Guide to getting Thai girls for guys over 50
While I'm still 15 years away from being 50 most of the people I know personally that in Thailand age doesn't mean a thing. A lot of the mail i get from this site comes from guys over 50 so after a few thousand conversations i've got to know the difficulties that guys have shared with me, as well as how they have resolved them. For many they think that it's impossible or that Super Hot Thai girls would never be interested in them so I'm here to expose this myth and to tell you of a few experiences of mates I know who live in Thailand have girlfriends Giks and wives 30+ years their junior.
Age is all but a mindset and the first thing you should stop thinking about is your age and start thinking about hers. If you want a bubbly 20 year old then stop any contact or communication with anyone above the age of 23. Always give yourself a 3 year buffer with age because A Thai girls are never straight with their age in most cases they always add or subtract a year. Girls under 18 are likely to add a few years to their age and in most cases Thai girls will always say they are 21 when they are really 20. Being older when your younger is what most girls want because they don't like younger guys (well the majority anyway).
Contacting Thai girls can be an arduous sometimes expensive and annoying process but so is dating in general. There are millions of single Thai girls out there so if your going to find the one you want you need to show some self restraint. If the 25y/o seems very eager and you keep in contact it might be that time your wasting from getting the prize your looking for. Younger Thai girls are needy and command attention and if for one minute you stop paying her the attention she'll get bored and move to the next one. Limiting your age range helps you focus for better results.
Once you've narrowed your search down to the correct age range you need to go further still. Not all girls are into their dads or grandfathers you need to specifically find the younger Thai girls that are curious about Farang. To be more successful locate and find Thai girls on the Thai dating sites that do not live in Big cities are currently studying in University and have a simple family background. If you live in Chiang Mai look at Chiang Rai if your in Bangkok look near Nakon Pathom if your in Pattaya then look for Sattahip if your in Khon Khaen well you lucky bastard because anywhere in the isaan region is much easier the girls are much more willing.
The list of available girls should be very narrow now and you'll have more time to concentrate on the right girls. Now you have to talk and get to know these girls which is the time consuming part, ask all the regular questions but the following questions are the most important
- Have you ever had a Farang boyfriend
If she has had a Farang boyfriend before you know they have done it with a Farang before and if she is talking with you and agrees to meet you know your odds are better.
- Are you a virgin
If she claims to be a virgin immediately stop talking to her. Whether it's true or not I guess is beside the point. Virgins at 20y/o are extremely unlikely to give up anything no matter how much of a Casanova you are
- Have you had sex with a Farang before
If no one has popped her Farang cherry yet then you are looking at a winner. She has thought about it and wants to try. Thai girls are not stupid and they know you just want to poke her but did you know they want you to poke them too?
Bringing up these questions are extremely important because it plants the idea in her head. It's indirect because you may be asking her if she has had sex with a Farang before but really the question will you have sex with this Farang, asking these questions will let her know what your interested in doing without being too forward with her. University girls are the most curious of Thai girls, they want to try and experience everything, if they are in their 2nd and third year of Uni these are the most curious. They have spent a year or two away from mum and dad and are feeling more independent and starting to get bored, they want to spice things up and now have the guts to do so. This is your perfect target.
Any guy no matter age or looks can hook up with young Thai girls.
You don't have to be super good looking or even have a six pack, you can be overweight and bald and it's not going to hurt your chances too much. The girls in these areas don't often see good looking Farang men so they are going to settle for what they can find. It's not about the looks as much as it is the experience for them. I have plenty of giks that before 20 they had sex their first time with a Farang with guys in their 60's because they had spent the time to get to know them and when they were ready they were more comfortable with meeting them then the other guys who came and wrote a few messages.
If you can speak Thai you're going to have so much more opportunities than if you don't this is because the younger Thai girls who havn't been with a Farang have pretty poor speaking skills unless they study English and even then I wouldn't count on her being able to say too much. The girl your looking for isn't a city girl so she would probably not be very exposed to Farang. You don't have to be fluent but learning enough to cover you 2 hours will be plenty she can more than likely read your emails so it is only a 2 hour meeting before you hook up that you have to talk. Get enough skills to get you by.
Meeting Thai Girls
If you are 60 and one of the girls with the above requirements agrees to meet with you the hard work is over. But don't F it up now! I get with 95% of the girls I meet up with off the dating sites because I don't go for maybes. Stick only within the requires I've set out and you'll have these odds too. But you can still mess it all up by not doing the right thing when you meet her.
Before you meet make sure your cleaned up, your hair is cut and you are freshly shaved but that depends on what she likes, some girls like facial hair some don't so know your girl first. Secondly wear something appropriate, don't wear shorts with knee high socks or shorts with flip flops. Would you go on a date in the west looking like that I don't think so so why would meet up with some teen in Thailand dressed like that. Wear shoes, always wear shoes, firstly it stops your feet from cracking and in these girls live on a budget of 6-10,000 a month so just by wearing a pair of sneakers costing 2000 baht your elevating yourself in her eyes. You could wear the dumbest clothes but if you have a nice pair of shoes on she'll like it. Don't wear a shirt wear a T-shirt with jeans with a pair of clean shoes.
Now you look OK you meet the chick even if you can't say much to each other just be funny. You Thai girls are easily amused and it doesn't take much a good 20 minute time waster that makes her laugh is farm animal noises. Just ask her what a dog sounds like what a cat sounds like it's funny because the way we think they sound is different to what they think it makes her laugh and makes you look like a funny guy.
If you've done all the right things picked the right girl, wore the right things and made her roll around on the ground in hysterics then if you don't get laid then review the checklist to make sure you've done everything right.
If this guide has helped you or you have some good advice or comment to add please do so below and read our guide to online dating in Thailand.