Thai Girls And Safe Sex
So as you know i've been giving the Thailand Dating Sites a whirl and have been coming up with some surprising results. No it's not the amount of easy available girls willing to give it all up for a bowl of noodles which i'm known for. It's the amount of Thai girls who seem to care so little about unprotected sex that safe sex doesn't seem like something they care too much about. It's not only diseases that these girls don't seem to care about they are not even on the pill.
What I havn't mentioned is that my girlfriend started her new job as a waitress at a new fancy hiso style pub and restaurant at the bottom of soi 11 and since she starts work at 4pm and finishes at 2am it's given me plenty of time to get out and try some of these girls out from ThaiCupid.Com and ThaiLoveLines.com.
So since Tuesday I've had a new girl every night and Thursday I actually had 2. All the girls were from Chiang Mai if not Chiang Rai and Phayao. All northern girls. The other girls who were from different provinces I didn't care to try out because well, they are always too easy and very warn by the Farang, and I like a bit of a challenge 🙂 Not that these girls presented much of a challenge as it turned out.
So back to the story about Safe sex and Thai girls. First there was Bree an 18 year old who is starting Uni next year waved dinner and drinks to hang out at her friends house who I managed to get out of the room to get us alone (what a nice girl). Now for an 18y/o you'd think she'd have it in her head that safe sex is the only way to do it, when I said I had to get up to get the condom she says to me (no don't worry I won't baby just put it on my stomach). Hmmm I wondered at that point what they taught these kids at school, she can't have been that far away from sex ed, then I read online that sex education is not compulsory and it's at the discretion of the school. Well she must of went to a school that didn't teach sex education.
Next was a girl 35 2 kids just moved back here from Bangkok she told me because of the floods. Her kids were still in Bangkok and really I don't like older chicks but that's all i could come up with on a Friaday night at short notice. Really not that great looking at all but she had fair skin which was OK with me. My mate came out and I didn't really think I was going to do anything we had some beers listened to the monotonous loud music they play at the bar. When my mate bailed so did I but instead of driving the girl home I just took her to Bises resort. So we get there and into the room when I realised I had no condoms and the room didn't either she says "don't worry is OK I clean can do without". Huh! What's with these girls and when a girl says that to you can you trust her? I'd rather not, had to call up for the attendant to bring me some small 60 baht or large for 80 baht!! I'll never go empty handed again!
And so tonight was my favourite was a 22 year old from Chiang Rai doing training at the Duangtawan hotel and has a boyfriend named Ben owns a bar down in the night bazaar apparently...whoops did I let that out? ouch! lol. She's the one in the photo. So I met up with her tonight I picked her up and went down to the Anusarn market for a bowl of 50 baht spaghetti she declined to eat. Bonus! She suggested to sit at Tapae gate but I thought that was a crap idea so took her to a park beside the Ping river better feel and less people. We talked about her boyfriend and my girlfriend until I got the feeling that she'd be a good candidate for the Bises. I suggested we get a few drinks and go to my place, she said forget the drinks let's just go and by the way I don't care if your girl shows up. I started to like this girl.
Now I'm sure you guys don't want to hear about all my sexual escapades about how cheap ass charlie me finds these girls tells them the TRUTH and gets it all for free without any hassles or follow up phone calls for that matter. But my whole point here was to show you how many Thai girls obviously practice unsafe sex. I mean I met these girls off the internet 1. Get them into a short time hotel in a matter of hours 2. And have sex with them on the first date 3. These are all signs of something bound to go wrong for THEM let alone me.
In the end I honestly don't think that there is a good sex education system in Thailand no wonder there are so many single mothers out there and the amount of Aids to boot. It's got nothing to do with the sex industry either think about it, all these girls I get with have nothing to do with the industry and yet they all seem to open themselves up and be overly trusting.
Next time you hook up with a Thai girl and she says she is OK going bare back think twice before you let yourself go down that road. You never know who she had before you, she ain't no virgin and if it was anything like the guys I know then your going to be in for a big surprise. Always throw on a rain coat I don't care if you've been with her with a while, even if you live with the girl! Be safe guys!
Here's some facts to chew over:
- Most Thai youth reported that their first sexual experience, whether within or outside of marriage, was without contraception
- About 70 Thai women out of every 1,000 aged 15-19 - or about 7% - already have children
- Nearly 100,000 teenage Thai girls give birth every year (this doesn't include abortions)
- Each year in Thailand Eight girls became mothers at the age of 10, 15 who become mothers at the age of 11, 75 aged 12 years old, 481 aged 13 years old, 2,781 aged 14 years old, 8,999 aged 15 years old and 19,402 aged 16 years old
- Nearly 200 teenagers under the age of 16 become mothers in Thailand every day.
- Thailand has the highest rate of teen pregnancy in all of Asia!
- 28000 people die from Aids in Thailand every year
- There are 66,720,153 people living in Thailand and 530,000 of them have aids or roughly 0.8% of the population.
- 210,000 women over the age of 15 are living with Aids in Thailand as of 2009.
I wonder if anyone else there has had similar experiences and/or agree with the results that Thai girls don't practice safe sex?