This is a true story actually I could write thousands of these stories because I get it over and over and over again. Normal Thai girls at first glance are respectable go to university good parents and so on, then start asking money in exchange for sex. Here’s what happened to me the other day.
Trolling the Internet like I do, looking for a one night stand at least in my mind anyway I find a bunch of email addresses and add them to my msn. Next thing you know I get a few bites from some girls and widdle it down to 1. She seems alright certainly no glamour but with my girlfriend out of town for the week I’m not too picky. So here we are chatting away giving the whole resume likes/dislikes g/f b/f routine. I tell her I havn’t had a girl for a year now and I added her because well basically i’m running a bit randy and am hoping to find someone who wants the same thing. She tells me she hasn’t had a boyfriend or any for a few years now (like I believe that she’s playing the same game as me! awesome!). So I ask her if she’s ever had a farang. Typical response I get no, never, scared, they’re big. I use the same lines as always to reassure her it’s all good and looks like she’s taken the bait. Ok, she says, sounds good, but what are you going to give me?
At this point I’m thinking OH great, this chick is on the take, so I look back over our past conversation and realise that this girl isn’t a working girl at all. She is just a normal Thai Girl university student lives by herself sponging of the oldies. Now the whole conversation was written in Thai so maybe I missed something and I ask her “What do you mean? give you? I’m gonna give you a good time.” Well she says, you know I’m going to give you sex so you have to give me something, but you don’t have to give me anything at all it’s all up to you. Umm ok well I’ll give you my piece and that’s about it I’m thinking. So I probe a bit further and she starts going on about how that if I were her boyfriend she’d expect me to take her out to the movies, buy her dinner when she’s hungry, and if she doesn’t have any money and I don’t give it to her she’s going to ask for it.
I’m starting to get annoyed at the whole conversation really because I mean really, why on earth does she think I’m going to give her anything at all and what makes her think I have any money to give her anyway. So I turn it around and ask her flat out, are you a prostitute? This girl she gets mad and says “no way are you crazy i’m not like that”. But she’s happy to ask me for money in exchange for sex but doesn’t think she is a Thai prostitute. Go figure. In the end I go see her at her place then come home took me an hour and half and cost me 100 baht for gas and condoms and the only thing I gave her was some action with her first farang. Even without any money in her pocket, in my mind she still got the better end of the stick because she didn’t spend anything and didn’t even have to leave home.
Now 100 baht lighter in the pocket I came home and started thinking about this Thai girl asking me for money. If I were a Thai guy would she say the same thing? Probably not, but then I don’t know because I’m not a Thai guy but I doubt it. So the only conclusion that I can think of is that Thai girls think that all foreigners will give them money for sex. I know I wrote an article about Thai girls not being all about money, but that doesn’t mean Thai girls don’t think that we farang all give them money.
Now could you imagine girls in Europe, America or Australia hooking up with them and them asking you for money in exchange for the goods? It just wouldn’t happen, well it certainly hasn’t happened to me. For most girls there it would be a cardinal sin to even suggest such a thing, they’ll get it discreetly but would never blurt it out. In fact I think if a girl did say that to me in California I would be hitting the delete button pretty quickly, no one wants that crap unless of course it was totally worth it and she’d have to be a pretty hot doll you know.
I don’t believe that farang have done anything to make seemingly normal Thai girls turn into prostitutes and that’s basically what this girl was trying to do. I’m thinking more that the reason why these girls keep asking me for money is because they believe that farang are willing to pay for it. Who told them this I don’t know but it can’t be their own reasoning, it must be like an old wives tale or something. However the reason it is what they think and it’s quite annoying.
In the end when a Thai girl starts asking you for money do what I do, I say well you know if you were my g/f and we were dating then sure that would be acceptable however we need to get it on first get to know one another first before we go to that step. She’ll work harder for you because she’s not getting the quick money fix but looking long term. Then turn around and say to her “well you know I met someone else. End of Story.” They seem to leave easier once you tell them your with someone else.
So guys let me know if you got a story of a girl hitting you up for money that wasn’t a Thai prostitute or otherwise on the take, what did you do once she starting hitting you up? Let me know. The comments section below is now open so you don’t have to sign in like you did before.