.

    ‘3. A Good Thai girl will Wai when first meeting you.’ Wait is how we show the respect to ‘THAI’ older people. We will wai you just if you are a powerful person ( i mean boss) or you are the foreigner who come to observe our school or work place and we are students or workers. Just keeping ourselves look so traditional lol. Remember if you are not Thai, no one(15yr-40yr) who doesn’t want anything from you wai you or they will if they are kids or old people ok?

    ‘4. A good Thai girl will wash your clothes’ yes, we did but 50 years ago. My mom doesn’t even think about washing dad’s clothes!! (excluding underwear) We don’t even wash our own clothes. All of our dresses, uniforms, suit, tie, even socks will go to the laundry shop. Or maybe some one might wash their own clothes but she must be a housewife.

    the things you should remember:
    1. Good Thai girls are not easy. We might smile back to you but don’t forgot “Thailand, land of smile” her face might get red but that’s not because they like you. it’s because there rarely foreigner smile to them. We are super friendly but we are not easy to fuck ok!

    2. Thai girls are stereotyped so bad. All of us are not slut. Sometimes our words sound so insolent (you can see from the comments(after you translated to your languages) in cute boys’s instagram or twitter) but we didn’t mean it that way! It’s just for fun between thai cause Thai language has so many word and sound so we likes to play with it. However, i know it looks so bad in your eyes.

    3. Everythings depends on where you meet them night club in southern, a-go-go, girls under the tree in sanamloung at night, a bar for western guys are slum thai people who are well educated won’t go or maybe they are the owner of that place(for business) so choose what you want. if you go to that kind of place, forget about good thai girls. **where better thai girls are in the nice place like a coffee shop, siam chilled out with friends in ‘day time’.

    4. White girls or healthy tan are better (i mean those hooker normally super skinny as the have nothing to eat, dresses likes they will die if they wear a longer piece of short, or wearing too tight clothes

    *****Good thai girls will dress normal to keep themselves away from people eyes (Thai girls like gossip)

    5. Get married first then sex. Good Thai girls don’t do one night stand or sleep with many guys. ‘They are virgin.’ cause we are taught to keep our virginity for a man we love that is mean our wedding night. As we are receiving so much western culture, we follow westerns.We believe that sex is normal for western but you guys know how to protect but we don’t so that’s suck! It is ok if your gf are not virgin but it’s still not ok for thai people eye’s.
    P.S. if your good thai girlfriend let you fuck her that means she love you so much so don’t sleep with her if you don’t think about deep relationship. let her go for a better man.

    6. Thai girls are scary! don’t you dare leave her to another women if you want to go back to your home

    7. Good thai girls don’t do dating online

    I believe that you guys are smart enough to figure out what girl you guys should go out with you can see by their appearance. thanks for reading this lol

    • Barry Tewes May 2, 2018 at 10:21 am #

      Thank you Penny, this post of yours is the most positive one I have ever read, I am 69 and about to visit Chiang Rai. I believe you have helped me with ideas that will help me find the correct lady.

      Kindest Regards.


  9. kath September 24, 2015 at 10:04 pm #

    really agree with miss.penny
    such a good explaination
    thumb up!

    but for some part..like if you meet a girl at the night club…if say so that it depend on place where u meet, yes its true ..but for some place..i think at the time they might want experience new place to have fun and not everyone that you guy meet at club will be bad!
    and its not mean you can take them home right away. so use brain man!!

    good luck too!

  10. Elizabeth April 2, 2016 at 11:11 am #

    GI bride leaves her daughter. Married many times gold digger. I see all this. Been here 30 years can’t understand what’s she saying. Started dating my father when my mother was still alive driving to the house while my mother was dying. I see all this. I think my dad has lost his mind he married her. and now house is full of her picture and took all of our family down. She is rude. and on the phone all the time talking Thai

  11. adul June 29, 2016 at 2:32 am #

    i fully appricite ur discussion about thai good lady

  12. Jezz November 27, 2016 at 1:42 pm #

    I think my circumstances are odd and a but off. I met my thai gf, in beer garden in soi 7. I sat right down to her and talked for 1 hr. Than asked if she wanted to hang. I gave her money. She works though in a jewelry shop, just was on her 1 month 1 week hoiday. Now i feel very amazed! She’s quiet, polite, doesn’t smoke or gamble. Light drinker. Is this going to last? Who knows im leaving this to the stars!

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